0 1 Mr. Zhang, 3 1 year-old wants love but can't, because he has to pay attention to his wife.
After getting married, I have a warm home. Everything about Wan Li was clear until I met her. She is a sister in the enterprise. She is beautiful and likes to laugh. Moreover, because I get along well, when I eat in the enterprise canteen after work in the afternoon, because I always sit at the same table with her and some other friends, I find that we talk a lot, and gradually she becomes my confidant. I don't want to tell my wife about my unsatisfactory work. Although she is a junior, she always guides me. After a long time, I found that I liked her a little. But it is impossible to love her, because I also have a wife and family. In order to respect my wife better, I have to try to suppress this emotion and prevent it from growing again, so it is also very painful.
Response: People are small animals with magnetic induction, and staying for a long time will cause emotions. If a boy has a confidant, one of the most likely results is that he can't love, and he can't love even if he wants to. This is really sad. In order to better prevent your conscience from being tortured, it is best not to have such a confidant.
Mr. Zou, who fell in love at the age of 35, had an extramarital affair and regretted it.
I met my bosom friend when I was on a business trip in a different place, so I met her when I was sitting opposite her in a noodle restaurant. I left my contact number when I found out that she was from the same town. When I come back, she often calls me and sometimes meets me. I was really a good friend at first, and I met her several times through chatting, so I took her as my bosom friend. However, after that, I had a good impression on her. Although I have been trying to persuade myself not to cheat, I still can't help myself. They had an affair in a hotel, and then my cautious wife knew that if they divorced me every day, this family would not be a harmonious and happy one, and there would be disputes every day. I feel particularly regretful.
Response: Most boys are in love with their confidantes, and the chances of being at a loss for a long time are quite large. The development from confidante to extramarital affairs is also a very common result. I don't know if boys will regret it if their families are ruined because of extramarital affairs.
Mr. Zeng, a 28-year-old wife, also knows each other and has a good relationship.
After I got married, I did my duty to my family, so I lived well. I am a criminal defense lawyer, and I usually meet a lot of people. A female client came to me to fight a dispute over economic development. After a while, everyone got along well and became an excellent opposite sex. Everyone can talk to each other about their daily troubles, so we can really talk about everything. I regard her as my confidant and introduce her to my wife in detail. I never keep secrets from my wife when I get along with her, so my wife knows her and has a good influence on each other. My wife never quarrels with me easily because she is my bosom friend.
Response: After marriage, the husband has a confidant, and the wife knows that it is rare for three people to get along well, but it is not. Women are very concerned about their confidantes, but if a man can show his due limits on his own initiative, women may not be easy to be open-minded.
According to the above analysis, we know that after marriage, boys often have the above three results, of which the first two results are the most common and the latter one is rare. Therefore, after marriage, it is too easy for boys to make a big deal out of their wives' homes or not to meet confidantes casually.