No matter where in the world, there are people living a hard life, but do they all believe it? Happy days will always come. ? In China, there is such a father? Ding Shangbiao, who went to new york to study medicine for his daughter, is willing to work in a foreign country for fifteen years, because he always believes that his daughter will live a good life with her dreams, and the moment when her dreams come true is his happiest time. Although he was eventually banned from entering Japan for life.
If it weren't for a documentary filmed for ten years more than ten years ago. Life with Tears, we may never know that in China, a father struggled alone in a foreign country for his dreams and family 15 years. Whether in China or in Japan, this tearful documentary has achieved super-high ratings.
Ding Shangbiao was originally a junior high school graduate in Shanghai, but because of his untimely birth, he had to go to the countryside in Anhui to be an educated youth. When he had the opportunity to return to Shanghai again, he found himself unable to follow in their footsteps. First, because he is not young, and second, because he doesn't have any skills to make money, he has completely become the bottom of Shanghai.
But he is not satisfied with living at the bottom of society. He saw the information of a Japanese language school in the newspaper he bought for fifty cents, and he moved his mind to go to Japan for further study. He ran around borrowing money and finally made up enough money for his tuition. He felt very sorry for his married wife and his daughter who had just entered elementary school, but fortunately, his wife supported him in pursuing his dream, so he resolutely set foot on the road to Japan.
What he didn't expect was that as a foreigner, it was very difficult to survive in Japan and he had to pay tuition, so he quickly changed his mind. He doesn't want to continue studying, but makes money day and night, because he wants his daughter to realize his dream instead of himself. He believes that through his own efforts, his daughter can definitely study abroad.
In order to fully cultivate her daughter, Ding Shangbiao took several jobs alone. He goes to work every morning and doesn't walk home until there is no last bus in the morning. Moreover, in order to save money, he lived in the cheapest single room and didn't take a shower, so he had to take a shower with plastic sheets after coming home from work every day. It is conceivable that a lonely man, without his wife around to take care of his life, has to work multiple jobs by himself, which is so difficult and lonely.
His visa to Japan has expired. In Japan, he is a veritable one? Black households? , if he? Black households? When the identity was discovered, the problems faced ranged from fines to fines, and they were sent back to China and could not enter Japan again; Or go to jail.
But he didn't want to go back to China just like this, because returning to China meant that he could never come to Japan to make money again, so he made up his mind? I must stay until my daughter graduated from national cheng kung university. Especially after his daughter was successfully admitted to new york State University, he did more than before, because the tuition was very expensive, and he had to do more work to support her tuition and life.
However, his own life is very difficult, but he has no regrets. Ding Shangbiao, who is only in his forties, has lost a lot of teeth like a white-haired old man because of years of fatigue. I believe that anyone who sees it will be full of heartache.
During his fifteen years working in Japan, he met his daughter and wife. Meeting her daughter means that her daughter will stay in Japan for 24 hours on her way to school in the United States, but Ding Shangbiao, who has no ID card, is not qualified to meet her daughter at the airport and can only make an appointment? In the twilight? Meet at the construction site.
Father and daughter who haven't seen each other for more than ten years, at the moment they saw each other, they didn't cry, but looked at each other and said simple words. ? Why is your hair white?
Especially Ding Shangbiao, bloodshot eyes, has been deeply staring at the daughter just around the corner. He wants to engrave her appearance in his heart forever and become the driving force for his continued struggle. Ten hours later, the time came when they had to part. After a window, they can no longer be strong and cry.
Ding Shangbiao met his wife in the thirteenth year of working in Japan. In this year, his wife can stay in Japan for 72 hours in order to visit her daughter in America. Ding Shangbiao specially planned the route to pick up his wife on the subway, hoping to use the money he earned to accompany his wife out and buy her something nice.
From the moment he saw his wife, he kept smiling at her. From his eyes, he saw not only full of love, but also countless lovesickness. However, parting came as suddenly as a brief encounter with my daughter, as if time had gone back. After a window, the two men cried into tears?
Seeing this, you must know why this documentary is called Life with Tears, because all three of them spent the past 15 years in tears of parting and missing. But in the end, they finally got a happy ending. After her daughter graduated from doctor's degree, Ding Shangbiao finally returned to her motherland after fifteen years' absence.
However, the road to return home is also extremely difficult, because it means that he? Black households? Is likely to be revealed. Dante Shangbiao didn't want to hide his illegal residence status any more, so he asked a lawyer to apply for a legal return visa for him. On 15, the lawyer learned about his experience of illegal detention and advised him not to ask for trouble.
Because according to Japanese law, he will serve at least three years in prison. But he still sticks to his idea, because he is fearless, and his daughter Ding Lin has become a famous obstetrician and gynecologist, living a happy life.
Fortunately, this documentary is also very popular in Japan. When checking in, the customs officers were shocked to see Ding Shangbiao's passport, and then quickly calmed down? Stamp it and pay tribute to him with gestures. However, according to Japanese law, Ding Shangbiao can't step into Japan with him for fifteen years in his life, but these are nothing compared with his daughter's happiness.
I believe there are still people complaining in this world. Will there be others? Someone was born at my finish line? This sentence is your own label, why not think about why others can get all this? Those can? Hit dad? Some people can only show that father lives a hard life that you can't imagine.
What each of us does is not complain about the unfairness of the world, but understand that time is fair to everyone. What we need to do is to do what we should do in a limited time. Even if we can't realize our dreams, we have the responsibility to help our children realize their dreams.