Then I often want to learn a lot, but I don't have a good plan and time allocation. I signed up for a lot of classes, so I turned on the computer and began to talk about drama if I wanted to attend classes. Although I want to learn everything, no one can learn well and make a difference. I didn't concentrate mentally, so I didn't really make pharmacy solid.
My English is not good either. Recently, I found that some jobs or companies want to go, but my English is not good enough. I want to plan my future life well, but I don't know myself clearly, and I don't know how to start now.
? -Sissy.
These are the exact words, basically unchanged. Later, in the communication with her, I found that she still knows her interests better. Now she is looking for a job, and her major doesn't seem to match her interests, so she will be confused.
In her description, there are many things that deny her ability. I think it's more important for her to find her core competence, build up self-confidence, and then select a more suitable work direction according to her own abilities and values. If she persists in her interest, she can also explore the possibility and ways to develop her interest into a career, and make a summary after combing.
I want to learn everything and I don't know what I can do.
First of all, in her description, we can see her anxiety when she is about to graduate. In fact, it's not just freshmen, but all ages will have such problems. Is there anxiety on the plate? There must be. How did the anxiety come from? Too much desire and too little ability. Or just because the path is single and dependent. But on the other hand, anxiety is to see your own shortcomings, and anxiety will progress.
Solve your most important problem at present first.
1, can you graduate smoothly?
2. If you have the opportunity to engage in pharmacy, will it be one of your own considerations?
In fact, from the communication, she found that she didn't reject pharmacy, but she chose to escape because she didn't learn well. She said she has another interest in Chinese medicine. Unfortunately, my major is western medicine. If I had a job in Chinese medicine, I would want to go, but I just don't like the pure operation of picking herbs.
Oh, in the final analysis, it's because picking up medicine has no sense of accomplishment, but in the final analysis, pharmacy is definitely not just picking up medicine, or do you think you only have the ability to pick up medicine?
I said, there are only three options.
1, engaged in pharmacy
2. Find an artist and start with Xiaobai.
3, the curve saves the country, first employment and then choose a job.
She said, let's choose the third plan, which is also the way we are going now.
I said, well, we have to start giving up something.
I've met all kinds of people. I want to be a manager, a director and refuse to do a job I don't like. So I squeezed myself into the gap between reality and dream.
In fact, your dream is not as important as you think. When you don't realize it, it's just entertainment at best. What people fear most is that they have no choice. They just graduated, and they have no choice.
First, strive to develop the career line, find other living fulcrum, and then slowly switch back to the dream field when the career development is stable. For example, Da Bing, such as Lu Xun, are the most reliable role models.
Or you don't really like education and comics, but you like being influential, otherwise you won't be so unfocused. Find the node, the goal will be there, and then the plan will appear.
Some people say that young people always think too much and do too little. Sometimes we feel anxious, not because we really need some knowledge, but because we think we need it. But in fact, it is far more important to temper professional ability than to reserve all kinds of knowledge.
Everyone's time and energy are limited, so we may not be able to do everything well and master many fields.
Second, it seems that the major and interest do not match.
If you start over, not only will your years of hard work be in vain, but even your hard-earned major will be lost.
If I continue to work in this industry, I will spend a lot of time facing a bunch of boring things in the future, and I don't know if my work will improve. Many people who have done well in their careers have nothing to do with their previous majors or wool.
I don't know what I want to do, because you dare not.
If you know exactly what you want to do, that's your direction and goal. If you don't know what you want to do, consider doing your work to the extreme.
Around achieving the perfect goal, you can probably understand what you should learn, do and think.
For example, animation from the media can not be done with enthusiasm. In addition to superb skills, we need to have a deep understanding of the whole dragon painting market, such as how to create our own characteristics, how to publicize and promote, how to conduct public relations with key customers, how to boost staff morale, how to expand business scope and so on.
And these, trying to sharpen us around the past workplace, is precisely the only way. For a small white who lacks business thinking, has never taken a team and has never done marketing, there is still a long way to go to succeed.
Just graduated, the workplace has just begun. Young, the cost of trial and error is high, and the basic route is like this.
1, medicine is just a spare tire, but it is the only way to go at present. Take care of this spare tire.
2, amateur do what you are interested in, first do depth, drill a point, and then, accumulate enough customers (or fans), mainly to accumulate professional confidence.
3. Slash lines haven't been done enough to stand on the ground, so explore in parallel. There are also people who do Patent examiners in enterprises during the day and go to bars to be bands at night.
When the time is ripe, you can stop the profession of medicine and make an explosion with your own expertise. Or diagonal development, happy. If you need it.
Are there any majors that don't match your interests, but you do well? Yes, such as Feng Tang and Zhang Hongjie.
Many certificates only show that you have completed a set period of study, and whether you can engage in this industry or become a professional in the future has little to do with this paper certificate. More importantly, you can devote yourself wholeheartedly and practice diligently in the later period.
Many people think that interest is just their own genes or because of external factors. In fact, it is not so much a talent as a skill. Work itself can't make us happy. What really makes us happy is to do our work well. Finding what you want to do and can do well as soon as possible will undoubtedly put our cause on the track of benign development.
In the next five years, think about it. be what you wanna be What do you think of yourself in your heart? Crucially, this decision is in our own hands, not elsewhere.
Go on the road first, don't do it, it's just an egg.
After investigation, Xixi finally made clear what he wanted to do.
The state has been greatly improved than before, and the study is gradually on the right track. ...