The director also has his own little thoughts, knowing that film and television works come from life, and they must also feed back reality.
Therefore, at the end of each episode, there is a summary and teaching from the famous sociologist Shen Yifei, which makes some of the issues reflected in the play have practical significance and value.
In the play, the lawyer Qin Shi played by Yang Mi is mainly cool, while Huayang played by Soso is mainly Buddhist.
How did two people with such huge contrasts meet and fall in love?
Captivated the audience from the start.
Although they have the stereotypes of idol dramas, they are supported by reality. Finally, through their emotional relationship, they discover three practical issues.
First, workplace discrimination.
In order to develop his career, Qin Shi, with the help of his master, carried out the so-called "strategic disguise", that is, a fake marriage.
Because the law firm she works for has no future as a single female lawyer, or there are no more development opportunities. Only married people can become partner-level lawyers.
This is institutional discrimination, which is powerless for a principled and individual person like Qin Shi.
So Qin refused at first, but in the end she had to find someone online for a "fake marriage".
Because she decided to rebel against this system, this society, and wanted to prove through her own efforts that single people like her should not be discriminated against or treated unfairly. Obviously she has greater ambitions.
There are many such discriminatory personnel systems, especially women, who are discriminated against everywhere. They are excellent and have outstanding abilities, but because of such personnel systems or unreasonable regulations, they are shut out and even unable to display their talents at work.
On the one hand, it has important practical significance and value.
As Qin Shi said, he was not facing one person, but a group of people, or even an institution, a system, and a society. Because of such an unreasonable personnel system, it is impossible for a lawyer like himself to enter a good law firm and take on a slightly influential case.
Second, parents urge marriage.
This problem was encountered by Huayang.
In order to force Huayang to get married, his parents even shut him out and regarded him as an unfilial son. The relationship between mother and son was tense for a time.
From my mother’s perspective, my biggest dream is for him to become famous and have a family. I don't need him to become a famous businessman, but at least I want to give back to society and my family. The most direct thing is to get married and have children. He also said that I was still young and had the energy to take care of my children.
He also said that he doesn’t want him to get married now. He wants to do what he should do at any age like others, and his life will slowly return to normal. He doesn't want to be happy, as long as he is lucky, his greatest hope is happiness.
Obviously, in reality, most parents think so, but they are unable to impress their children. The relationship between parents and children will still be tense due to marital problems.
For this problem, Mr. Shen Yifei gave some solutions.
First of all, we must learn to understand, because in the era that our parents' generation experienced, marriage and continuing the family line were one of the most important meanings of survival. But now the times have changed, marriage is no longer inevitable, but a necessity. This is a choice, so differences in concepts are inevitable, and both children and parents must learn to understand.
Secondly, children should be honest and confused with their parents, and put themselves and their parents on an equal footing.
You can be honest with your parents about the difficulties and problems you have encountered, so that your parents will be more aware of your choice.
Finally, parents should also take care of their own married life.
Parents’ marital life has a great impact on their children. Many children do not want to get married, and many are affected by their parents' marital life. They don't want to be like their parents, who had a bad marriage. Therefore, parents should manage their married life well and let their children experience the joy of family and having children, which will help their children enter married life.
In addition to parents taking the initiative, children can also give suggestions to force parents to manage their lives.
The ultimate goal is that marriage is the goal of both generations, not the conflict today.
Third, the issue of blind date.
Since there is a problem of parents urging marriage, there must be a problem of blind date.
In the play, you can see that Huayang’s mother introduced him to many blind dates, but some of them didn’t catch his eye, or the other parties didn’t like him, so of course they simply refused the blind dates. This is the norm in the current blind date process.
Regarding this issue, Shen Yifei first clarified the misunderstanding about blind dates.
In her opinion, dating is equal to making friends.
1. Blind date is a contradictory process. Generally speaking, if a blind date arranged by parents is approved by their parents, there will be much fewer conflicts in the future, so it is pre-arranged.
2. Can understand the attitudes and ideas of the opposite sex towards marriage and love. Everyone's social circle is limited, and their knowledge of the opposite sex is even limited. Through blind dates, you can directly understand the attitudes and thoughts of the opposite sex towards marriage and love, which is helpful for marriage and love.
3. Blind date can help you understand what you want and what you don’t want. Because everyone doesn’t know what they want in marriage and love when they have no experience, but blind date is like a mirror, you can see clearly what kind of person you like.
Now that we are aware of the benefits of blind date, how do we find a partner through blind date?
Teacher Shen Yifei believes that you must first think clearly about your criteria for choosing a mate. You must not be unclear or have too many criteria. It’s about staying in touch with your bottom line and making a connection. But