My father, at the age of 53, was diagnosed with terminal cancer. The doctor said there were only three months left. At most, my father stayed in his hometown for three months. Because I borrowed tens of thousands of dollars, I couldn't stay any longer and went out to work. At that time, we all told him that mentality was very important. Many people just don't think about anything, so good cells suppress cancer cells and finally defeat the disease. I don't know if his mentality is good.
In the first half of three years later, I began to feel weak, had no appetite to eat and often had diarrhea. Going to the toilet more often than drinking water, especially running to the toilet all night, leads to poor sleep at night, lack of energy during the day and particularly hot in summer. I feel weak after walking for a long time and want to sit down.
It was probably June+10 in 5438, and he felt that he really didn't have that strength. After sleeping for two days, I resigned and went back to my hometown. After returning home, he became thinner and thinner and didn't want to eat. His stool began to incontinence, so he used diapers. In the first half of the year, he didn't eat a bite and slept in bed. Once, he had to get up to keep warm. That night, my family cried. It's been half a year since we separated, and he's very upset. My brother is not married yet. He has just graduated for a year, and there is no extra money at home. When I was working, I paid back the borrower's money and directly sent 30 thousand. My dad thought that when he died, he used 654.38+0 million of it, and left the rest to my mother. He said that he had done his best in his life and could not leave anything behind. I will never forget it.
Later, on the ninth day of the first month, my mother asked my dad if he wanted to eat. When he was ready, he ran to my dad without talking or shaking his head. My mother felt something was wrong and called me over. When I look at it with a flashlight, my eyes are fixed and motionless, but my mouth is breathing in, and the sound is particularly loud. We realized that something was wrong and called my uncle and them at once. The old man said that before it was completely out of breath, I quickly changed the bath.
"Where will you go" is a problem that every family will encounter, so there is no need to avoid it.
When someone in the family dies of old age or illness, family members should do a good job in the aftermath, but many people don't know what to do and in what order. Once something is missing or the order is reversed, it will bring great resistance to the handling of various affairs in the later period, especially for the elderly who have savings and pensions, cooking in the wrong order after death is easy to cause economic losses.
In order to avoid economic losses and unnecessary troubles, let's introduce what procedures should be taken when someone dies normally at home.
The first step is to obtain a "death certificate".
"Death certificate" is the certificate that citizens must obtain after death. Later cremation, the withdrawal of funeral funds, the withdrawal of deposits, and even the distribution of property will all be used, and we must never neglect them.
There are generally three units that issue death certificates, namely hospitals, village committees (village clinics) and household registration police stations. If he dies in a hospital, a certificate shall be issued by the hospital; If you die at home, then the normal death certificate (old age, illness, etc.) will be issued by the village Committee or village health center, and then by the household registration police station; If there is abnormal death, report it to 1 10 first, and the public security organ will issue it after excluding homicide.
What is said here is a normal death at home, and it is not necessary to report it to 1 10. Just open a normal death certificate in the village and then go to the household registration police station to open it. There is no need for public security organs to investigate the cause of death.
Step 2: Withdraw the deposit in advance before closing the account to avoid complicated steps.
If there is a deposit in the name of the deceased old man, try to take it out or transfer it before the old man's account is cancelled and his ID card is invalidated.
Old people's money may exist on third-party platforms such as WeChat and Alipay, or there may be mobile online banking. Those who meet the conditions should be transferred out in time; If the old man's money is a time deposit in the form of a bank card or a certificate of deposit, take the old man's ID card and the payee's ID card to the bank counter and take it out according to the process on the premise of knowing the password.
It should be noted here that once the bank knows that the old man has died or the account has been cancelled, it will not easily let the family members take the deposit because of inheritance and property disputes. At this time, it is much more complicated to withdraw money if you need notarization or have a will in hand. Therefore, if there is no property dispute, you can take it as soon as possible to avoid cumbersome procedures.
The third step is to accept cremation and death treatment.
Cremation is carried out in most areas of China, and a "death certificate" is needed at this time;
Furthermore, for retirees who have participated in the endowment insurance for urban workers or the endowment insurance for urban and rural residents, they still need cremation certificates to receive death benefits such as funeral subsidies, so they must be cremated within the specified time so as not to affect the subsequent death benefits.
Funeral expenses, pensions, subsidies for survivors' living difficulties, and the balance of personal accounts of old-age insurance all belong to the death treatment of retirees. This is a welfare given by the state. If you can get it, you must apply in time.
The fourth step is to cancel the account.
Citizens must cancel their accounts after death, which is stipulated by law; At the same time, the household registration police station will issue a certificate of cancellation of household registration to prove kinship and possible property inheritance problems in the later period.
There is also a time limit for account cancellation. Generally speaking, cities require cancellation within one month after death before burial. If it cannot be cancelled within the specified time, then the neighborhood Committee (village Committee) has the right to report the cancellation.
Conclusion: In short, after the death of the old man, assuming that there is no property and inheritance dispute between relatives, just follow the above steps, and the process is relatively simple. The most troublesome thing is that there are inheritance disputes between relatives, which may involve notarization and litigation in the later stage, which is a lot of trouble to deal with.
Birth, old age, illness and death are the five pains of life, and it is not easy to live after all. No one can escape the laws of nature.
People have to face countless rights and wrongs when they are alive, some of which are handled well, while others are at a loss, especially in the face of the normal death of their loved ones. I think the so-called normal death is caused by disease. Besides grief, you have to deal with the aftermath. If you die directly at home, you should first call the funeral home and ask them to take the body away, and at the same time call the funeral service to explain the situation. These service units will teach you how to do it.
My parents died at home, and so did they. In short, don't panic if something happens. If you are sad, you should first consider letting the deceased be buried first. In addition, if the cemetery is not booked in advance, you should also consider buying a cemetery. If you have financial difficulties, you can also suspend it. The ashes can be temporarily stored in the funeral home, which has this service.
Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws, but when it comes to death, many people still have scruples, especially in cities. It is better to die in hospitals. It is easy to say that the elderly die at home, but it may be unclear that some children die at home. After all, this involves life safety issues. Because after death, it will involve funeral cremation, informing relatives and friends, and many other complicated things.
Once, our family had a baby who was born more than ten days ago and died at home. When it was sent to funeral home cremation, there was a problem. Without a death certificate, it is impossible to prove that it was a normal death rather than an external cause. So it took several days for the report and autopsy to be finally solved.
Some people who die in the city will be sent back to their hometown in the countryside for funeral, but most of them will be sent to the funeral parlour to spark, so a death certificate must be issued when cremation is carried out. If you die in a hospital, the hospital will issue a death certificate. If you are at home, the hospital will not open.
So how to deal with the death of a loved one at home is correct. If an ordinary old man dies, you can inform the property as soon as you confirm the death of your loved one, explain your name, room number and time of death to the property, let the property register well, and then you can go to the local street health service center to issue a death certificate. If there is no property management company, you can call the community neighborhood Committee to register them at the first time, and then go to the health service center. In fact, the purpose of property or neighborhood Committee registration is to have a basis for issuing a death certificate. If the staff says they can't prove that they died naturally at home, they can call the property and neighborhood Committee to verify.
The second way is to call 120 and ask the hospital to confirm that the time of death is at home. In this case, although it will cost a little money, the hospital will issue a death certificate after confirming the death.
There is another child, who died as mentioned earlier. After all, it's not as plausible as the old man said, so you should call the police at the first time and call the community police, who will come to the door to determine the time of death. Then go to the community health service center to issue a certificate, which happens to be a witness.
I think this is the first thing for my family to do after death, but many people ignore it in reality, which leads to a lot of trouble and many wrong ways to open the certificate, as long as the first step is done well. After the funeral cremation, inform friends and relatives and other things, just follow the normal process.
Someone in the family died naturally. What should I do first? Give a brief introduction.
1, dial 1 10, 120.
The main function of this phone call is that the police and 120 will go to the scene to check, rule out the possibility of criminal cases and issue death certificates.
Be sure to get the death certificate, otherwise many things will be very troublesome to deal with later.
2. If the old man has a deposit, if he knows the password, he will transfer it or take it out in time. For example, online banking, Alipay, WeChat wallet, bank card, passbook, etc. If they meet the withdrawal conditions, try to transfer them out or take them out.
3. With the ID card of the deceased, death certificate and relative ID card, go to the funeral parlour for cremation procedures, and the local household registration should reduce the basic funeral expenses.
4, with the death certificate to the police station to cancel the account.
5, with the death certificate, proof of kinship, relatives ID card to the social security department for social security card balance settlement and funeral expenses, pensions and other collection procedures.
6. If there are the above-mentioned deposits that cannot be collected, go to the notary office to notarize the inheritance or file an inheritance analysis lawsuit with the court, and then go to the bank for withdrawal with the notarial certificate or court judgment.
The above answers are for reference.
It is natural for people to die of old age and illness. If someone in the family dies normally, we should pay tribute first, because there are thousands of people in the family. We have a man in his fifties here. His old father died, and he fell asleep in bed in shock, making a mess and having no backbone.
At home, after the old man dies first, the first step is to put a shroud on the old man. If the shroud has been put on, you can carry the old man back to the main room and put him on the board, with the seat facing left and the female head facing right. Remember that if you carry the main room in another room, you have to take an umbrella so that the dead can't see the sun. Light a constant light first, then burn incense. God has three pillars, and ghosts have four pillars. The incense continued until the seventh day. Remember to burn incense with your left hand, not your right, because your right hand is not clean. After the incense burns, paper money will be burned as a memorial. After burning the paper money, the filial sons and daughters will burn the road money in the center of the front door. Remember that paper money should be burned thoroughly. If it doesn't burn through, it can't be used, just like the uneven RMB on the dead body doesn't circulate.
After everything is finished, you can invite the manager and Mr. Wang, and the rest will be arranged by the manager and Mr. Wang. The dutiful son should thank others and pay.
I am a farmer, I am in the countryside, and I care about the beautiful life of our farmers.
In more than four years, my family has lost three relatives, my father, my mother and my husband. Because my parents only have one daughter, from illness to death, I am the only one to support the elderly. Because when my husband was sick, the children were still young. From three years of illness to the final death, I was generally responsible for cooking.
Family members died normally, but in fact, relatives are basically ready. After the death of a patient, since he is a close relative, he should also let go of his grief. The first thing is to calm down first. Because birth, illness, death and illness are important events in life, you are the relatives of the deceased and the parties. You have to think about which relatives and friends to notify first, and what to prepare.
Every place has its own customs. If you don't do it well, many people will say "three down four" in the future. Therefore, at this moment, no matter how sad you are, you must endure it, or wipe your tears behind your back first, and definitely deal with the aftermath first.
First, let's set a tone. Birth, old age, illness and death are the normal state of a person. I am happy when I am alive, and there is no need to be overly sad when I die.
When people leave, the rest will continue to live. Before the rest continue to live, in order to avoid subsequent troubles, we must do this step well.
That is to issue a death certificate.
In particular, the elderly have property before their death, but the property exists in the local bank or the elderly themselves have other legacies, which need to be publicized by lawyers and properly distributed by their families. Besides, I have some money, and then I have it in rural credit cooperatives. I must put the death certificate in place, because with this paper certificate, many subsequent troubles can be solved.
(The real death certificate needs a stamp, which is more complicated. This picture is just for your convenience. )
First, there are three different situations in which death certificates are issued. First of all, it should be clear that different places may have different markets. It's a bit difficult for you to expect a unified national standard.
So I can only say part of the probability or the routine operation in some areas. Then, I will tell you a general formula. If we really don't know how to operate, let's follow this general formula directly.
1, if the old man died normally at home, and it was because of old age or previous diseases, then in this case, it is easiest to directly find the village Committee or village health center and ask them to issue a certificate. After issuing the certificate, take this certificate to the local household registration police station to issue a death certificate.
In addition to normal death, there are abnormal deaths. For example, I was fine when I slept that night, but I couldn't wake up the next morning, or I had a quarrel with my neighbor. As a result, my face turned purple in the afternoon and disappeared the next day. Therefore, in this case, you should report 1 10 as soon as possible. What is the purpose of reporting 1 10? The answer is to rule out homicide. It is necessary to rule out homicide first, that is, to prove a natural death first, and then issue a death certificate.
Second, he died in the hospital.
If the old man was not feeling well or was not strong enough before, he went to the hospital for examination, and stayed in the hospital for a while during the examination, and then went directly to Kaixi, then in this case, we don't need to spend too much energy on the death certificate.
General hospitals will issue death certificates. After all, this man passed the hand of the hospital. Although hospitals issue death certificates in different ways, especially in different hospitals, there is always a routine process. Under normal circumstances, it is not a big problem to follow the process.
Third, what should I do if my eyes are black?
Say something special, for example, the place where you live is an old community, and the relevant staff in the community are long gone, or this community has existed for 30 or 40 years, and it is a six-story building with no property next to it, and there is not even a community administrator.
For example, in some extremely special circumstances, once you encounter these special circumstances or no special circumstances, you will be too busy to know what to do. When you don't know what to do, you can dial two numbers directly. The number of 1 is 1 10, and the second number is 120. Normally, an ambulance from 120 will come and issue a death certificate. After issuing the death certificate, give it to 1 10, and get the corresponding certificate through 1 10.
Of course, there will be some deviations in this process. The process in different places is different as a whole. Some places may not need this death certificate, but some places, especially big cities, still have their own heritage, which is in the hands of banks or others, so this death certificate is very important.
Secondly, if the death certificate of property transfer has been issued, then after the death certificate is issued, it is likely to touch on a problem called cancellation.
However, before that, if the old man has some deposits in the bank, or if the old man has some inheritance, he has been entrusted to the corresponding lawyer and asked to distribute it, then it must be stopped before that. If not, just close the account and follow the process.
However, if the old man has other redundant legacies and some accounts, bank cards or savings offices, he should withdraw the money at the first time.
It would be very easy if we could know the password of the money that the old man deposited in the bank before his death. We just need to hold the corresponding certificates of the elderly, and then go directly to the ATM machine to operate.
If there is a deposit in the mobile phone or some software, you can also withdraw it directly into the bank card, and then operate it directly at the ATM through the bank card. However, if some local savings offices do not provide unattended withdrawal procedures at all, or some deposits are special and are deposited regularly, then it is necessary to communicate with banks.
When communicating with the bank, you must pay attention to preparing all the documents as much as possible and inform the bank of all the information. Generally, banks will send out forms, which we need to prepare. If this process runs, it will take a long time. I also hope that everyone can handle this matter patiently and never conflict with the bank staff.
This is what I said before that the bank needs to prove that I am me, my father is my father, and I am father-son relationship with my father, or I am mother-son relationship with my mother, or father-daughter relationship, mother-daughter relationship (a bit exaggerated, now the process is relatively simple). This process makes people feel speechless after listening to it, but it is one of the processes that must be taken.
Because the old man has passed away, did you make a will before his death? Who should I give it to and who should I not give it to? There are huge risks in banks, and they need to do their best for this former customer. Banks must need you to get a lot of evidence or run a lot of procedures before they can transfer money to you.
Don't worry, the bank won't deduct the money. People don't need it at all. Let you run more processes, you worry about whether the old man has a will, whether you are the first heir or the sequential heir of the old man, if not, it is a bank mistake.
Therefore, when running this process, the first one should be fast, and the second one should be calm and not too impulsive before closing the account.
Third, the issue of inheritance distribution This inheritance distribution does not mean that everyone will have an inheritance distribution immediately after the death of the old man. Why? Because the old man's body is still waiting over there, it is urgent to move to the crematorium for cremation, and then a series of follow-up matters, but there is a need to insert:
Contact the lawyer before the old man as soon as possible, if the old man has a lawyer before. It would be easier if the old people didn't have a lawyer at all, or didn't have the consciousness or behavior of property distribution at all.
If a lawyer wants to contact the lawyer at the first time, let the lawyer disclose the legacy of the old man before his death. If there is any problem, he needs to express his doubts at the first time. If there is no problem, he can distribute the inheritance according to the inheritance method announced by the lawyer.
However, the time and evidence needed for the distribution of this estate are also quite large. Therefore, at the beginning, we don't recommend focusing most of our energy on this aspect. We just need to notify the lawyer temporarily, because we have more important things to do next.
Four. Corpse cremation and cemetery arrangement are divided into three places, where 1 is rural, the second is urban and the third is urban-rural fringe.
If it is in the countryside, there are rural rules in the countryside. Under normal circumstances, there is no one-stop funeral service. It is a funeral procession composed of relatives and friends in the village. After three or two days, different places have different ceremonies. After these ceremonies are processed, they will be taken directly to the crematorium.
After the cremation process, the urn will generally be placed in a special burial place in the village, usually directly in the ground or in a pit somewhere, where there will be many graves, and then classified according to the rules of the village.
If it is in a county town, it is generally called a one-stop funeral service. They will directly handle this matter, including the funeral service in the early stage, the choice of some music, the communication with the community in the later stage, and finally arrange the urn to be buried somewhere.
The service life of a cemetery is generally 20 years or 10 years. In general, if you buy it, you will buy it for 20 years. Once you buy the right to use the cemetery for 20 years, a staff member will contact you after 20 years or the first half of the end of 20 years, and then ask you if you need to continue to use this urn cemetery.
If you need to renew the fee, how much do you need to pay for the first time? If you don't need to renew it, then this place will be vacated for others to use. Similarly, if the staff can't contact you at all, you will be given a buffer period of six months to one year. If you still can't contact the cemetery within six months to one year, I'm sorry, this cemetery will be arranged for someone else.
If it is in the urban-rural fringe, this is more difficult, and the specific process is mainly local.
5. Not much to say about receiving the corresponding welfare benefits. The people I contact can naturally understand what this means. If there is no or no welfare treatment, people will not get it.
Under normal circumstances, people who have long-term jobs or pensions will be given corresponding subsidies after their death. And whether your original unit and company will give you corresponding subsidies, which varies from person to person. Family members must know the place at the first time and contact the corresponding company to see if there is such a subsidy.
Sixth, a step running through this tells relatives and friends that it takes about three to seven days from the normal death of the old man to the burial. During this period of time, it is necessary to contact friends and relatives, whether they are relatives and friends of the elderly before their death or friends of the elderly before their death.
If there is a need to investigate, then put them in place, because this is one of the few friends or relatives of the old man before his death.
I won't say much about how this party should handle it and how to do it. It should be routine operation. As for some details or whether there are any precautions when interacting with people, just do it according to local customs.
Seven, the cancellation of the account cancellation is a big problem. This thing must be in place. If it is not in place, there will be a lot of trouble in the follow-up. Generally, directly consult the local village Committee or community workers, or the township police station will tell you the specific process.
If you are in the city, you can contact the funeral service by train. When they deal with this matter, the consultation process is not difficult, but it is not a big problem in principle to open a few proofs.
If you really don't know how to do it, or these processes are too complicated for you to remember, then remember, in this case:
Call 120 at the first time, and then call 1 10. After these two calls are finished, the certificate can be issued. Before issuing the certificate, you can also call the funeral service in one stop, make an appointment in advance, and then ask them about the next specific process and planning, which is basically enough.
Finally, I would like to add that birth, old age, illness and death are inevitable, and there is no need to be too taboo about this topic.
To put it bluntly, everyone has that day, but before we reach that day, we still have plenty of time to enjoy a better tomorrow, and at the same time, we will work hard for it.
Come on, let's live up to our youth.
Step one, wipe the dead and put on the shroud.
The second step is to transport it to the funeral home.
The third step is to issue a death certificate in the community or hospital.
The funeral home will guide you in the following matters!
Q: What should I do first if someone in my family dies of natural causes?
Q: What should I do first if someone in my family dies of natural causes?
Normal death is called natural death, and it will be predicted one or two days or even ten days before death. If it is not predictable, many deaths are abnormal, and sudden death is unpredictable.
Of course, there is a foreseeable death, so the preparation for future generations is there. Before the old man dies, his children's closest relatives should all be in front of him, and the neighbors at home should also wait outside the house.
In the past, there was a custom among rural people that "dying on the bed board" was the best ending, but it was a pity not to die on the bed board. When you die on a kang, you are called "walking with a kang on your back." Therefore, before the death of the old man, the preparation work of future generations is to set up a bed board on the back eaves of the main room and a bed board in the outer room. The back room was busy dressing the old man with a shroud, trying to make the old man lie on the bed and swallow his last breath.
All this is busy and ready, so you can cry loudly.
Dressing the elderly is the business of children, daughters-in-law and others, and building a bed board in a room is the business of the family. There are two benches at the bottom of the bed board with two door panels on them. If there were no door panels, seven handkerchiefs tied with straw or wicker would be placed side by side on the bench, covered with a white cloth mattress, which is the bed of the mortuary. The sole of this bed board is the back cornice, so it used to be called "kicking the back cornice with death".
Subjects asked what to do as the first step in the normal death of someone in their family. The first step should be to cover the old man in the back room with a shroud, and the outhouse should quickly set up the bed board.
Also, what the helper has to do is sew a feather pillow and then cut a guide instead of him. If the old man still understands, let the old man give him a name, and the helper will burn this outside instead of him. He will also call his (her) name and say, "Show the old lady the right way." These are the first steps.