The mother and wife fell into the water at the same time, who should be saved first? ! ! ! The mother and wife fell into the water at the same time. Who will you save first? I don’t know when th

The mother and wife fell into the water at the same time, who should be saved first? ! ! ! The mother and wife fell into the water at the same time. Who will you save first? I don’t know when this problem started, and I don’t know if it was my mother or my wife who brought it up. This question seems simple, but it attracts many heroes! Just imagine, if you say save your mother first, then your wife will complain that you don't love her, even if you don't save her from falling into the water. How can I spend the rest of my life with you? If you save your wife first, then your mother will say, you unfilial son~ I raised you one by one, how can you be so heartless? The heroes knew that it would be more troublesome to save them first, so they started with the problem, saying, I am good at swimming, so it doesn't matter who comes first, I promise to save them all! So the questioner added a condition that only one could be saved! Now, say the heroes, I will save anyone who is around me. If you're nearby, you have a better chance of saving your life. So the questioner added another condition, and they were intimate! Now the heroes say, I will save whoever can't swim, and always save the dangerous person first~ So the questioner added another condition, neither of them can swim! Now, these people say, I can’t swim and I can’t save people. Hehe, the Romance of the Three Kingdoms is about to begin. Maybe there will be a destination! With the painful lessons of the predecessors, when future generations encounter this problem, they are like a mouse encountering a cat, and they are afraid to avoid it. The hero is actually very confused. Just live well. Why did they have to fall into the water together? Why can they only save one? This, this is not difficult for me~ In fact, the person who asked this question really wants to know who did you save first? In fact, they don't want to know who you save first, but who you help when the mother-in-law has a problem! In all families, at least in China, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a major factor affecting family harmony! On the surface, it seems to be a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In fact, it is a collision of values ????and outlook on life between two generations. As a son, of course you don't want your mother to be angry, but you must make her angry. After all, you are who you are today because of your mother’s upbringing. You were such a cell at that time. If your mother hadn't been pregnant in ten months, would you still be alive now? As a husband, especially a Chinese man, it can be said that it is a great shame for his wife to be wronged. If you can't even protect and love your wife, then what kind of man are you? Save the mother, then offend the wife, save the wife, and then offend the mother. Neither party can afford to offend, but it is not difficult to find that no matter who is saved, the protagonist, who is the son and husband, is not in danger of life. He is the only one who can survive. One of the people! Of course those who are saved are happy. Unsaved people are not simply sad; It is said that silence is greater than life and death~ So can one of them be saved without harming the other? If so, what can be done? It is a very tragic and extreme way, that is, the mother and the wife fall into the water at the same time. As the son and the hero of the husband, he should rescue the mother first, and then jump into the water and drown with his wife! The so-called filial piety comes first. When these two relatives are in danger at the same time, the mother must be saved first. Without their mother, there would be no you! You are where you are today because of your mother! Mom worked so hard to raise you * * just because she wanted to have someone to rely on when she gets old. She always hopes that you are more capable than herself. This is the only relationship among all relationships! Even your good friends, even your brothers, as individuals, always want to be more capable than others! I can be more promising than others! ! And parents always hope that their children are more capable than themselves! Therefore, by balancing the situation, save the mother first; as a husband, you cannot save your wife when her life is in danger. You don't deserve to be that man's husband! In order to be with you, my wife left the parents who raised her resolutely, because she trusts you, she believes that you can give her happiness, and you can bear the ups and downs of life for her. You deserve her lifelong trust! It took a thousand years to get a * * * pillow sleep ~ ~ Since you can't save her, then go to hell with her. This problem is destined to have a tragic ending. Only in this tragic and extreme way can we have the best of both worlds. First of all, I have fulfilled my filial piety as a child and saved my mother's life. Third, I have not betrayed my wife’s life-long trust because I have attached my life to your life-long trust! If you answer this question like this, I believe your mother and your wife will not care who you save first, but they are worried that if something like this happens, they will definitely lose you! So not only will this answer not offend both parties, but it will also let both parties know that no matter who is rescued first, you will definitely die in the end! In other words, you must be hurt in the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!