Contemporary inspirational celebrity case classic story 1: Cherish yourself and stay away from acting Author: Liu Tong
There is a kind of loneliness that the truth can only be told to oneself, and what others say is insincere lies.
When the host called my name, my mind kept telling myself: Don't lie, don't lie ... The host said, "Mr. Liu Tong, can you talk about your feelings about this movie?"
I looked at the host and the audience looked at me. My mind is full of vomit. I searched over and over for what I wanted to say, but I couldn't find a good word at all.
I said, "The songs in the movie are very nice. You see, I can hum them now. "
The host's attitude was firm: "What kind of feelings did the feelings presented in that movie bring to you?"
The general plot of this movie is that one person loves another person, but he doesn't say it. The terrible thing is that the degree of ambiguity between two people makes all the people with them become searchlights. One always pretends to be innocent, and the other always pretends to be ignorant.
I said, "The biggest feeling for me is that if you really meet a good partner, don't be slow. The love you dare not say is still because you don't love enough."
The host can't stand it. When I left, my colleague in charge of film promotion in the company looked at me sternly and said, "What you said is really ugly." I smiled and said, "I'm glad I didn't tell the truth."
That night, I slept soundly.
I don't know when I started. I'm no longer confused about how to answer other people's questions to show my kindness.
I remember that before graduation, whenever someone asked me for advice, I would try my best to find out the advantages of the other person and comment on them, and I was complacent about it. Later, I began to have my own attitude and analysis about things. Every time someone asks me a question, I will seriously say, "Well, I have some opinions on this matter ..."
I spoke very thoroughly and sincerely, and I was moved by myself, thinking: Look, who cares about you so much except me!
Once I participated in a film review and watched a program of other columns, I carefully recorded a whole page of suggestions and listed the top ten injuries in the program and the reasons for these injuries. When it was my turn to speak, I didn't get to the fourth point. The producer of another program flushed. Why am I so serious about telling you the answer you want to hear, but you are not happy?
In fact, every time I realize that I have a problem, I will try to adjust my trajectory so that I will not continue to move in the wrong direction. When I realize that I always lie to make the other person happy, I can't allow myself to continue to flatter.
One year when I came home for the Spring Festival, I bought an intelligent heating pad for the toilet at home, but my mother refused.
I tried to convince her of the function of this mat and how good it is for you.
I argued with my mother for two hours. I was stubborn. My mother could only express her anger by crying. As soon as my mother cried, I became stupid and quickly said, "What I said is always right! Where did I go wrong? Just contradict me. Why are you crying? " Then, my mother said, "I don't care if you are right, your attitude is wrong from the beginning!" " "
I was cheated at that time.
Truth is not the most important thing, attitude is the most important thing-this is an extremely profound ideological education lesson my mother gave me when I grew up.
Sometimes the truth doesn't need to be too clear. As long as you express your views with a correct and acceptable attitude, everyone will be happy.
When I was a child, I tried to make myself have an attitude towards everything because I didn't have my own views on things. Later, I gradually matured and realized that even if I have my own views on things, I don't have to say them one by one. Your attitude sometimes speaks louder than your words.
There are two explanations: one is chatter, the other is silence. The former is disgusting, the latter is awesome. When you go from endless explanation to no explanation in words, basically, your future will not waste time on "explanation", you will only choose to show it to the other party.
We can choose not to tell the truth, but we must not tell lies. Don't tell the truth, you can have your own attitude; Lying loses the principle of being a man.
Don't explain if you hear it upside down, just "hehe".
When you see a gossip, you just need to disappear from the world with him.
Indifference and indifference are the most powerful counterattacks against people and things you don't like.
When you get to my age and think back to those moments when people feel helpless and collapsed, you will probably think that those things are all jokes now, and you can't understand why you were so entangled and wasted so much time. In order to let yourself praise yourself after many years, please cherish yourself and stay away from acting.
Contemporary inspirational celebrity case classic story 2: Zhou Yunpeng never listens. Author: Chai Jing
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When I want to interview Zhou Yunpeng, I will go to a park in Shaoxing to take some outdoor photos. The park service stopped selling tickets when they saw our cameras. My sister in a blue uniform said, "The park is under maintenance today." We said, "Shoot birds, not people." "That won't do either." In this case, most people are either angry or beg humbly. Lao Zhou stood by and asked painfully, "Do birds need to be repaired?" The elder sister was forced to say, "It's still repaired."
We hurriedly took the letter of introduction and asked her superior. When they confirmed that we were only filming "The Cultural Life of a Blind Singer in Shaoxing", they let us in, followed by three or five people politely.
Entering the park, Zhou Yunpeng said, "Leaders are afraid of birds complaining. As soon as he entered the door, the peacock knelt on the ground. "
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The streets in Shaoxing are very clean, and the bluestones on the bridge are polished smoothly. He and the green demon walked faster than anyone with their arms between their arms, without a blind stick. Walking past the wooden shop, he smelled the flowers and stopped to let us buy some fresh wooden gyroscopes. Shaoxing is rainy, with the electric heater on, rubbing hands and breathing around the dark red light. A few oranges on the table are peeled, cool, heavy and fragrant. The rain is really cold. I said, "How did you come from a northerner?"
He thinks Beijing is like a combination of soup, water and fire. It is always heated. In the pot, it is a hundred years old and thick. "It can satisfy hunger, but it is not new." Later, except for people like King Kong, many people were boiled into soup.
He said: "I always like to jump out for a walk when I am half-baked."
He said it was his life. "People's life often revolves around a motive. Music is also the first important sentence. When there is a melody motive, the fate of this song is doomed. " This motivation began when he was young. His mother took him to see his eyes and took the green leather train everywhere. "There is no way out of despair. Look at a wall. Anxiety is not knowing what to look at, and there are still 50%. "
"People want to be trapped and want to go to new places. The taste of every place is different, even the cock crows differently. Chicken crows in Henan are more violent than those in Tibet. "
Just going in and out, stop and go, afraid of being built in a cement model. "Whether it is the meaning of self-improvement or the meaning of wandering on the road, if you are kidnapped, you are actually performing, no matter how beautiful the word is."
"People are afraid of not having crutches." I said.
"That is also a kind of kidnapping. Later, I tried hard not to rely on someone or a certain place. The key is honesty. If the inner voice is not like that, don't be like that. "
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His self-vigilance is always strong. In his words, "freedom means having the right to constantly doubt, or having the possibility of doubt, and doubt means self-renewal."
Many people who write poems and sing songs don't ask the secular, while Lao Zhou cares about the secular. When he wrote about Cui Jian and Tayu Lo, he also wrote about himself. "I don't want to be dominated by the will of the group all the time ... The key is that no one can determine where the boundaries of self are, and ... they are soft-hearted and will not go far away from the times to pioneer."
We eat taro in a small shop in Shaoxing. We ordered four dishes, three bowls of yellow rice wine and white rice, 25 yuan. He said: "If this is in Beijing, the hotel is not its own house and the rent is expensive. The boss must say this is not bad. Why not use waste oil? "
He wrote all these feelings, instead of calling himself a lover of world classics and an amateur thinker. In the face of public problems, he also started from a personal point of view: "Someone hurt your friend or someone you care about, and you feel very painful, and the pain and happiness have expanded."
However, while writing social news, he blamed himself, feeling that this kind of tension with time limit is not easy. In the weekly column, some comments were written in a hurry and there were traces of forged words. As soon as he felt reluctant, he stopped again.
Behind his house in Shaoxing, there is a cold green river. He sat on the stone platform by the river and fiddled with his guitar: "Life is like playing the piano, it can't be just tight or loose, it can be loose or poured out tightly."
No matter where China people are now, as Lao Zhou said, they always feel "out of town", which is a kind of anxiety. Like an underground river, it keeps going day and night and doesn't even know its own anxiety.
Folk songs have had this taste for thousands of years. Rolling, Wei Wei, Xiao He, _ _, Mamer ... all sang their own nests. If people don't have these grass stems attached to the soil, they will dry up alive.
"Ah, it's dark, so big." Just a few words, such a tune is full of joys and sorrows from ancient times to the present, but people can have a broad understanding after listening to it, that is, Lao Zhou said, "People don't live completely in the present, you have many extensions in ancient times and in the future, and you are a profound and complete person."
People are alive and indifferent, sighing and singing. As long as the Sophora japonica is still in bloom, the willows are still swinging, the wind is still blowing the little moon, and the folk songs are still there. They will grow by themselves and arch out hard soil with fishy smell. During the day and night, the seeds are taken away by birds and blown away by the wind. They are wet. They have to find their own way, the rope can't be tied, and the stone can't be pressed.
It does not dispute anything, it just wants to grow freely according to its own nature.
In Shaoxing, under the window of his writing, Zhou Yunpeng showed me the old lady in the narrow gate of Xiao Mu singing revolutionary songs with the accompaniment of electronic organ, full of vigor and vitality all day long. He wrote: "at first, I let go of reggae and death metal and confronted them, but it didn't work." Then I remembered Teresa Teng and found the complete works of Teresa Teng. "
A cavity of selfish tenderness, all the red and shiny things infiltrated, and the water was silent.
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One day, I read the letter from Shi Tiesheng to Wang Shuo in Harvest and thought it was really well written. I had to share it with others, so I suddenly sent it to Zhou Yunpeng.
Shi Tiesheng and Wang Shuo are talking about faith, and faith is the most difficult thing to talk about. Everyone has his own experience. I have to say, my vision is broad, and you can't deny my experience. It is difficult for others to comment on this personal view. However, Shi Tiesheng's letter is dull, humorous and happy. He said he didn't understand a lot of things, but talking to people was not a comparison. He objected to absolute arbitrariness. "Well, listen to me, I'll do it for you", because things that people don't understand are the easiest to catch people, promise you a truth and an end point, which is fascinating, and then leave, but can't ask again. "Listen to me, keep asking, and we will be blind."
He said: "That's the easiest place to breed a kind of hegemony."
Shi Tiesheng thinks that "I always listen to everything that is omnipotent or claims to be omnipotent." He feels that there is no end to no road, so he can only take this road and tear down whatever he meets.
I think Zhou Yunpeng is very similar to Shi Tiesheng in this respect-honesty. I thought about it, what is honesty? Honesty is spiritual agreement. I don't believe in any sudden change or epiphany. I'm always a little suspicious of what others are holding. He said to me, "It's like rowing a boat. You should have your own rudder and don't go upstream. That's also melodramatic. But individuals can drive around. Why is there such a thing on board? Because individuals have a direction, people have to make some adjustments. "
So he added "never listen" after "always young, always crying". I don't believe who set the direction, but I would like to see the confession, so that I won't be kidnapped by anything, including myself.
At the end of our interview, many people had dinner together, and everyone couldn't help boasting that "Lao Zhou is a man with strong spirit" and "he sees more clearly than any of us with discerning eyes".
Zhou Yunpeng listened for a while and recited "Please scatter my ashes into the sea".
Everyone laughed and dispersed.
Classic story 3: Bin Yang left Bin Yang at the age of 45. She submitted her resignation to Guangzhou Procuratorate on March 20 16 15 after her career as a prosecutor ended. Four days later, her resignation was approved, and she admitted that the time was unexpectedly short.
It is easy to practice at the public gate.
After the new century, Yang Bin is probably the most famous prosecutor in Guangdong. She frequently appeared in the media, from CCTV to local TV stations, Yang Bin prosecutors would calmly express their thoughts in front of the camera. As a rising star in the system, she is not the "Gao Daquan" specially shaped by the system. On the contrary, at first, she was discovered by public opinion as a heterogeneous system.
Anyone who has heard of her knows that it dates back to an old case 10 years ago.
A young mother, Zhou Mouying, whose husband goes out to work every day, is trapped in a rented house in Guangzhou and takes care of three children alone. The oldest is 4 years old and the youngest is only 9 months old. Live without money. Bad luck always attacks the weak. The 9-month-old daughter fell ill, and the young mother spent all her savings, but the disease recurred. She drowned her daughter in the dark river near the village at midnight.
As the public prosecutor of the case, Yang Bin did not convict and prosecute as usual, and declared that she had committed an "unforgivable crime". Instead, she read her own indictment, and she sobbed and asked the court for leniency. Her sympathy stems from a question that she can never answer. What can she do if she is translocated and in the desperate situation of Zhou Mouying?
"Zhou Moying's experience is of course her personal tragedy, but isn't it the tragedy of this society and this era?" Soon, Yang Bin's indictment flowed out of the court. In the questioning of "unprofessional" and "putting on a show", the torture of the system and sympathy for the weak quickly hit the pain point of this era. Five years later, at the end of 20 10, the defendant Zhou Mouying was released from prison in advance and came to thank him, completely making Yang Bin the darling of public opinion.
A person in the system is not "one thousand people" or the only one in Nuo Nuo, but expresses her own thoughts: there is eternal humanitarianism above the law-this personality makes her image stand out.
Her father told her an old saying, "It's easy to practice at the public gate." This sentence was interpreted for the first time in Yang Bin's career. "As public officials, our position and status mean that we have more or less resources in our hands, and we can do something good for the people." The ruthlessness of the system made her even feel that what she should do was original sin.
More people turn to Yang Bin for help, and hundreds of letters for help are often piled up on her desk.
It's good to practice at the public gate. For Yang Bin, there is a second experience. "In the public gate, doing something good will be magnified and put on a halo."
This sentence is modest, but it is not unreasonable.
20 1 1, Yang Bin was selected as "the just figure in China" by Justice.com. More important is the recognition within the system. Her unique style of public prosecution, once criticized for ignoring the overall situation and talking in court, has now become "doing a good job in mass work." At that time, the procurator-general of Guangdong Province called on "every prosecutor should learn from her".
After that, Vencent Yang ushered in the most brilliant period of her career. She began to wear red and hang green frequently, "iron shoulders play fair and just, and tender feelings interpret law enforcement for the people." In this way, she held six reports on advanced deeds in one year, and was elected as the representative of the Guangdong Provincial Party Congress, becoming a new star in Ran Ran's political and legal system.
It can't catch the real bad guys,
There's nothing I can do about really good people.
This is a period of high spirits. Looking back on her next move, Bin Yang said that she just didn't expect the consequences to be so serious. "In the past, all typical models were built by systems. Without relying on the system, people within the system can also have their own social influence, which was unimaginable in the past. "
The influence comes from Weibo. 20 1 1, the first Weibo she wrote, announced her existence. "I'm Yang Bin, and I want to share a true life story with you."
At that time, it was the time for Weibo to ask about politics. As a person in the system, the most eye-catching thing is of course her criticism of the system.
One month after the opening of Weibo, Yang Bin was informed to attend Weibo class; Three months later, the leader talked to her, and she wanted to cancel the real-name authentication; Half a year later, she suddenly felt, "Because of this Weibo, she was talked about for the nth time".
Colleagues from the Political Department interviewed her and discussed with her. Now they are helping you apply for honor. Did you stop in Weibo? -20 1 1 Guangzhou procuratorate is applying for the national model prosecutor for Yang Bin, and the application materials have been sent to the Supreme People's Procuratorate, which is the highest honor of the procuratorial system. But she wouldn't stop.
Later, colleagues from the Political Department told her that the Supreme People's Procuratorate had not approved their application.
This is the end of the honeymoon period, after which the system will not promote her.
She was transferred from the first-line public prosecution post and stopped working. Moving around is giving lectures to enterprises in the duty crime prevention department, seconding the political and legal Committee to make Guangzhou safe, and then working with young people as the oldest staff at the window to make file inquiries. These jobs all have the same characteristics, one is leisure and the other is marginal. She also applied to be transferred back to the post of public prosecutor to re-examine the case, but the application was like a stone, and there was no news. Nobody told her why.
"The biggest advantage of this system is that it can't take away the real bad guys, but it can't take away the real good guys."
Yang Bin said he was a good man.
The way to survive
As for Bin Yang's resignation, Qu Bo described it as anger and resignation. She said that Weibo was indignant: this was the "reverse elimination" of the system, a great loss of justice, and reflected the darkness and corruption of the system and the sorrow of the society.
But this time, Yang Bin didn't agree with his solidarity. "I don't really like this interpretation." What she wants to emphasize is that she left mainly because she saw the vast space outside the system, and she did not leave with anger.
After resigning, Yang Bin joined the law firm of his friend Zhu Yongping and decided to become a lawyer.
Two years ago, Yang Bin established the Tian Xiang Care Fund to provide humanitarian assistance to both parties in criminal cases. These all need funds to operate.
She expressed no hesitation about the opinion that District Bo wanted her to leave. After all, lawyers dare to speak more and prosecutors dare to speak less.
Zhu Yongping disagrees with this. On the contrary, he feels that without the recognition of the system, he can speak more freely and will not be over-interpreted. Moreover, he doesn't think talking to himself on Weibo is a good way to express himself. He believes in traditional communication channels, such as newspaper columns, TV programs and radio ... He has made up his mind to take Bin Yang to these places in the future, where there will be room for her expression. Although the speech will be censored, the channel is at least more stable.
Facts seem to confirm his judgment. Since 20 13 network public opinion environment improvement, Yang Bin said that Weibo has gradually declined. She no longer sends hundreds of Weibo every year. In a month, she only sent five.
"Then I will give up." She said.
Such a compromise is also a way to survive.
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