After reading it, I was speechless and full of thoughts. I want to cry, but I feel empty, as if someone had pulled my spirit out.
Who on earth wrote this eternal swan song by Cao Xueqin?
The theory of "returning tears" leads to this bad debt. I don't know how many times I found a marriage, but my dream was broken and I burst into tears.
Who can escape this fate when the song is over?
I really don't know what to say.
A dream of red mansions is really a dream, a nightmare.
After reading a dream of red mansions, I felt a little sad. Suddenly I felt that what Qin said to Xifeng was really reasonable: "The full moon is a loss, and the water is full." Nothing in the world can be "safe forever". Just like this dynasty, it always goes from the early stage to the peak and then to the decline. Since the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Qin Shihuang has unified the six countries of Han, Three Kingdoms, Jin, Northern and Southern Dynasties and Sui. The same is true of the little things around us. There are always smooth and dark periods in life, so life gives people a feeling of full flavor ... Some people often feel that life is miserable, but without it, how can they feel the happiness when success comes? If a dude only knows how to have fun until he dies, he will regret it before he dies. "Life is short, and I still have nothing to do." . The decline of my family is not a bad thing. Before I die, I can at least say, "Because I have lived such a lonely life, my life has not been in vain."
Speaking of mediocrity, I'm dead in my life. You have to ask, fame and fortune. I remember the "good song" written by Yin Shi at the first time. "Everyone knows that immortals are good, and fame cannot be forgotten; Where will the past and present be? A pile of grass on the wasteland is missing. Everyone knows that immortals are good, but gold and silver can't forget them; In the end, I only hate getting together, but I close my eyes for a long time. ..... "Very serious, just like being famous. If you don't get fame, you don't have to die. You have to die in the end. In the next life, who cares if you are Qin Shihuang or Han Wudi? Not to mention that others "ask whether ancient and modern leaders can still exist?" Just an empty name and respect from future generations. "You're welcome, respect, from ancient times to the present, those famous corrupt officials and treacherous court officials, Lv Buwei, Qin Gui, Wu Sangui, Ao Bai ... are also historic masterpieces. In fact, their intelligence, courage and courage of not fearing fate also have some merits. Fate arranged for them to be cruel after all. The death brought cheers from heaven and earth, and people were scolded after death. This is their sorrow, and it is also the sorrow of that society. Is this the standard of good and evil?
In fact, the standards of justice and evil are still very vague. I can say, "everyone has their own ideas, so I can only say that they have established an unscientific outlook on life." What they did is not necessarily as shameful as we thought. Maybe they are like Chu Zhuangwang, addicted to debauchery for three years, with ulterior motives. Maybe we just let history blind us. Although the possibility is extremely small, this idea cannot be ruled out. After all, these are all things of the past, and there is no way to verify them. ...
I really appreciate their fearlessness to God and destiny. Even in today's society, who can really be dissatisfied with the arrangement of fate and challenge it? Think about the society, most people still hope that saints and immortals will appear and rescue them from the crisis, which seems to be less than these corrupt officials and treacherous officials.
So what did these corrupt officials and traitors do wrong? Where is the failure? -I think so. I haven't thought long enough. Like Lv Buwei, what if he gets the throne? Maybe I will feel more empty and eventually die. "It's ridiculous. In the end, I was making wedding dresses for other girls! "
So don't do anything, after all, you are still making wedding dresses for others.
Actually, you can't think so. In this life, many things are helpless. Personally, I think a person's life can be summed up in three words: "alive." How can you live without doing anything? Everything comes at a price. You study and find a good job. You work for the money you need to live. Money makes people live well, and you can't live without it. It suddenly occurred to me that some people think that the former is dirty or dirty. Why use it? Even if it is dirty, why do you need to live on it? I don't think money is dirty. Money is only an object, and people who use it are unbearable, so it is shameful. "Fame and fortune" is just a means of exchanging money. In life, as long as you make money, you want to live. Corruption means taking for yourself what others should pay for. There is nothing wrong with living a better life in a proper way. Even if it looks luxurious in the eyes of others, so what? This is bought at a price, earned after paying, and earned bit by bit. This is to make yourself more comfortable, and luxury is voluntary. No problem. So in order to survive, we must make money. If you always want to make wedding clothes for others, don't live at all. After all, only a few people can enjoy the life who sees through the world of mortals. Since there are many things you can't let go, don't let go and waste your time. "Saints" also need the lining of "mortals".
I have a lot of dissatisfaction with the ending of A Dream of Red Mansions, but someone said to me, "Since you are dissatisfied, Lin Daiyu finally died with regret and Jia Baoyu became a monk, what do you think is the perfect ending?" Indeed, I am very dissatisfied with each other's death. The other party is also a rebellious character, who just wants to show his talents all day, which violates the old saying that "a daughter without talent is a virtue". There is no doubt about each other's talents in the article. I really admire her and her rebellion. But why can't she rebel to the end? Grandmother Jia has always loved her, especially Baoyu. They want to get married, but Jia Mu doesn't necessarily object. Instead of fighting for it, she looked for trouble and was so angry. Come to think of it, she is always suspicious, and even if she marries Baoyu, she will inevitably get angry. It's not like Feng can drown his sorrows in wine. How can she have such a mouth with Jia Mu? Her strength is so meager that she is not as popular as Baochai in Jia's family after all. Baochai is a smooth and likable person. Finally, she couldn't get rid of her parents' instructions and married Baoyu. In the end, she lived alone, which made people feel a little sorry. "Jin Chai was buried in the snow." Except Baoyu, he finally saw through the world of mortals and became a monk. Is becoming a monk really the best ending? If so, the world will become a monk. My idea is too extreme. "If you die, I will become a monk." It indicates all this, as if everything is fixed and cannot be changed. What I am dissatisfied with is that Bao and Dai still can't escape the bondage of fate. The man said to me again, "Baoyu, you didn't become a monk for Daiyu. What can Baoyu do without becoming a monk? Go after fame and gain? " Yes, in terms of fineness, this is the best ending for Baoyu. He has lost his fame and fortune, which means nothing to him. Seek fame and gain, let history repeat itself, and watch your descendants perform this Dream of Red Mansions again? He doesn't seem to be free from the bondage of fate, but fate can no longer bind him. He became a monk not for each other, but for himself. Different from the secular, he is carefree and sees through the world of mortals. The man also said to me: "There are two kinds of monks, one is to escape and the other is to face." What I want to escape is "seeing the world of mortals wrong", but what I face is really "seeing through the world of mortals".
Now I find that the biggest feeling after reading a dream of red mansions is not emptiness or loss, but unprecedented peace and peace of mind. Only in this way can I deeply understand the feeling of "inner peace". Chapter 1: Looking at the Tragedy of Laughter in the Red Chamber.
I have to thank Gao E, his successor. Although he couldn't keep up with Cao Xueqin's thoughts in many aspects, he at least let Daiyu die. Whether she died or not, at least she left Baoyu, which is very good.
It's not that I'm born cruel and like to watch other people's tragedies, but isn't there a saying? An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. For a fragile feudal girl like Dai Yu, death is her liberation, the end of all her tragedies and her happiness. When she slept quietly in the ground and watched Baoyu still looking for a way out on earth, I had to say that she was still happy.
Maybe two people are romantic people, and romantic people should not meet each other by nature, because life is not romantic, and life will kill romance completely. Finally, the red rose turned into mosquito blood on the wall, and the white rose turned into white rice stuck to the chest. So, let romance come to an end at the most beautiful time and leave beautiful memories in each other's hearts.
But you might say that Daiyu's death was tragic and not romantic at all. In this respect, I don't approve of Gao E's sequel. Maybe Cao Xueqin didn't mean it. Maybe Daiyu really should shed tears to prove the front. Isn't this better? She was worried about Baoyu and wept bitterly for her bosom friend. After careful consideration, such a death is noble and sacred. However, Gao E did not write this. He finally made Daiyu vulgar, resentful and furious. This is not like the arrogant and self-admiring Daiyu we know, but like an ordinary woman who is frustrated in love.
Nevertheless, she finally left this trouble spot before Jia Fu collapsed, otherwise, because of her fragility, I'm afraid she couldn't stand such a big stimulus. Baoyu is a dude. He is not a man of indomitable spirit. He can give Daiyu little, let alone protection and comfort. He is still a weak person who needs protection from others, and Daiyu can't be happy around him.
So it is a kind of happiness to leave him memories. Baoyu himself can only give Daiyu a few good words. He's not even obsessed. Looking at Baochai's fate, I have to say that Daiyu is happy. Of course, some people say that Baochai only wants Grandma Bao's throne and doesn't care about Baoyu. Is that so? Is there a woman who naturally likes loneliness? Anyway, it is always painful to live alone. Besides, it is still a question whether she took the so-called grandmother Bao's throne.
If Jia Fu fails, at least Baochai still has a place to live, at least she has no husband and wealth, but isn't that right? Finally, Jia Fu was reduced to the point where the white land was really clean. What is the significance of the title of Grandma Bao Er to Baochai? Without a happy life and the care of her husband, isn't it a greater tragedy to live alone and die alone?
I always suspected that Baoyu didn't leave Jiafu because of Daiyu, otherwise he wouldn't have married Baochai. He was born at last, because his world had undergone earth-shaking changes, his ivory tower collapsed, and he finally understood his struggle. In fact, all his thoughts are on his family, and his family has collapsed, and everything is finished. Without any thoughts and struggles, he had to run away from home, perhaps to avoid disaster.
Imagine, can you imagine Daiyu washing her hands and cooking soup? Dressed in rags and skirts, and even relying on the relief of attacking people, then of course she can no longer be mean and gossip, but can only cry alone, not about love, but about life. When life has put a huge question mark on Baodai's love, can Daiyu still love Baoyu as always? I don't think so. I'm afraid the Longwang Temple will be flooded. Then Baoyu finally couldn't stand the pressure at home and left, which is very possible. He can't afford to live without taking good care of Baochai. The same is true of Daiyu.
Another possibility is that if Jia Fu can regroup, Gui Lan and Qi Fang, Dai Yu and Baoyu still live their happy lives, after many years, Baoyu may suddenly find his face wrinkled, then he will find the attacker around him like Aunt Zhao, and then his love will pass away in the years, and then Baoyu will recall that round and smooth baby sister.
In fact, love is very short. At least this kind of cross love gives us many beautiful fantasies and expectations, just like Jack to Ross. He is the most beautiful memory in her life, but not the only one.
Part II: I have to thank Gao E, the successor. Although he couldn't keep up with Cao Xueqin's thoughts in many aspects, he at least let Daiyu die. Whether she died or not, at least she left Baoyu, which is very good.
It's not that I'm born cruel and like to watch other people's tragedies, but isn't there a saying? An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. For a fragile feudal girl like Dai Yu, death is her liberation, the end of all her tragedies and her happiness. When she slept quietly in the ground and watched Baoyu still looking for a way out on earth, I had to say that she was still happy.
Maybe two people are romantic people, and romantic people should not meet each other by nature, because life is not romantic, and life will kill romance completely. Finally, the red rose turned into mosquito blood on the wall, and the white rose turned into white rice stuck to the chest. So, let romance come to an end at the most beautiful time and leave beautiful memories in each other's hearts.
But you might say that Daiyu's death was tragic and not romantic at all. In this respect, I don't approve of Gao E's sequel. Maybe Cao Xueqin didn't mean it. Maybe Daiyu really should shed tears to prove the front. Isn't this better? She was worried about Baoyu and wept bitterly for her bosom friend. After careful consideration, such a death is noble and sacred. However, Gao E did not write this. He finally made Daiyu vulgar, resentful and furious. This is not like the arrogant and self-admiring Daiyu we know, but like an ordinary woman who is frustrated in love.
Nevertheless, she finally left this trouble spot before Jia Fu collapsed, otherwise, because of her fragility, I'm afraid she couldn't stand such a big stimulus. Baoyu is a dude. He is not a man of indomitable spirit. He can give Daiyu little, let alone protection and comfort. He is still a weak person who needs protection from others, and Daiyu can't be happy around him.
So it is a kind of happiness to leave him memories. Baoyu himself can only give Daiyu a few good words. He's not even obsessed. Looking at Baochai's fate, I have to say that Daiyu is happy. Of course, some people say that Baochai only wants Grandma Bao's throne and doesn't care about Baoyu. Is that so? Is there a woman who naturally likes loneliness? Anyway, it is always painful to live alone. Besides, it is still a question whether she took the so-called grandmother Bao's throne.
If Jia Fu fails, at least Baochai still has a place to live, at least she has no husband and wealth, but isn't that right? Finally, Jia Fu was reduced to the point where the white land was really clean. What is the significance of the title of Grandma Bao Er to Baochai? Without a happy life and the care of her husband, isn't it a greater tragedy to live alone and die alone?
I always suspected that Baoyu didn't leave Jiafu because of Daiyu, otherwise he wouldn't have married Baochai. He was born at last, because his world had undergone earth-shaking changes, his ivory tower collapsed, and he finally understood his struggle. In fact, all his thoughts are on his family, and his family has collapsed, and everything is finished. Without any thoughts and struggles, he had to run away from home, perhaps to avoid disaster.
Imagine, can you imagine Daiyu washing her hands and cooking soup? Dressed in rags and skirts, and even relying on the relief of attacking people, then of course she can no longer be mean and gossip, but can only cry alone, not about love, but about life. When life has put a huge question mark on Baodai's love, can Daiyu still love Baoyu as always? I don't think so. I'm afraid the Longwang Temple will be flooded. Then Baoyu finally couldn't stand the pressure at home and left, which is very possible. He can't afford to live without taking good care of Baochai. The same is true of Daiyu.
Another possibility is that if Jia Fu can regroup, Gui Lan and Qi Fang, Dai Yu and Baoyu still live their happy lives, after many years, Baoyu may suddenly find his face wrinkled, then he will find the attacker around him like Aunt Zhao, and then his love will pass away in the years, and then Baoyu will recall that round and smooth baby sister.
In fact, love is very short. At least this kind of cross love gives us many beautiful fantasies and expectations, just like Jack to Ross. He is the most beautiful memory in her life, but not the only one.