In March 2004, a medical certificate overwhelmed this quiet family: Liu Yuhuan, a 65-year-old mother, was diagnosed with terminal uremia and her life was in danger. Only by changing her kidney can she survive.
This news is hard for Tian, his son who is a lawyer in Guangzhou. Tian, 38, is the eldest son. With the consent of his wife, he called his younger brothers and sisters together and decided to donate his kidney to his mother. I didn't expect my sister who just gave birth to a baby and my brother with a bad heart to save my mother's life with their kidneys.
Tian was very moved by his wife's generosity and the support of his younger brother and sister, and also strengthened his confidence in saving his mother. But he understands that the biggest difficulty of kidney transplantation is not money, nor wife, but mother: a mother who regards her child as her life will never accept a kidney donated by her son.
The only way is to "cheat" mom. Tian, together with his younger brother and sister, weaved a white lie for his mother: a condemned man is willing to donate his kidney.
On September 22, Tian came to Shanghai Zhongshan Hospital for a blood type matching test for kidney transplantation. The results show that the matching is completely consistent with that of the mother, and she can be transplanted with kidney.
On the afternoon of September 23, Tian lied to his mother: The hospital called, and there are three kidney sources suitable for you. You can re-match, and change them if appropriate. The cost of surgery as high as 200,000 yuan was said to be 60,000 yuan. Tian's mother readily agreed to the operation.
After the operation was successful, Tian's mother could speak the next day. Professor Zhu, a urologist, has been very moved so far: "If you are poor, you will change your mind. Many people donate their kidneys to their children, at least 90% of them. I haven't seen children give their parents since 15 became a doctor. It's amazing. If more children can do this, the lives of many parents will continue. "
Extended data:
Tian from Zaozhuang, Shandong Province, together with Liu Xiang, Yuan Longping and Ren Changxia, was named as one of the top ten people who moved China in 2004.
Acceptance speech:
"But how much love does an inch of grass have, and you got three spring rays?" This is a question that has been questioned for thousands of years. A son made his own answer with his body in 2004. He returned a part of his life to his dying mother.
In the warm lie, the mother's life may still be fragile, but the sincerity of the dutiful son is rock solid. Tian, let all the mothers in the world get comfort. ?
Reason for election:
Ren Weixin: Filial piety, filial piety and filial piety are the enlightenment to the emotional alienation between people in today's social transformation period. The lamb has the meaning of kneeling on its mother, and the crow has the grace to feed back, donate the kidney to save its mother, and put the righteousness above the family.
In September 2005, she was named one of the first ten filial piety stars in Shandong Province. In the spring of 2007, the TV series "Warm" adapted from Tian was broadcast on CCTV.
Tian said in an interview:
Just learned that my mother was in the late stage of uremia, Tian said: At that time, this day was black for me and my family. After listening to it, I really feel that the sky is falling. I can't imagine my mother getting this disease in our family.
I really don't want to think about it anymore. I couldn't stand it at that moment. My mother, who loves us all her life, has worked hard. She has this disease. Before she got sick, she was too slow to go home for a while. When I came back to see my mother's illness this time, I thought on the plane, slow down and don't go home early.