After the incident, the suspect Lu Moumou called the police himself and waited for the police to arrive at the crime scene.
Money is the fuse and love is the root. The suspect is Lu Moumou, 29 years old, from Shaoxing, Zhejiang. The victim is Zhang, female, aged 3 1, from Shiyan, Hubei. The two used to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but later they broke up for various reasons.
To say that men and women are free to fall in love and break up is also free, which means that breaking up was not free at that time, because many things were involved in love, and the contradictions caused by breaking up were more normal.
This is not only because of emotional investment, but also because of the entanglement of money.
It is reported that the fuse that triggered this conflict originated from 20,000 yuan. Maybe during their love, Lv Moumou once "borrowed" Zhang 20,000 yuan. Why should I quote the loan here? Because in reality, many men and women in love are not very concerned about money (at least in love), and they are not so clear.
The reason why we don't value money so much is because we borrow money in the hope that we can get together in the future. If we can get together smoothly, it doesn't matter if we put the property together or not.
But somehow, Lu Moumou and Zhang finally failed to be together.
For Lu Moumou, people don't get it, and money has to be recovered. He also paid his love for Zhang. The original "loan" was voluntary by Lu Moumou, not forced by himself. Therefore, 20,000 yuan has become a fatal fuse.
On the day of the incident, Lu Moumou once again asked Zhang for the 20,000 yuan, and there was a fierce quarrel because of another dispute between the two sides. Lv Moumou, who couldn't control his emotions, suddenly took out a fruit knife prepared in advance and stabbed Zhang crazily. It is reported that he stabbed more than 40 times before and after, causing Zhang to die on the spot.
Twenty thousand dollars is not much to say, but it is not much to say. I think the main reason why Lu Moumou is so crazy and cruel is that he doesn't handle his own emotional problems well, and the stimulation of money makes Lu Moumou do something crazy.
During love, try not to use each other's money, not to mention the popular bride price before marriage. It's "unfair" for men to spend money when they are alone in love. When men pursue women, they feel that it is natural to spend money. Under the control of this general cognition, if men are unwilling to spend money on women during their love, it seems that the chances of pursuing success are not high.
This is the reason why conflicts are easy to occur. Men don't want to invest money but get nothing in the end, while women (some of them) don't have deep contacts with men who don't want to spend money for themselves.
Equality between men and women seems a bit ironic here, but it is a naked reality. You can say that women are realistic, but from the perspective of women, they don't want to invest everything and end up with nothing.
For a pair of lovers who are moving towards the same goal, everything is not a problem, but if one party's goal changes and the other party can't accept this change, the two sides will be involved in money disputes, and the contradictions will often intensify indefinitely.
So I think both men and women should try not to use each other's money, no matter what form.
Even if you don't need to do AA system, you can give and take, which is fair to both sides on the premise of not owing to each other, and can also avoid some unnecessary troubles or contradictions.
There is indeed an atmosphere in society. If a man wants to catch up with a woman, it may not be enough to attack emotionally, but also to add material things, otherwise it will be difficult to succeed. If we can improve this atmosphere, I think the probability of similar things will be reduced.
Rational people know which is more important. An irrational person just wants to be happy for a while. For 20,000 yuan, Lu Moumou brutally killed Zhang. From the tools he prepared in advance, to the cruelty of the means of committing crimes, and then to the serious consequences, he meets the basic elements of intentional injury.
Even after the incident, he took the initiative to report to the police and turned himself in, but the result was irreparable and he had to pay a heavy price for his actions.
A fresh life disappeared. Perhaps in Lu's view, his anger was vented, but after venting, it was endless regret. No one can ignore the disappearance of life from his own hands and be indifferent. Many criminals often begin to fear and regret after being calm, but it is too late.
It's easy to distinguish a moment from a lifetime, but for irrational people, when they can't control their emotions, a moment is more important than a lifetime. A rational person will clearly distinguish that the "value" of an instant is far lower than the value of a lifetime.
If the money is gone, you can get it back through legal channels. If you can't get it back, you can earn it again. But illegally depriving others of their lives has no chance of recovery. Once you take that step, you will either pay the price of personal freedom or perish together with your life.
Emotional management is the need of everyone's life. You must not let emotions control your reason. From small to old, everything can't be smooth sailing. The basic principle of dealing with problems is not to violate the law. This is a cross-step.