At the beginning of Ode to Joy, Qiu Yingying was probably the one who was sprayed the most.
"Two", "stupid", "unclear" and "which pot is not open" are all about her.
A friend of mine watched several episodes of Ode to Joy and said, "A girl like Qiu Yingying is hopeless."
I don't agree, because I think Qiu Yingying is actually quite cute.
A rookie who just entered the workplace, what can she do? It is not necessarily a bad thing to fall a few times and be ridiculed a few times.
As long as she can't collapse, when she stands up again, she will naturally be more intelligent, thoughtful and experienced.
A few days ago, I read an article saying that Qiu Yingying's career path will only get narrower and narrower if she is so reckless. She will always be at the bottom of her career and will never be liked. I also think she will if she doesn't repent.
However, Qiu Yingying is not really hopeless. She also has a delicate side.
For example, in the first episode, when she asked Fan to help her decide which dress to wear to class with her favorite white supervisor, she couldn't hide her joy, but she probably found Fan who pulled her hair aside for the weekend a little boring and asked, "Sister Fan, what are you going to do on Saturday?" Fan Mei Sheng said: "Counting hair is fun." She didn't know how to comfort Sister Fan, so she asked balabala herself, "Sister Fan, what are you going to do on Sunday?" Fan Mei Sheng added: "Tell it to the mosquito that bit me." Now she can answer the phone and say, "Huh? Then why didn't you kill it? "
Obviously, Fan's two answers contain such a subtext: You little girl, enjoy yourself and I will do whatever I want. But Qiu Yingying doesn't think so. She felt very happy. I wish I could ask Sister Fan out for a wonderful weekend.
To tell the truth, Qiu Yingying is a little selfish, but she is a kind girl at heart.
Most importantly, once a person like Qiu Yingying decides to change something, his explosive power is amazing.
Sure enough, I followed her to study the plot of coffee carnival and Taobao shop. After the online shop opened, the business was not very good, so I went to Qu Xiaoyu and asked her to introduce the business. Qu Xiaoyu said that the business is a single one, and she really went door to door with coffee. Although she was discouraged by the supercilious eyes of others, she felt very rewarding and still full of fighting spirit.
I think this is her advantage of not knowing the situation. Because I can't remember clearly, I am so happy when I like someone; Because you can't carry it clearly, you must say it when you are afraid; Because I can't bear it, I have no scruples. I want to do something and put it into action immediately.
Unlike those of us who think we know everything clearly, we always think twice about all possible results before deciding whether to do it, thinking that it can minimize unnecessary efforts and avoid being hurt, but what's the use? Although I didn't pay anything, I got nothing.
Not as good as Qiu Yingying, a girl who can't carry clearly, stumbles all the way, and finally develops a skill.
The role of Qiu Yingying always reminds me of the last two people.
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One is Xu Sanduo in Soldier Assault.
At first, Xu Sanduo was typical in the eyes of comrades-in-arms and officers. Everyone thinks he is a little silly, unsociable and has no expectation for the future.
But what happened next?
Xu Sanduo came step by step from the stationed place hundreds of miles away by relying on his son's strength, and he was extremely strict with the players from the company selection to the A brigade. He was favored by July, the captain of A Brigade, because of his excellent performance. In July, he was simply a devil in the eyes of the players. It is very rare to be recognized and loved by such a person. But Xu Sanduo did it. Why?
Because he can't make it clear, the purpose of doing anything becomes simple. What he wants is to do something meaningful, no matter how hard and painful it is, and not to abandon and give up when he is exhausted.
In fact, both Qiu Yingying and Xu Sanduo belong to people whose minds are simpler than others, but whose actions are stronger than others.
Once such a person chooses the right direction, his success is just around the corner.
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My college classmate R is also such a person.
To tell the truth, I didn't like R for the first two years of college. Even, many people in our class don't like her very much.
It is said that she can't stand her direct and untimely performance.
For example, classmate S just bought a long-awaited skirt and put it on beautifully for everyone to see. Others say it's beautiful. Where did you buy it? S said it was in a small commodity market, and it wasn't expensive either. Just then, R pushed the door and took a look, then screamed, Ah, you bought this skirt, too. I liked it last time, but I didn't like it. I don't think this skirt is of good quality. Ah, the effect of wearing this skirt is not as good as mine. S was very angry at that time, and seldom wore that skirt after that. She said that when she saw the skirt, R's noisy voice would ring in her ear.
Another time, R leaned over to me and smiled and said, Have you noticed that we are the only girls with the longest face in our class? I let out a cry and thought you knew yourself, but she added, but my hairstyle is better than yours. Next time, you can change my hairstyle. I was speechless at once.
It's nothing. What we can't stand is that R talked about a boyfriend in his sophomore year. R who fell in love is devoted, just like Qiu Yingying, sharing her sweetness with us every day.
I don't know if the boys found out that R had spoken in the process of getting along or what, but he really couldn't stand it. Anyway, he talked to her for two months and then broke up. Others are sad for a while, but R's lovelorn has affected all of us.
Every day, as long as we are alone in the dormitory, R will come in and complain: What should I do? You don't know how good I am to him ... and then tell the process from the first meeting to the breakup in detail, crying while talking. We have heard her love story more than a hundred times. Later, in order to avoid her, we had to take up our schoolbags and study by ourselves.
That's not all. Six months later, R's ex-boyfriend left school after graduation. R was depressed, so he invited the girls in his roommate out for a drink. I didn't expect R to drink too much after drinking and get drunk in the hotel. Some girls want to call a taxi to take her back. Who knows that the taxi driver didn't want to pull her back when he saw this situation, so he had to call the boys in our class for help.
A few boys didn't know where they got a tricycle, so they lifted her up and put her behind, thinking it would be enough to pull her back. Who knows that she is trying to get off the tricycle, and several boys have to protect her when they see this posture. In front of the girl's dormitory, take her down and throw her on the ground. Then she finally stopped drinking and fell asleep snoring.
At that time, there were ten minutes before the dormitory door closed, and there were couples in front of them.
The next day, R became a campus celebrity.
The students all said that if it were me, I would have found a crack in the ground.
But r, what should I do when I wake up? When I meet someone, I will smile and ask them: Hey, hey, did you all hear about me yesterday?
What happened to such people?
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In his junior year, R, who came out of the shadow of lovelorn, felt that falling in love was boring, so he spent most of his energy on his study, and got more than 600 points in CET-4 and CET-6 successively.
When I was in the third year of high school, many students worked hard to take the postgraduate entrance examination. R also wants to take the exam, but she doesn't want to study our major. At that time, it was particularly popular to take the Master of Laws exam, so she made up her mind to take it.
We bought a large number of books, read all the regulations and were worried about her. How can we finish reading so many books? Can she be admitted?
I really got in.
Knowing this result, we all admire it.
In fact, from the time when she studied English diligently, our disdain for her faded little by little and became a little appreciation.
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Ten years have passed. How is she now?
Became a gold medal lawyer, her husband worked in the customs department, tall and handsome, and gave birth to a lovely and beautiful daughter. Last year, she sent a circle of friends to say that she bought a villa by the sea.
According to the classmates who met her recently, although she has learned some sophistication and tact, she has not changed much in essence, and she is still careless, yelling and occasionally saying something that makes people want to roll their eyes.
And her husband said that love is her warm and straightforward personality.
Don't look down on a girl who can't carry it clearly. Often such girls will be very successful later, whether it is career or love.