How to deal with girlfriend domestic violence? We always see that domestic violence will happen all over the world in online news. This is a very bad behavior. The emergence of domestic violence not only does great harm to individuals' physiology and psychology, but also shakes the foundation of social stability. What about girlfriend's domestic violence?
How to deal with girlfriend's domestic violence 1 legal advice
You can call the police or sue the other party for criminal responsibility.
legal ground
Article 260 Whoever maltreats a family member in the crime of maltreatment, if the circumstances are flagrant, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years, criminal detention or public surveillance.
Whoever commits the crime mentioned in the preceding paragraph and causes serious injury or death shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than two years but not more than seven years.
The crime in the first paragraph shall be dealt with only if it is told, except that the victim can't tell it, or because of coercion or intimidation.
If you encounter domestic violence, the handling methods are equally feasible for men and women;
1. resolutely leave.
There have been countless times. Don't forgive her just because she is a woman. Your forgiveness and compromise will not bring back warmth to her, but will only bring her unscrupulous repeated injuries.
2. Keep the evidence and call the police.
Don't feel humiliated by a woman, then you will suffer in the future. Domestic violence is not only a blow to the fist, but also a blow to the soul. If it is serious, it will be extremely depressed.
No matter how nice the other person is to you, make sure it won't happen again. Don't be tempted.
Women, in particular, cry like pears in the rain. Looking at her weak appearance, many men couldn't bear to blame any more, so they chose to forgive. Then the consequence is that she will be violent again and again, and you can only bear it silently.
Remember, people who really love you won't hurt you with violence. Say "no" to violence bravely, wake up in time and stay away from this dangerous behavior.
What should my girlfriend do if she has domestic violence? 2. What should I do if I encounter domestic violence?
What if there is domestic violence in your family? Here are eight ways for women to seek help after domestic violence:
(1) You can find a community women's organization to educate and persuade your husband.
(2) You can report the situation to the street and district women's federations and ask for help.
(3) If you are being injured and unable to defend yourself, you can call the police for help.
(4) You can report the case to the local police station and ask them to deal with your husband in accordance with the Regulations on Administrative Penalties for Public Security, and ask them to leave a record.
(5) If you are injured, you must go to the hospital for diagnosis as soon as possible, ask the doctor to issue a detailed injury certificate, and ask people to take clear photos of the injury and keep them properly.
(6) If you are seriously injured and want your husband to be punished by law, you can sue him for injury to the court and apply to the relevant departments for injury identification, which will be the most favorable evidence to judge the extent of his injury to you.
(7) The idea that "being beaten is a scandal", "Don't wash your dirty linen in public" and "admit that you are unlucky" is the most dangerous. They told you to give up fighting and asking for help. You should know that only by sincerely resisting this kind of violence can outside help exert its greatest power.
(8) In order to get rid of this pain forever, you can divorce him, and the evidence that he beat you is also strong evidence for divorce proceedings. And according to Article 46 of the Marriage Law, "If a divorce is caused by domestic violence, the innocent party has the right to claim damages", he can make his own request to the court.
Second, what is domestic violence?
What should I do if I want to know about domestic violence? First of all, we must be clear about what is domestic violence and what kind of behavior is domestic violence.
Domestic violence refers to the acts that occur between family members and physically, mentally and sexually harm and destroy family members by beating, binding, confinement, mutilation or other means. Domestic violence directly affects the victim's body, causing physical or mental pain to the victim and damaging his health and personal dignity.
Domestic violence occurs between family members who are related by blood, marriage and adoption, such as husband to wife, parents to children, and adult children to parents. Women and children are the main victims of domestic violence, and some middle-aged and elderly people, men and disabled people will also become victims of domestic violence. Domestic violence can lead to death, serious injury, minor injury, physical pain or mental pain.
Many domestic violence occurs repeatedly, largely because of the repeated tolerance of women, making male violence a habit.
When violence occurs, women should never show weakness. In case of domestic violence, protect your body first, and then collect evidence. If the feelings are gone, then you can bravely take up legal weapons and find a professional marriage lawyer to help you fight the divorce lawsuit and end this tortured marriage.
What about girlfriend's domestic violence? What should my girlfriend do if she is violent?
1. Learn to protect yourself
Weakness is a sin. As a man, being played by a violent girlfriend is really weak.
Strengthen physical exercise so that you can protect yourself from harm when you are insulted.
Changing your mind psychologically is not to say that girls can't do it, it depends on the specific situation. When a girl shits on your head and you can't stand it, then ...
Being a servant is loyal, but being a master is dangerous. This is morality. Don't let the rules limit you, but let the rules serve you.
2. Break up with your girlfriend
Since the girlfriend is violent, it means that she can't simply get along with her.
It is better to find a girl who is not violent than how to get along with violent girls all day.
How can you reason with a violent girlfriend? Do it if you don't agree with a word, and throw whatever you catch. If you fall in love with such a girlfriend, you should worry about your personal danger. You should also talk about a ghost love. Break up with her before it's too late!
3. Correct your girlfriend's thoughts
Girlfriend is violent, which is a way for her to deal with problems and contradictions habitually. In a love relationship, it may be an effective way to wait for her to calm down, let her deal with problems with a rational attitude and communicate with her seriously.
Whether it is effective or not depends on whether you can correct your girlfriend's thinking. Some girlfriends may be good at correcting their shortcomings. Some girlfriends will arouse her violent tendencies again when you point out her violent tendencies.
So this should also be judged according to the specific situation of the girlfriend.
Why do girlfriends tend to be violent?
Violent tendency is a characteristic of some people. When things happen, they tend to solve problems by violent means. It is unnecessary to convince people with reason and morality. Their outlook on life may be influenced by their special growth environment, life experience, mutual lobbying and cronies.
In the past, violent behavior made them gain the advantage of interpersonal relationship, felt the fear, concession and awe of the other party, and gained a sense of superiority and success from it, thus strengthening the persistence and escalation of the criminal's violent tendency.
The violent tendency of girlfriends is not limited to physical attacks, but also includes throwing things, smashing things, abusing small animals, insulting, cold violence and so on.
People with violent tendencies usually have the following characteristics:
1) long-term inferiority complex
2) Feeling isolated
3) Lack of social skills and self-affirmation.
4) Have a history of mental illness
5) Possessive and jealous.
People with high incidence of violence: people who love to sleep late and eat junk food.
Scientific research shows that eating more fish (rich in omega-3 fatty acids) can make violent patients less impulsive and stay calm.