Oh, as a parent, why do you treat your own flesh and blood like this? It’s really confusing! What is even more distressing is, why have the incidence of child abuse by parents remained so high over the years? Is it really caused by excessive social pressure? Is it because the child is naughty?
However, no matter how much pressure there is, no matter how naughty the child is, children should not be treated in this irreparable way!
Really, I really can’t figure out what kind of psychology these parents have when they abuse children...
Case review:
According to the sister of the man involved, Huang Mouwu, there are four brothers and sisters in their family, and Huang Mouwu ranks second. Due to family poverty, Huang Mouwu only had an elementary school education. He went out to work when he was a teenager, working at construction sites, catering jobs, and working in factories. His job has always been very unstable and his family is very difficult.
Because he has been working in Huizhou all year round, Huang Mouwu married a local woman in Huizhou. After their marriage, they had three children. The eldest son is 7 years old, the younger son is 5 years old, and a 4-year-old son. daughter. According to his sister, Huang Mouwu used to be a good person and had a good temper. The brother and sister often greeted each other. However, it was not until after giving birth to their second child that she felt that Huang Mouwu's temperament suddenly changed.
According to his speculation, it may be caused by too much pressure in life.
It was Huang Mouwu's uncle who first discovered that the boy was being abused. On the evening of October 27, Huang Mouwu sent a photo of his son's injury, saying that he did not know what was growing on the child's hands. He hoped that his uncle would lend him 5,000 yuan to take the child for treatment.
Subsequently, the uncle sent the child's photo to the family group. When everyone saw that the situation was serious, they sent the child to the hospital for treatment. During the treatment, the child has been taken care of by Huang Mouwu's brother Huang Moujin.
According to Huang Moujin, at the end of September this year, the child was burned by Huang Mouwu. At that time, Huang Mouwu called to inform him that the child was receiving treatment in Huizhou. After Huang Moujin rushed over, after questioning, he learned that the child was burned by Huang Mouwu using cigarettes and lighters.
Because of this matter, Huang Jin told Huang Mouwu that day, but Huang Mouwu was unreasonable and asked him why he wanted to burn the child, but did not tell him the reason. He was just making trouble unreasonably," My own child, what I want to do and how I do it, no one else can control it."
Unexpectedly, after this quarrel, Huang Mouwu not only did not restrain himself, but intensified his abuse of the child.
--The boy was seriously injured or in danger of amputation, and the father involved in the case, Huang Mouwu, has been criminally detained by the police.
On October 28, Southern Hospital identified that the boy had third-degree burns on his hands and forearms, accompanied by severe wound infection. The subsequent treatment cost more than 200,000 yuan. Due to limited economic conditions, the child's grandparents, after discussing with Huang Moujin and others, transferred the child to his hometown hospital for treatment. Unexpectedly, on October 31, the child's condition worsened again, and the wound infection worsened, so he had to be treated again. Return to Nanfang Hospital for treatment.
The doctor said that in addition to skin necrosis, the child also had large areas of infection and necrosis in the subcutaneous tissue and muscles, and there was embolism and necrosis in the blood vessels in his hands, which put him at risk of amputation. Currently, hospitals try their best to save a child's hand, but even if it is saved, there will be serious functional deficits.
After learning about the child’s experience, many netizens extended a helping hand. As of November 5, the child’s uncle Huang Moujin had raised 300,000 yuan in donations on the online platform. According to him, the child's condition has improved slightly and the child's mother has not visited the hospital yet.
The child said in an interview with reporters that after being burned by his father with cigarettes and lighters, he told his grandparents, who said they would call the police to arrest his father. Now, he doesn't know where his father and mother have gone. He said he didn't hate his father and didn't miss them.
Author's point of view:
After being abused like this by his father, the child still doesn't hate his father and doesn't complain at all. He is really a good and sensible child. A man could actually attack such a sensible child and destroy the lively and lovely child with his own hands, as well as his own flesh and blood.
This kind of person must be severely punished. No matter how hard the child has suffered, he should be allowed to taste the same taste.