I suggest you try sending letters online. You don't have to go to the post office yourself. You can send a letter through Baidu chain center.
Several necessary stages
First, the period of extreme sadness:
This stage is generally the month when things happen, crying every day, crying at any time, dreaming of being taken away when sleeping, and even crying. This is also the only way for every family member and the most difficult period. If there is a mortgage car loan, the pressure is even greater. If your knowledge of law is almost zero, you will study everywhere, read legal provisions and consult lawyers or other family members. The fear of the unknown future and the worry about life made him miserable.
Second, the sad period.
Slowly, with the passage of time, I will not cry every day as I did at first, but will occasionally emo and think of some things in the past. At this time, someone will cry. This time is almost 37 days, and it is also the key time to get the guarantor. Every day, I try my best to get him out first.
Three. Acceptance period
After a month or two, I will gradually accept his absence and get used to life without him. I will only meet emo for a while at a certain time and occasion, such as Spring Festival and Valentine's Day, but generally speaking, I am used to living alone, and I can communicate if I can write letters, just like a long-distance relationship. It's inconvenient to go to the post office. They can send letters by chain heart. They are really happy to receive this letter.
Fourth, the patient waiting period.
Next, I went to the procuratorate and probably knew how long the sentence was. Everyone has his own threshold, and I will set it for myself. After many years, I won't wait any longer, and it's so easy to let go. Just like advice to most people, wait first, and you won't wait when you don't want to wait. No one in the world can't live without anyone (don't spray, personal opinion). If the time is short, be happy and wait patiently for the day when he comes out.
How can we get out as soon as possible?
1. It's always better to be busy, go to work and travel. It's hard to keep thinking about these things.
2, you can find a family group, family members spit on each other, cheer each other up, and tell your friends what you can't give. It will really be much better. You can find a chain center to send letters to your family, or you can send them more letters through the chain center without going to the post office.
As time gets better, time is really the best medicine, and it can also cure all past wounds.
Conclusion: In any case, the storm will pass and the sun will come. I hope you can get together as soon as possible and live a happy life without shame when they come back.