First of all, the difference between a real person and a photo is extraordinary.
Modern illustration production technology is so expensive that even ugly people can use illustration production software to make themselves handsome and beautiful. Therefore, the credibility of the photos you see is very low, and there is a great possibility of disappointment after seeing real people.
Second, your understanding of the online dating object comes from him, and there is no means of field investigation.
In order to get their own goals, such as your approval, people often choose to hide factors that are not conducive to themselves and exaggerate their advantages. His hidden shortcomings may be your biggest concern or the biggest obstacle in your love.
Finally, online dating is too dangerous.
There are endless news of accidents, kidnappings, deception and so on in order to meet their netizens. It would be terrible if they were seen by girls. Indeed, meeting netizens is risky. Whether you meet rashly without knowing each other's true character or true thoughts, or you are alone, the possibility of an accident is really high.
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Online dating is not a good thing now, but we need to be vigilant and cautious.
First of all,
Be sure to be prepared for safety before going to meet netizens. It's a trap to meet netizens and not tell everyone.
Your own behavior.
You should tell people you know, even if you are afraid of your parents' opposition. Before meeting the net friends, you need to keep in touch with the people you trust and send them a place at any time. If a friend finds something unusual in your place, wants to call the police, or asks for help from his family, and doesn't know your specific location, he can't untie your encirclement as soon as possible.
Second,
If you are dissatisfied with each other after meeting, or find that they are hiding something from you, please try to control your emotions.
If the other person makes you feel dissatisfied and you don't want to be with him, then go home and deal with it after ensuring safety. Don't turn against others in public. If a person is embarrassed, something bad may happen. Even if you can't get a lover, there is no need for revenge.
Summary of case
From July 2065438 to July 2008, Xiao Chen, a sophomore, spent his summer vacation at home. Because the holiday was boring, Xiao Chen met Zhao Kexin whose online name was "Sad Eggplant" through a dating software. They fell in love at first sight, and soon established a "love relationship", and then they got along as boyfriend and girlfriend on the Internet.
During the communication, Zhao Kexin invited Xiao Chen to meet in the city where he lived for many times, but Xiao Chen didn't agree. On August 17 of the same year, Zhao Kexin invited Xiao Chen to his city again on the grounds of his birthday. Xiao Chen hesitated, so he prepared a gift and went to XX happily.
That night, Zhao Kexin arranged for Xie Dazhuang, a "friend", to stay in the hotel with Xiao Chen in order to monitor Xiao Chen. On August 18, Kexin Zhao discussed with Xie Dazhuang and took Xiao Chen to the hiding place. Xie Dazhuang instructed Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin to take care of Chen Xiaojing. Later, when Xie Dazhuang and others brainwashed Xiao Chen, Xiao Chen finally realized that he had fallen into a pyramid scheme. After many unsuccessful attempts to find opportunities, on the evening of August 29th, when members of the MLM organization were asleep, Xiao Chen turned out of the bathroom window. In the process of escape, Xiao Chen fell from the upstairs, his feet were empty and he was injured. It was identified that Xiao Chen's spinal injury constituted a minor injury.
After the incident, Zhao Kexin, Xie Dazhuang, Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin pleaded guilty. The public prosecution agency prosecuted Zhao Kexin, Xie Dazhuang, Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin for the crime of illegal detention.
After trial, Xie Dazhuang's family compensated Xiao Chen for 20,000 yuan, and obtained the understanding of Xiao Chen and his family.
Judgement result
After trial, the court held that according to the first paragraph of Article 238 of the Criminal Law of People's Republic of China (PRC), anyone who illegally detains others or illegally deprives others of their personal freedom by other means shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, criminal detention, public surveillance or deprivation of political rights. Those who are beaten or insulted shall be given a heavier punishment.
In addition, according to the provisions of Article 25 of the Criminal Law of People's Republic of China (PRC), * * * the same crime means that two or more people intentionally commit a crime. If two or more people commit a negligent crime, they shall not be punished as negligent crimes; Those who should bear criminal responsibility should be punished according to the crimes they committed.
In this case, the court sentenced Zhao Kexin to one year's imprisonment, Xie Dazhuang to ten months' imprisonment, Yu Dabao to ten months' imprisonment and Zhang Qin to ten months' imprisonment for the crime of detention. In addition, it was decided that the above four defendants should compensate the plaintiff, Xiao Chen, for medical expenses and other losses totaling RMB 109000.
Lawyer's review
Lawyer Xu Di of Guangdong Guo Hui (Beijing) Law Firm: The crime of illegal detention refers to the criminal act of illegally depriving others of their personal freedom by detention, confinement or other coercive methods. The object of this crime is the personal freedom of others. According to the first paragraph of Article 238 of the Criminal Law of People's Republic of China (PRC): "Whoever illegally detains others or illegally deprives others of their personal freedom by other means shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, criminal detention, public surveillance or deprivation of political rights. Whoever beats or insults others shall be given a heavier punishment. "
In this case, Zhao Kexin, Xie Dazhuang, Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin illegally detained others, all of which constituted the crime of illegal detention and should be punished according to law. The prosecutor charged him with guilt. In addition, according to Article 25 of the Criminal Law of People's Republic of China (PRC), the actions of four people constitute a joint crime: Zhao Kexin and Xie Dazhuang play a major role in the joint crime and are the principal offenders; Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin played a minor role in the crime of * * * *, and they were accomplices and could be given a lighter punishment.
After the incident, Xie Dazhuang's family actively compensated the victim Xiao Chen for his loss and obtained the understanding of the victim Xiao Chen and his family. Xie Dazhuang can be given a lighter punishment according to law. In view of the good attitude of pleading guilty after the four people were brought to justice, they can also be considered as appropriate when sentencing. The losses caused to Xiao Chen by the criminal acts of Zhao Kexin, Xie Dazhuang, Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin should be compensated according to law. Xiao Chen's claim that criminal incidental civil compensation is legal and reasonable should be supported. Therefore, the court finally made the above judgment.