Generally speaking, it takes at least 10% of the property of both parties and 1-2 years to get a result that is not necessarily beneficial to you. Why not meet halfway, let go as soon as possible and find your own happiness?
The divorce cases I have handled for many people are all settled in the negotiation stage. Originally, the two sides had to spend tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands, which delayed for a year or two. I help them1-20,000, even for free. And most of both sides are satisfied, because this is the result of negotiation.