1. Now many girls or boys will have friends of the opposite sex, and the existence of friends of the opposite sex will make their boyfriends or girlfriends very unsafe. Whether you are in a pure friendship relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend, boys will feel uneasy and lose their temper, which will not only endanger their relationship, but also make your boyfriend and girlfriend unsafe. Therefore, if you want to give your boyfriend a sense of security, you must keep an appropriate distance. Spend more time together. Keep a certain distance from the opposite sex and admit that you have a new relationship in front of the opposite sex. Don't hide your secrets, which will make the opposite sex misunderstand that you are single, will strongly pursue you, will hurt your boyfriend, and will bring a lot of insecurity to your boyfriend.
2. Encourage and praise them. Men are also insecure, and vulnerability is not a "patent" for women. In fact, men are far from as strong as they look. What comes from the other half must be their emotional needs. We should discover and praise their advantages, so as to encourage them to do better, and they will also ignore the pressure they are under. Men are not your "emotional trash can". The pressure from social roles, coupled with the pressure of work and life, may make them at a loss, so we should not ignore his efforts and efforts.
No matter how busy you are at ordinary times, when the other person needs you, you should be the first to appear in front of the other person, accompany him, and let the other person feel your love and concern for him. Of course, this kind of behavior will also bring the other person a sense of security. He knows what you think and what happened to you. Let him know what you have and then tell him first. Trust him, think about him first, share good things with him first, let him know as soon as possible if you need help, and discuss with him before any major decision.