Susu and her husband Shuoyang are college classmates. They fell in love for three years and got married after graduating from college. When you are in love, because you are all students, you are happy without material disharmony.
In the first year after graduating from college, they got married. After marriage, the two began to look for jobs, and Susie sent resumes everywhere and interviewed everywhere. But Shuoyang just throws his resume all day, waiting for the big company to throw an olive branch to him. When he goes to an interview, he always chooses the job and the job chooses him. Finally, Su Su worked for half a year, but Shuo Yang still didn't have a job.
Every time Susie asks Shuoyang for a job, he always responds vaguely. But a year later, instead of looking for a job, Shuoyang became more and more lazy, playing games at home every day, and then coming back to cook for Susie. When Susie is too tired to cook at work, she orders takeout.
Finally, Susie couldn't stand arguing with Yang Da. Shuoyang felt that Susu looked down on him, slammed the door angrily and didn't come back all night.
The next day, Shuoyang came home, apologized to Susie and said that he would look for a job. Later, Shuoyang found a job as a computer maintenance worker in a company with a salary of only 2,000 yuan.
After work, what Shuoyang said to Susie the most was that you should work hard, because my job has no future anyway.
Although Susie is a little uncomfortable, she feels that if she has children in the future, it is very troublesome to have no savings. So Susie works harder and usually tries her best to finish the tasks assigned by her boss. A year later, Susie was promoted to department head.
Susie has just been promoted, and there are many trivial things at work, and she often has to work overtime until late at night. But every time I want to have a good rest when I go home, Shuoyang usually plays games in front of the computer, and the stereo is very loud. So even at home, she can't get a good rest.
A while ago, Shuoyang wanted to borrow money to buy a car on the grounds that it was convenient to go to work.
Susu disagreed, saying that they didn't have any savings at all, and they couldn't afford the mortgage every month after buying a car.
Then Shuoyang said that he would return it.
Susu thought of Shuoyang's salary, paid off the car loan, and may even spend her living expenses.
At the end of the argument, Shuo Yang said: When I didn't have a job, you hated me for playing computer at home, and now you hate me for buying a car. You don't just think I'm poor and have no money, so you've always been so disgusted with me.
Susu only felt tired at that time, and all the fortresses collapsed instantly. She immediately replied: Yes, I just think you are poor. Are you satisfied?
Men like Shuo Yang are everywhere in real life. Obviously he doesn't make progress or work hard, but he thinks that his poverty is an excuse to attack those who love him. But you didn't suddenly become poor. You were poor from the beginning, so she knew you were poor from the beginning. Why is she with you again?
To put it bluntly, whether a woman loves you or not has nothing to do with whether you have money. You can be poor, but not poor!