Judging from the information released by the police, the two should not be married yet, or they are in a state of discussing marriage, or they have just broken up, and the man has not yet decided to get back together.
Can this case really be solved after Liu killed Li?
The murderer is dead and cannot fulfill criminal liability, but he must bear civil liability and repay it with his own assets. Destroying two families with one knife is not a good ending both intellectually and emotionally. How should the two elderly families clean up this mess in the future?
The girl has died, and the girl’s family is most hurt. The murderer destroyed the girl's family and should be severely punished based on the truth. Poor people must be hateful. From the perspective of family ethics, children are the hope of a family's future. Now only the person involved knows the pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person away.
When men and women talk about friends, they must stop in moderation. Try to choose people who have the same views and speak the same language, and who are emotionally dedicated. If there is a conflict, they must resolve it. However, this is a legal society and we cannot do whatever we want. If you hurt others, you hurt yourself. If he doesn't get it, he will destroy her. This may be his true thought when he kills. The more he gives, the more disproportionate he gets in return, which may also be a motive for murder.
Of course, this case can also give us some inspiration and lessons.
This situation also reminds young people in society, especially girls, to stay calm, not to have a fever, and not to make hasty decisions when finding someone to fall in love with. Love at first sight can only work out well on television. It takes time to get to know a person. Don't give everything as soon as you meet. When you find problems in getting along, it's too late to quit.
It can be seen from the murderer's behavior that the victim is looking for a person with a bad character. He always carries a murder weapon, so a normal person would have a knife with him or he would be killed. Therefore, it takes a long time to find a partner, you never realize it, and it also takes a long time to get familiar with it. Especially if you want to truly understand a person, you cannot get along with him for a short period of time.
Then, during the relationship, you must handle the financial transactions well, and try not to urinate before the relationship is confirmed. If we want to buy this, if the other party invests too much, it will often become a trigger in the later stage. The person you are speaking to should be on an equal footing. As long as the other person really likes you and loves you, he will take the initiative to give you souvenirs and buy gifts. If you break up, you should take the initiative to repay the other person's money. Don’t think that what is given to you is yours. Financial entanglements were also the beginning of tragedy.
In many places, when a girl gets married, the man must pay a bride price. Whether this custom is good or bad is up for debate. But as a girl, you still have to be cautious. Many beautiful marriages have been ruined by bride price. As for the bride price itself, according to the original intention of the old society, it is now sold at a high price, and in some places the price is based on the girl's weight.
If the bride price is good for the man’s family, that’s easy to say. If you lend money to the bride price, the debt will become the woman’s debt after marriage. The more betrothal gifts, the heavier the debt, and life after marriage will not be so easy. It’s okay for the girl’s parents to help her put on makeup. Some parents are digging holes for themselves if they don't accompany her to put on makeup.
I say this here because many young people cause disputes and even break up relationships just for the gift of bride price, and this should be taken seriously.