1, the general police will not pay attention to who started it, but whether there is intentional or excessive behavior in the process of self-defense. Others scratch you and bleed, and you slap others in the face, which can't be used as a basis for judging responsibility at all. They are all minor injuries. It depends on the cause of the matter, who is more immoral. Therefore, when the police handle this matter, you must insist that "you acted in self-defense, and you had to do it, not intentionally bullying"! Remember! Remember!
It doesn't matter if the police treat you like a person. When you let her go, you must insist that you also have the inviolable right of the person and insist on equality between men and women. Besides, slapping him is not a big deal at all, so don't be too defensive. There's nothing the police can do if they don't accept it.
To say the least, if the other party asks you to pay for medical expenses, lost time and so on, even when you are wrong, you should insist on not paying. The police dare not make a public statement unless you have it first!
If you are not satisfied with the police's handling results, you can complain, and the most rogue thing is not to implement it! Nothing will happen, and I will never send you to prison!