At about 22:00 in the evening, after many people had gone to sleep, a fire broke out in a community in Chenghua District. The fire burned through five floors. The fire brigade and police rushed to the scene. This was another case of wife murder. The man, Yin Du, set fire to his ex-wife Xu's home on the 14th floor of the community and then committed suicide by jumping off the building. Xu was buried in the fire. Their daughter narrowly escaped death because she went to a neighbor's house.
According to rough statistics, this is already the Nth wife-murder case this month.
On June 15, a man in Neijiang, Sichuan, killed his wife with a knife during their divorce. The woman died after unsuccessful rescue efforts; in the early morning of June 21, the criminal suspect Feng Moumou returned to Beiliu from Foshan, Guangdong due to family conflicts. He killed his wife with a prepared dagger at their home in Shanyang Village, Shanyang Town, Shanyang City. He fled in fear of crime and was arrested four days later.
On the same day as the arson case in Chenghua District, a murder case also occurred in a community in Yuhuatai District, Nanjing City. Because the relationship was opposed by the other party's family, the ex-girlfriend talked about the relationship with others. A post-90s master's degree student who worked in Hangzhou came to Nanjing, killed the woman in her residence, and set fire to the bed in the room.
In just one month, four vicious murders of wives and girlfriends occurred across the country, causing extremely bad social impact. In today's era, when the marriage and birth rates are declining and the divorce rate remains high, vicious events that occur in intimate relationships are undoubtedly an important driver of young women's fear of marriage and childbearing.
Why do emotional disputes frequently lead to murders? As the vulnerable party, how should we be vigilant and protect ourselves? In fact, before the final result comes out, it is difficult for us to judge its potential danger. Even if we know it well, due to various factors, it is difficult for a strong man to cut off his wrist and cut it in two.
In many cases of emotional disputes, some are motivated by jealousy, some are motivated by revenge, and some are even motivated by economic factors, such as insurance fraud. The factors that influence the motivation for killing are so complex that it is difficult to find cheat sheets or standard answers for prevention and avoidance. Due to various emotional factors, the parties involved are unwilling to use malicious speculation on their partners, and it is easy to push themselves into the abyss when they are indecisive.
After a vicious incident occurs, emotional disputes often become reasons for lenient sentences. In the sensational case of Li Changkui, the Yunnan High Court changed the death sentence to a suspended death sentence on the grounds that "Li Changkui and the victim Wang Jiafei had an emotional dispute." In another vicious murder case in Yunnan - the case of Serui killing Wu Qian with 27 knifes, the emotional dispute was also treated leniently. One of the reasons. In public opinion, emotional disputes are often referred to as "household affairs." Even in homicide cases, there are many people who vilify the victim on the grounds that "one slap cannot make a difference."
The bloody horror of emotional disputes seriously threatens vulnerable groups in intimate relationships.
For the parties involved, do not be dazzled by the sweetness of love in an intimate relationship, but must know how to recognize people. Many extremely evil people try their best to hide it, but they will also reveal it unintentionally in the details. For example, pointing fingers at service staff, disrespecting parents, and being physically abusive during quarrels. If you really encounter it, you must stop the loss in time and don't deceive yourself because of your past love. Especially for those who have violent tendencies, it is difficult to quit just because of one or two times. If there is personal danger, be sure to seek help from relatives, friends and the police in time.
From the perspective of judicial practice, grassroots police cannot simply attribute vicious cases to household matters. Many domestic violence incidents occur when repeated calls to the police are ineffective and difficult to identify. With the introduction of the divorce cooling-off period, judicial organs should also speed up the protection measures for women, improve the identification rules of domestic violence and threats in actual implementation, and provide timely legal aid and personal protection to women who are threatened by physical threats, otherwise they will divorce A cooling off period can only become a death cooling off period.
At the same time, in terms of public opinion and media orientation, do not publicize vicious incidents as emotional disputes. Murder is murder, and arson is arson. The emotional relationship between the parties cannot change the viciousness and criminal attribution of the incident. Only by breaking the vicious cycle of "honest officials having trouble handling household chores" can we truly see clearly the bloody horror of intimate relationships and give women more social security.
Everyone enters love with longing and hope, but not everyone can get perfect results in love.
Love is a wonderful blessing, not an excuse to sin. Only by facing up to the risks and crises in intimate relationships can we embrace love with a more peaceful mind and a more open attitude.