What is sitting filial piety? How did you resist?

Filial piety means that in China's traditional concept, children are required to show filial piety and respect to their parents, and they also need to show the same filial piety and respect to their parents' family members (such as grandparents, grandparents, etc.). This traditional idea holds that children should take their parents' family members as their own relatives and take care of them. It often brings heavy burden and pressure to children, because they need to take care of and respect multiple family members at the same time.

How to resist the concept of enjoying the benefits can be discussed from the following aspects.

First of all, the key is to change ideas. It is a traditional concept to sit back and enjoy one's achievements, but with the development of society, people's values are constantly changing. We should realize that everyone has his own life choices and values, and we should not excessively bind ourselves because of traditional concepts. We can try our best to understand and respect the expectations of family elders, but at the same time, we must clearly express our wishes and personal choices.

Secondly, establish equal and open communication. In the face of the concept of enjoying the benefits, we can seek understanding and support through equal and open communication with our families. Explain your ideas and values to them and strive for their understanding and acceptance. At the same time, we should also listen to the opinions and opinions of family members and seek a balance on the basis of mutual respect.

Third, find ways to compromise and balance. Sometimes, getting rid of the concept of enjoying the benefits completely may face difficulties and resistance. In this case, we can find a compromise and balanced way to meet the expectations of our families without completely giving up our choice and independence. For example, you can try to attend family gatherings and traditional activities. Express your concern and respect for your family, but at the same time, you can reserve your own space to pursue your personal goals.

Finally, have courage and confidence. It is not easy to resist traditional ideas, and you may encounter all kinds of difficulties and challenges. But it is important to have the courage to stick to your beliefs and believe that you can find a lifestyle that suits you. Maintain a confident and optimistic attitude, actively seek solutions to problems, and let people around us feel our firmness and determination.

It takes time and patience to get rid of the concept of enjoying the benefits. Everyone's situation is different, and the way of resistance will vary from person to person. The key is to find a balance that suits you, which can respect traditional ideas and pursue personal ideals and happiness. In this process, communication and understanding with family members are very important. I hope that family members can accept and support personal choices.