Don't worry, if you find the host of a Buddhist temple or a famous Buddhist disciple and tell them what you need, they will help you convince your girlfriend. Believing in Buddhism alone is different from learning and asking for it.
Solve the problem of vegetarianism first. In fact, you can't switch to vegetarianism immediately without learning Buddhism. Because you don't have that skill and blessing, a vegetarian monk meditates, holds scriptures and spells, and has special effects, which can make the body digest, absorb and utilize at a height that ordinary people don't have. The body's metabolism reaches a state close to that of children during blessing or qigong operation, and various reactions such as detoxification, conditioning, transportation and synthesis can be improved. If you think about the previous herbivorous dinosaurs that only ate plants, you know that they didn't have to eat meat. However, it is good for believers who practice Buddhism without correct guidance to eat three golden meats.
It is meaningful to learn Buddhism, but it is extremely inappropriate to believe in Buddhism, worship, or live with a little knowledge! Learning Buddhism is not reading books, and people are also confused, stubbornly insisting and not seeking truth. Science and Buddhism do not interfere with each other, and the accommodation between law and law is for perfection. The simplest test of learning Buddha is the couplet next to the statue of Amitabha: "Honesty, purity, peace, enlightenment and sadness;" The concept must be seen through, let go, be comfortable, follow the fate, and accumulate virtue. "
Buddhism is the teaching of Buddhism. It is a departure from Buddhism to teach the truth of being a man, to be numb to faith, to worship, not to learn the truth of being a man, and not to be in harmony with people. Buddhism hopes that learned people can live in harmony with others and not cause others' disgust and sadness. It is correct for bodhisattvas to worship and support the buddhas, just like worshipping teachers, to do well at ordinary times and then come back to thank the teachers for their gratitude. This is really benefiting from his life, living a happy life and not owing anyone. This is the real benefit.
According to my brief understanding, after seeing the real multi-dimensional space world with great magical power, the Buddha came to six metempsychosis. There are ten dharma circles in China and Tibet (Baidu can find them), learned that we earthlings are in six metempsychosis, and then recorded what he saw about how to be a man and where to be born in the next life. A single paradise, this paradise is based on the current scientific point of view. It is above the center of our galaxy, with 28 floors, the first floor. And according to the requirements of the disciples at that time, I left many ways to help all beings in the ten dharma circles. Finally, I hope that people on earth will cherish their personal lives, learn from Buddhism and aspire to become a Buddha, because the realm of Buddhism is better than others. So what do you need to do to become a bodhisattva? How to keep the precepts? This is Buddhism, the most basic meaning I understand.
Therefore, the key point is not to pay homage or to be a vegetarian. The point is to understand why you are a vegetarian: I hope you don't practice killing for taste. You can eat three refined meats, and Baidu can find them at once. The key point is to understand why you go to the temple: learn from the teacher's teaching, do what the teacher teaches, reap the benefits of life, visit the teacher with gratitude, and cultivate all kinds of compassion, filial piety, respect and inferiority, and so on. All buddhas and bodhisattvas know this.
Finally, I want to tell the landlord whether there are buddhas or bodhisattvas. It is the limitations of our human nature that make us suspicious. Isn't science seeking truth from facts? Isn't it a good cat to talk about white cats and black cats catching mice? Yes! The quickest way to prove the truth in practice is to choose a scripture such as Tibetan Scripture, a Buddha named Nanwu Guanyin Bodhisattva, or a mantra such as Six-character mantra, and keep repeating it every day. Recite 654.38+ 10,000 times seriously or 300,000 times not very seriously, and you will know, experience and verify that it is your real experience.