The story is over and the marriage is over, but their love made me cry.
When I first saw the name of this movie, I guessed it was a touching love story. I didn't know this was a divorce story until I saw the marriage mediator sitting opposite them. After watching the complete drama, I found that this is not only a story about divorce, but also a story about love.
Nicole had a stable relationship before she met Charlie. She is a star actress. Charlie is not only a drama actor, but also a very talented and cutting-edge drama director. They fell in love at first sight. Nicole gave up her bright future in L.A. and went to new york, where Charlie was, to be his favorite dramatic actress. In the past ten years, Charlie has made great achievements as a director, while Nicole has been drowned in daily chores. In addition to her husband and children, she has become more and more inferior. The most important thing is that Charlie can't see her change at all and won't make any comfort at all. So, the last straw that crushed their marriage came. Nicole once had an opportunity to act in Los Angeles. Charlie not only didn't support her, but also laughed at her, which led Nicole to file for divorce and "won a great victory".
Maybe I read too many stories about my enemies after divorce, so I was warm by this sad story and moved by their love.
1. Love is hoping to give you a higher posture.
Nicole before the divorce, I can find her shadow in many women around me. However, I can also frankly say that most of them will not choose to divorce. At most, they will vent their anger in front of their girlfriends and then continue to live with their husbands. Nicole is brave in this respect. She doesn't want to settle down, she wants to realize her own value.
Of course, Nicole's difference is that she originally had a star aura, because Charlie's aura was attracted. Later, Charlie's aura became brighter and brighter, but she became his accessory, getting dimmer and dimmer, and finally became a kind of suffering, so she chose to divorce.
Nicole's divorce doesn't mean she doesn't love Charlie anymore. On the contrary, she just wants to match him with a higher attitude, just like when they were in love, although they finally went further and further.
At this point, when she met the lawyer for the first time, she mentioned the scene of her first meeting with Charlie. Her radiant appearance proves how much she loves Charlie and that she is worthy of him. Then she threw herself into his arms, and he was in charge of everything, big and small. She lost herself and didn't even feel Charlie's love. In her eyes, Charlie loves the theater more than her. And all this, I believe she hasn't talked to Charlie face to face, and she needs Charlie to find out for herself.
This can be seen from the fact that they finally broke out in a fierce quarrel and neither of them knew what the other was thinking. This is very sad, because I don't understand, so even if I love again, it will hurt, and if I love deeply, it will hurt.
2. Love, even in the most vicious times, they expressed their love, but they were late but never absent.
With the appearance of lawyers, in order to compete for custody of their son, Nicole and Charlie really responded to what Charlie's lawyer said: criminal lawyers let people see the best of bad people, and divorce lawyers let people see the worst of good people. Without this struggle for children, they would never have thought that they would do such cruel things to each other, and they would never have thought that each other could be so bad in their own eyes. In court, two lawyers argued endlessly about money, while Nicole and Charlie did whatever it took to get custody of their son, because no one could afford to lose.
Sometimes I can't figure it out. Many years ago, a close friend of mine came to Shenzhen on a business trip for a month, and there is a small detail that I still remember. He said that during this month, he didn't miss his wife at all, but he missed his son more and more every day. At that time, I was thinking, didn't you have a wife first, and they combined to have a child? When did children become the main force of marriage?
Although the two men revealed their shortcomings to each other in court, they didn't say so much to each other in person after all. However, as the battle for sons enters the final stage, the long-standing patience can no longer be suppressed.
The scene where two people broke out can be used as a textbook for husband and wife to quarrel. They are open and honest, and do their best to slander, as if standing in front of them is not a partner who has been together for ten years, but an executioner who brutally killed his loved ones. If you are watching a movie and your husband and wife have a bad relationship, you may think that they are the masters of quarrels you hired, and they are telling the pain in your marriage.
However, after the viciousness, Charlie burst into tears. Nicole was shocked by this scene, which she had never seen before, because in her eyes, Charlie was strong and confident. And when Charlie knelt on the ground and was comforted by Nicole, the sentence "I'm sorry" was better than the thousand words "I love you" and directly poked my tears. Since then, I feel that no one in marriage is easy, and everyone has given up a lot for marriage.
At first, Nicole always talked about how she paid for her marriage and fell to the bottom, but in this one-off story of Charlie, Charlie paid a lot for love and marriage. Maybe many girls will think his words are bullshit, but all I hear is love. When they met, he was still young and had just made a big splash. He has many opportunities for debauchery. He didn't want to get married, but Nicole wanted to get married, so he got married. Even though his fame grew, he remained loyal to Nicole until they slept in different beds. You can't deny that this is also his sacrifice and love for marriage.
Love, love is easy to get along with, but their love is still there.
The marriage finally broke up under the condition of mutual intransigence.
After the divorce, Charlie returned to the familiar new york, the familiar bar, and complained about his infinite love for Nicole from Aidit. When he sang the lyrics of the musical Friends, it seemed to be specially made for him:
Who will hurt you too much,
Who will sit in front of you,
To keep you awake,
Yes, but that's not all,
You think that's it,
There are many reasons not to be with someone,
But you can't give a good reason to be single.
People who depend too much on you,
He knows you too well,
Who will suddenly stop you,
Make you miserable.
The protagonist of Partner refuses to enter the marriage hall because of fear, but Charlie still has hope for marriage, and he still hopes that Jenny and I can go on.
Just like when he went back to Nicole's mother's house again and saw Nicole, he couldn't wait to tell Nicole that he accepted the invitation from Los Angeles, which was actually a compromise, love or redemption for Nicole. I wish Ginny could give him another chance, but Nicole's new boyfriend gave the answer.
Seeing this may have broken my dream of getting back together with them I'm a little disgusted with Nicole, and even think that maybe Charlie's accusation against Nicole in The Big Bang Theory may be right: you were willing before you changed your mind. You came to me to escape from Los Angeles, and now you're accusing me.
Nicole has been struggling, and so has her feelings before marriage. At that time, her career was dazzling. She felt that she still loved each other, but her heart was dead. Charlie revived her heart, but as time went on, her career was gone and her heart was in a coma again. You seem to have a hard time figuring out what she really wants, dear. Career? Or a double harvest of career and love?
I forgave Nicole until I saw the tears in her eyes when Charlie took over the Los Angeles project. She still loves Charlie, but her life has to go on.
When my son and Charlie read to each other with Nicole's eyes, Charlie should have heard it a year ago. Charlie's tears and trembling lips should have seen many people crying. I can't help crying anyway. Nicole, Nicole, why don't you tell Charlie this? Maybe you can stay together.
After a sleep, I figured it out. Nicole is afraid to listen to the beauty in Charlie's eyes. She was afraid of being caught by Charlie again, and then she never had the courage to run away. In that case, she will always be a vassal of Charlie. And she didn't let Charlie hear his words from her eyes, because it was full of love, and she dared not express it again.
Seeing the final ending, I really want to scold the director. However, I understand that the director is right, cruel but true. Let marriage end and love last forever. This is the final outcome given to us by the director.