2. The man's compensation for death should be divided according to the close relationship with the life of the deceased, and generally divided equally by parents, spouses and children.
3. Regarding the custody of children, according to Article 21, parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children; Children have the obligation to support and assist their parents.
Minors or children who cannot live independently have the right to ask their parents to pay alimony when their parents fail to perform their alimony obligations. Twenty-first parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children; Children have the obligation to support and assist their parents. So children should be raised by their mothers. If their mother doesn't raise their grandparents, they can do so. The mother needs to bear alimony, and which party will pay for the compensation for the children there?
Legally speaking, the custody of a child without a father can only belong to the mother. If the mother doesn't want what her grandparents gave her, she can. If grandparents don't want others, it may constitute a crime of abandonment.