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Recently, when I turned on the Internet, all the news was that Li XiaoLu was suspected of cheating PGone.
Although it didn't make headlines these two days, eagle-eyed netizens said that they were defending Li XiaoLu's gun in the hot comments on Wang Sicong's new girlfriend, Cheney Chen's love affair exposure and Chen Qiaoen's drunk driving.
Although there is no real hammer to say that Li XiaoLu really cheated, those stalks of "I may be a fish" and "I am Zhouzhuang" are really suspicious.
When my husband is not at home, I invite my boyfriend to stay at home for the night, discuss hip-hop at each other's home late at night, and go out to cuddle. Are these behaviors really what friends should have?
Even if Li XiaoLu really didn't have an affair, then she and PGone have crossed the line, and they are not close friends.
I remember when Jerry chased Li XiaoLu, he punched more than a dozen ears. When he got married, he kissed his toes, climbed the back of Xiangshan directly, tried to learn how to cook for Li XiaoLu, and even held her on the beach.
All these good things are now jokes. Jerry and Tianxin became the most innocent people in this "suspected affair".
Lee Hyo Ri once said that I didn't get married before because I wasn't sure how long I could like someone. Marriage is a kind of self-discipline. If you can't do it, please don't hurt others.
Now that you are married, shouldn't you restrain yourself? Self-restraint is the greatest respect for marriage.
When it comes to men's and women's cross-border behavior, some people may think it is untrue, but those ambiguity and intimacy are proof that you have crossed the line.
Zongzi once told me that her boyfriend sent a girl home alone and let her sit in the co-pilot. Most importantly, the girl took a selfie while her boyfriend was driving and sent it to a circle of friends, saying: The boy driving is really handsome!
It happened that Zongzi came to M that day, and she was not very comfortable, so she asked her boyfriend to come and spend time with her. Boyfriend said he was busy and had no time. Seeing the girl's circle of friends, Zongzi really hurt her heart. You don't have time for yourself, but you have time to drive another girl halfway home? !
Because of this, Zongzi decisively chose to break up. By this time, her boyfriend still called her petty and unreasonable, completely unaware that her behavior had crossed the line.
Many men think that cheating should be physical cheating, but he doesn't know that emotional cheating is more hurtful than physical cheating. Those who think that sex has crossed the line are probably not worth loving.
Some people may find it difficult to master the behavior of men and women crossing the border, especially the understanding of "crossing the border" between boys and girls.
I have also talked with my girlfriends about the cross-border behavior between friends before, which can be summarized as follows:
Say good night to friends of the opposite sex every day (unbearable);
Often eat, drink and travel in bars alone with friends of the opposite sex (when the girlfriend/boyfriend dies);
Say "good", "dear", "baby", "hug" and "what"
Touching your head against the wall should be your girlfriend (boyfriend? ) patent, don't just show it to friends of the opposite sex;
Don't be like a pug in front of friends of the opposite sex, but also ask for help.
If you already have the other half, don't tease others. Because one will be jealous and the other will be moved.
When I think of how popular Shengxiao Mo used to be, he is a model husband in the eyes of many girls.
What impressed me the most was He Chenyi, who was very strict with herself after marriage. She often cleverly "uses" Mo Sheng and quietly refuses all women who want to get close to him.
In one scene, his friend told He that his female assistant had something to do recently and asked him to care about it. He Chenyi said that my wife wouldn't want me to interfere in my colleagues' private lives.
Hearing this, his friend said angrily, "It's good to get a wife. You always use your wife as a shield. Can your wife do it? "
He Chen was noncommittal about his friend's protest. He just smiled smugly. It's awesome to have a wife.
Why do so many girls like him? Because he not only loves his own woman, but also knows how to avoid suspicion and give the other half a sense of security.
Zray also said, "I like the girl I like, no matter how charming she is. The girl I don't like, she has no chance to spoil me. "
Don't say the excuse that "AUO is not full enough than lover", it's all hooliganism under the banner of beauty. Friends are always friends, lovers are always lovers.
Grasping the line is not only a respect for the other half, but also a responsibility for feelings.
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Agree that friends of the opposite sex should not cross the line.