I'm afraid not.
People all over the world, whether elders or teachers, are encouraging themselves to strive for progress. I believe it goes without saying a hundred times that everyone is struggling as long as they live in this world. Students for grades, workers for performance.
It's inevitable to work hard, but it's embarrassing to keep working hard and see no progress. What's the problem?
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The so-called life is limited, and knowledge is also limited. When we can't find the answer ourselves, we learn from efficient individuals and teams-how do they make rapid progress?
the answer is that these excellent individuals and teams intentionally put themselves in two areas alternately: the learning area and the execution area.
Learning area refers to doing something to improve our goals, so that we can pay attention to what we haven't mastered, so that we can make mistakes, because we must learn from them.
However, when we are in the executive area, what we do is completely different. We must focus on solving problems with the methods we have mastered, which is like getting a test paper in the examination room. We just need to do our best.
many of us want to do everything best in life. So, we spent a lot of time and worked very hard to do things, but the result was not satisfactory and we still stagnated. One of the reasons is that we have been stuck in the executive area.
In the executive area, we have been doing what we are familiar with and feel comfortable, but we dare not or unconsciously improve our skills in unfamiliar areas.
the time we spend in the executive area may hinder our growth, and ironically, it will also affect our performance in the long run.
so, what is the study area like? Let's learn from our predecessors.
demosthenes was a political leader and the greatest orator and lawyer in ancient Greece. How did he stand out as a great man?
Great things need a lot of time to practice, but he doesn't spend all his time on speeches and laws, which are his execution fields. Demosthenes found that being a lawyer should also convince others. In order to improve himself, he made some research on speeches and performances.
When he found that he would shrug his shoulders inadvertently when he spoke, in order to avoid this quirk, he spoke in front of a mirror and hung a sword on the ceiling, so that whenever he shrugged his shoulders, he felt pain, thus effectively curbing this problem.
to avoid slurring words, he puts a stone in his mouth when he speaks.
Having overcome the lack of study, he easily came to the aspect of execution.
It can be seen that Demosthenes is undoubtedly wise. He spent his time on the most valuable study, overcame his own shortcomings, and gradually succeeded.
instead of indulging in doing things, it is better to paralyze yourself.
Sun Li, who is known as an empress in the entertainment industry, also feels that the importance of learning field is eclipsed.
As we all know, Sun Li's executive field is acting. Acting requires concentration and full play. However, lines, movements and expressions need to be prepared under the stage.
Sun Li, as a current first-line actress, plays a good TV series, whether it's Empresses in the Palace or Full Moon with Flowers That Year.
Her efforts in learning can't be underestimated. She will mark her understanding of the lines one by one, mark them with different symbols with colored pens, and shoot the scenes behind Empresses in the Palace together with the previous ones. For fear of getting her emotions wrong, she will write down the emotions of the last scene with a post-it note.
This seriousness has made her excellent in learning and her acting skills are perfect.
Her husband Deng Chao even publicly "spits" at her on Weibo: "Classmate, it's really boring to live with such people! The essay is a stack of manuscripts by Sun Li, and turning a page is all kinds of notes.
Sun Li's seriousness and her achievements today make us have to believe that God is balanced. You want to be an excellent person not only by simple actions, but also by making efforts to make up for the shortcomings of what you have done and constantly learning and improving.
no pains, no gains, never chicken soup
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I can't help but think that when I was in the college entrance examination, all subjects except math were OK, so there are reasons for my poor math. How did I treat it at that time?
Every time I do a math problem, I always do the problems that I can easily solve, but I turn a blind eye to the slightly more difficult problems such as space and function combination. I think it's too much trouble, and I don't understand it. As it turns out, laziness in study will be rewarded greatly in the future.
My high school math was a mess, and I missed the chance to go to my favorite university. Later, I finally had a chance to do a "unique skill" that my teacher warned me about-a math problem.
At that time, I only felt that it was time-consuming and laborious. Now I understand that facing up to difficulties is the most time-saving method. What progress can I make if I just do what I can?
Life is like a reverse journey, and the past cannot be traced. I can't blame myself. I can't blame myself for the past. Didn't you say that now is the best time to plant trees except ten years ago?
Let's start from now on. There are only so many difficulties. When we meet them, we should go all out to solve them. Only when the challenges are completed in the learning area can we become better and better ourselves in the executive area.
As Liu Yuanyuan, the super-speaker champion admitted to Peking University, said in his attitude towards the problem, the problem is to do one less thing, not an infinite day, which is true in both papers and life. Don't delay your progress because of your laziness and fear.
On Chinese: "The Master hears the Tao and works diligently; Chinese people hear that if they survive, they will die; "The servant heard this and laughed it off.
I hope we can all become first-class scholars, integrate knowledge with practice, and exchange countless diligence for a shining self to encourage you.