I don't listen to others, I only listen to you.

"I don't listen to others, I listen to you." In fact, many online rumors can spread, not because most people don't have the ability to distinguish, nor because rumors are disguised too well to be true or false. But mainly because rumors meet two convincing conditions. ? First of all, this rumor has nothing to do with the people watching it. Whether it's all kinds of dog blood incidents of a hot figure or news about who seized the 6G patent, it's just a pastime for most spectators. Even though most people think it may be a bit outrageous or fabricated after reading it, there is no time to prove it, so be it! If you change the scene, it is rumored that the school district you are going to buy may be kicked out of the school district. You won't believe it so easily, but you will always chase the phone of the Education Bureau. So you see, when it comes to the crunch, everyone knows how to prove the authenticity of a thing, but many people are too lazy to prove it. ? The second main factor is that this rumor meets the expectations of spectators, and many spectators are willing to believe this fact. ? This is what we often call a preset position. Please note me in the Six Classics. I first expressed my opinion that I wanted to believe, and then I waited for the relevant rumors to come to me, and then I believed it. This kind of incident often happens in American elections and other similar events. I first believed that the old white stare was not a thing, and then there was a scandal that might be a rumor. Great! Therefore, the reason why rumors spread quickly is not because it is difficult to distinguish, but because most people are too lazy to verify. Laziness is the greatest human nature. ? I was excluded because of rumors. I was very exclusive at first, and I always wondered what happened to myself. Why is that good friend avoiding me like a snake and a scorpion? In order not to deceive me, I regard her as a good friend, so I can't help thinking about what I did wrong and what happened to me repeatedly, but I can't find the reason for my powerlessness. I'm so sad that my good friend turned a blind eye to her. She has a good interpersonal relationship in the class, and the people sitting with her have alienated me. Sometimes several people in my class alienate me. Later, from ignoring to saying bad things, I always let you know that I am talking about you, like two people in my dormitory hate me (I used to be in a circle with my good friends). A girl just watched me pass by, greeted the other one in front of me, said she had something to say to her, and was embarrassed to call her. Two people are echoing each other and three people are in the dormitory. Is it interesting? ! ! I was very grumpy at first, and I really want to say that I am not happy. Say it. I am really unhappy with you. It's embarrassing to find that their interpersonal relationship is better than mine. Later, this xenophobia became a rumor. I once told someone that I couldn't defend myself and wouldn't believe me. I used to think that so many people hated you for pushing you out, so there must be something wrong with you, ignoring that everyone has herd mentality. When a person just doesn't like you, your last name, the brand of sanitary towel you use and the color of the sheets are all reasons why she hates you. At that time, I was in a particularly bad mood and would go with others, but this feeling of pretending that I was not alone was too uncomfortable. I don't want to pretend to blend in with their circle. When I started walking alone, I felt very comfortable without socializing. I go to school in other places, so I can't go home on weekends? Walking alone takes place on weekends. Most of them are ok at ordinary times, and the relationship around them is good. Whether the relationship between primary school and junior high school is good or not, I think I am quite good. I am not a lonely person. I have several good friends to accompany me, believe me and encourage me to spend the worst time. A good friend of mine told me that low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude, and loneliness will not ruin a person. "I don't listen to what others say, I only listen to what you say" is the gentlest thing I have ever heard. This is what my friend told me when I was attacked by rumors. Of course, this sentence also went viral on the Internet for a while. There are really some people who won't experience rumors.