A man in Shangluo, Shaanxi Province was killed due to a neighbor dispute. Some people asked, if there was Sanchi Alley in ancient times, why can’t people today take a step back to open up the world? If you encounter similar problems, how to solve them? As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and seeing each other is worse than not seeing each other. There is no need to be so decisive. Take a step back and reflect your qualities. If you feel there is a dispute, take legal measures to resolve it. If you feel unhappy, there are many ways to resolve it.
1. When facing neighbor disputes, give him a step and leave room for leeway
The relationship between neighbors is the same as that of the people in "Love in the Courtyard". When people live in the same place, there will inevitably be some friction. As the saying goes: the pot and spoon will inevitably touch the edge of the pot. When encountering such a thing, you can learn from He Yuzhu in "Love in the Courtyard", known as "Silly Zhu". The reason why he is called a fool is because he is willing to suffer losses. Some people say that suffering a loss is a blessing, so Silly Zhu is full of blessings.
There is really no need to be serious between neighbors, because if you suffer a loss today, you may suffer a loss tomorrow. Just like Silly Zhu, many people think he is stupid, but many things require his intervention. Of course, someone came forward, that is Xu Damao, but no one trusted him. The main reason is that he is not a person like Silly Zhu, and he cannot be peaceful. Silly pillars act as a lubricant between neighbors.
Many people think that I suffered a loss today because I was bullied. It's OK once, it's OK twice, but it's not OK the third time. Because if you often suffer losses, you will be considered easy to bully by others, and others will often bully you. For example, Ah Q in "The True Story of Ah Q" would beat him when someone was in trouble and bully him when nothing happened. Because he is easy to bully! Some people think so, but if neighbors continue to be like this, the relationship between neighbors will definitely not be good.
When encountering problems, they must be resolved through negotiation. If the two parties cannot resolve the matter, then apply to the village for coordination and resolution. There will always be a solution to this matter. Some people say that the village can’t solve it? Then go through the legal process. We are a society governed by the rule of law, and some problems can be solved through legal means.
Second, disputes between neighbors can be resolved through legal channels
Some people think that the law is the bottom line for people to get along with each other. If everything is resorted to the law, then , the relationship between everyone will be very tense. Even if it works once, will it still work the second time? sure. In cities, many people can resort to law when they encounter problems, because there is no need to take responsibility for other people's mistakes. Whether it’s a nuisance or a minor problem between neighbors.
The significance of law is to regulate the behavior between people. If the other party has a problem, then solve it through coordination. If coordination is not good, it will be resolved by law. If you encounter a difficult owner, you must use the law to resolve it. Because the law gives people equal rights. If you feel that using the law still hurts harmony, then sit down and solve the problem. The law is the last barrier to solving problems. Some people say that if the law was used this time, what will happen next time? Or the law!
Some people are unwilling to use the law to solve problems because they believe that legal proceedings take a long time and may not be so accurate when facing problems. Even if it is resolved once, the other party will find other reasons to cause trouble. In this case, let's use the law to solve the problem next time. After all, everyone faces the same time. If he's not afraid of trouble, then don't continue. Someone will always give up.
Don’t be timid when you encounter problems, and there is no need to get angry. Just treat it as a car crash and settle the claim according to the traffic police’s determination. There is no need to argue or quarrel. It would be easy if we all sit down and discuss how to deal with the problem. Many people feel that there are certain things they cannot say. Then let the evidence speak for itself and other things that need attention. This is the way to solve the problem.
3. If you have bad relations with neighbors and are depressed, find some reasonable ways to vent them.
Some people feel that even if the problem is solved, they still cannot vent their anger. , what to do? Then find a way to vent it, so that you can face life better. Some people think, how to vent the anger in your heart? That depends on the size of the problem. If the problem is serious, go see a psychiatrist and ask the doctor to give you some psychological counseling. Only by facing psychological problems can you get relief.
If the problem is not big and you feel that the other person is not good and you cannot find a suitable method, then you can go to some "screaming rooms", which are vent rooms to vent.
In these places, the sealing is better, and you can express your anger, shout, and swear without any problem. This kind of venting will let out the inner depression. This will make people feel better.
If you feel that this is not possible, then go to some special place to vent. For example, in a plate smashing place, you can get as many plates as you enter. You can throw these plates to the ground, the wall, or anywhere in the room, and you can also release the depression in your heart. , which is also a way to alleviate it. Many people think that doing this all the time is not the answer.
There is also a place for boxing. If you hit the boxing gloves once, you can gain strength. If the value is high enough, you can get rewards. This rewarding way to vent is even more appealing. People like this way, which can relieve stress and get rewards at the same time, which makes them feel happy. The best way to deal with neighborhood problems is to detach yourself. As the saying goes, why not let him be three feet tall? What do you think about this? Welcome to leave a message!