On March 3, the emergency department of Anhui Provincial Children's Hospital admitted a patient, an 11-year-old child, whose lower body was brutally cut off.
When it was delivered, his lower body was separated from his body and placed in a plastic bag. Doctors operated urgently and after more than eight hours of intense surgery, they successfully sutured his genitals.
However, because the capillaries and nerves on the boy's reproductive organs are very rich, he can urinate normally even though they are connected after surgery. However, this may seriously affect his reproductive function as an adult!
After the child's father called the police, the murderer was caught and is the child's "stepmother"! What’s even more tragic is that the murderer is probably not criminally responsible because he suffers from mental illness!
Poor child!
All this should be caused by the divorce of parents. If his parents hadn't divorced, his situation wouldn't be so bad! Therefore, I advise those who want to divorce to please think twice before doing so! Your pursuit may affect your child's life!
As a teacher, I have seen many children from divorced families. Due to the lack of parental care, care and education, the children often become problem teenagers. They have become the biggest headache for school education. group.
If you don’t get married quickly, you need to be careful when divorcing!
Case replay: An 11-year-old boy lives with his working father in Fuyang, Anhui. Their financial situation is not well-off, and the boy and his father have been renting a house. Although their lives are relatively poor, the father and son love each other and are relatively comfortable. However, it was not until the afternoon of March 3 that the boy's stepmother suddenly broke into the rental house, interrupting the tranquility of the two and causing some pain to the boy and the family.
According to the boy's father's statement, that afternoon, the boy's stepmother suddenly broke into the rental house while he was out running errands. The boy's stepmother broke into the room with a fruit knife and chopped off the boy's private parts. Later, the boy's father called 120 and sent the boy to Hefei for rescue. According to the doctor's description, because the boy's capillaries were relatively thin, the operation lasted for 6 hours. The suturing has been successful, but it will definitely affect the child's sexual function and may even be impossible. Fertility. Afterwards, the boy's father called the police.
Opinion: I think, first of all, in this case, the stepmother’s behavior is suspected of intentional injury. At present, we don’t know the reason for this stepmother’s behavior, but in any case, this is not a reason to cause physical harm to citizens, not to mention that he is still your child, and he is only 11 years old. According to the currently known facts, the stepmother entered the room with a fruit knife, which in itself was subjectively malicious and may even have been premeditated. And she actually caused harm to the boy, which may have been more than a minor injury.
Secondly, the crime of intentional injury is sentenced based on the degree of injury caused. We still don’t know the result of the boy’s injury, but according to the second paragraph of Article 234 of the Criminal Law It stipulates that "severe disability" refers to moderate dysfunction of body organs. The injuries of the boy in this case may constitute this provision. However, the specific situation still depends on the appraisal results of the relevant appraisal agencies and the investigation results of the case by the public security agencies.
For another example, leaving aside the law, seeing the poor child come home early, the child was doing homework when the woman broke in, but the stepmother did such a confusing and outrageous thing . Originally, the child was already very pitiful when his relatives divorced when he was young, and as the child's stepmother, this woman had no compassion at all, and no affection or care for the child at all. I hope this stepmother can change her mind, become kind and virtuous, and erase the hurt and pain she once caused her children.
Finally, I hope that the father of the child can assume the responsibility of a father. If possible, consider divorcing this real "stepmother", which is also a kind of protection for the child.
If the latter does not get a divorce, I hope the court will take away the custody rights of the vicious mother while hearing the case. In my eyes, she doesn't deserve to be a mother. I wonder what you think of this case? Comments are welcome.
On March 3, in a rental house in Shangcheng International Community, Yingzhou District, Fuyang City, Anhui Province, stepmother Chu cut off the genitals of an 11-year-old boy with a fruit knife. The boy was sent to the hospital for rescue, and it is unknown whether he will be able to regain his reproductive function in the future. Chu has been controlled by the police and the case is under investigation.
There may be two reasons why Chu cut off the boy's genitals. One is to take revenge on her husband, because both of them remarried, and their relationship was not good after marriage and they often quarreled. It is possible that Chu took revenge on her husband by cutting off the boy's genitals. Secondly, Chu suffers from a neurological disease. It is said that she has a history of this disease and has been hospitalized. Police are investigating the motive. If it is a mental illness, you need to be sent to the hospital for treatment; otherwise, you will have to bear legal responsibility.
People already have prejudices about the title "stepmother". There was once a proverb that "the stepmother's heart is the root of coptis"; in addition, some literary works overexaggerate the negative image of the stepmother, such as "Gray" The stepmother in "Girl" has impacted the image of the stepmother.
What the stepmother in Fuyang, Anhui did, was even more outrageous and unbelievable than Cinderella’s stepmother. This is undoubtedly another dust on the stepmother's face.
In fact, in real life, stepmothers are not always as vicious as Chu Mou in Fuyang, Anhui and described in literary works. This is just an example. I dare say that the vast majority of stepmothers are kind and do a good job. Especially since the reform and opening up, with the emancipation of people's minds, more and more divorces and remarriages have occurred. There are also more and more stepfathers and stepmothers. We should also give them fair treatment and not evaluate this group with discriminatory eyes or prejudiced thoughts.
There are many stepfathers and stepmothers around me, and most of them are doing well. I have a neighbor who remarried, and her 11-year-old daughter was very resistant to her stepmother at first. Her stepmother gave her an orange, but she threw it on the ground; her stepmother bought her clothes, but she didn't wear them; her stepmother gave her water to wash her feet, but she knocked it over. She didn't call her mother for a year. Later, she fell ill and her stepmother took care of her like a mother. This melted the ice in her heart and she started calling her stepmother mom. Now mother and daughter get along very well and have a harmonious relationship.
We should also see that being a stepmother is actually more difficult than being a biological mother. For the same thing, if the biological mother scolds or even hits twice, it may not be a big problem, but it may not work if the stepmother is replaced. If the biological mother spanks the child, it will be regarded as love; if the stepmother spanks the child, it will be regarded as abuse. Therefore, if we think about it from the perspective of a stepmother, it is actually difficult to be a stepmother, and it is even harder to be a good stepmother.
Therefore, Chu in Fuyang, Anhui Province cut the genitals of an 11-year-old boy. This is just an example and cannot be interpreted in a magnified manner, nor can we draw the conclusion that the stepmother is bad.
This sentence is hurtful. The stepmother is too cruel to the teenager. There is no love in a family, only harm. The family has no value of existence. The stepmother is not worthy of being the guardian of the teenager and should: accept legal sanctions.
At about 2:30 pm on March 3, 11-year-old boy Junjun (pseudonym) from Fuyang was in the fifth grade of primary school. That day, while he was doing homework at home, his stepmother suddenly broke in and scratched the child's lower body with a fruit knife. He was later sent to Hefei for treatment by Fuyang Local 120.
Some people said: "I have never seen anything so cruel. The child's genitals were all broken, including the testicles. The child himself said it was the stepmother's behavior." Zhang Xiansheng said that the child's blood vessels and nerves are very thin, and the surgery The duration is relatively long. As for whether it can be restored to normal functions, Zhang Xiansheng said it is "very difficult."
The boy’s father said that he and his child’s stepmother had just been married for half a year. They had been at odds with each other since their marriage. Later, they discovered that she had mental illness. They were separated from the hospital just two months ago.
It turns out that the stepmother suffers from mental illness. We know that a person with mental problems may do some extreme behavior at any time. This is very unsafe for children. If you have this disease, you should seek medical treatment as soon as possible.
Return to marriage:
We all believe that for the sake of our children, we must give them a complete home and cannot divorce. If you want to, run it well, but if it doesn't work, you must be cautious about remarrying. A family is only complete in form. If the husband and wife do not communicate or cannot communicate, there will be no happiness at all. If we cannot provide children with a harmonious family environment, and the family is full of quarrels, violence, and cold violence, is this kind of formal integrity good or bad for children?
It is heartbreaking that such a tragedy happened to this child. How much harm was done to the child? This is a major event related to a child’s life! Children are meant to be loved, not hurt.
A child’s childhood experiences will affect the child’s life. When a marriage is really unhappy, is it time for the couple to reflect?
Do you think it is better to give your children a formally complete family, or to say goodbye to misfortune and give yourself and your children a happy life? Welcome to discuss!
I am Yushan Linjing, a positive discipline lecturer and encouragement consultant. Thank you for your attention!
Case review: That night,
I think it is very appropriate to describe the stepmother as ruthless and unjust. According to the child’s father, he has never had a good relationship with his child’s stepmother. On the day of the accident, the child was doing homework alone in the rental house. The stepmother came into the room at an unknown time and injured the child. Why should children bear the consequences of conflicts between adults? What's more, the child is still so young. I don’t know if this stepmother has any children, how could she bear to do such a dirty trick!
There are too many cases of stepmothers harming their stepsons:
In 2014, a vicious stepmother poisoned her 3-year-old stepson in Zhenjiang.
In 2016, a 6-year-old boy named Xiao Kun from Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province was stabbed more than 20 times by his stepmother.
In 2019, a 7-year-old boy in Suining was killed by his stepmother and thrown into a culvert.
It can be said that every vicious case is shocking and makes us think that the main reason why the stepmother is so cruel to her stepson is family conflicts.
These stepchildren are often victims of family conflicts, so for remarried families, handling family conflicts well is one of the main reasons to prevent children from being victimized. We see that Guo Degang's current wife Wang Hui treats Guo Degang's wife Guo Qilin as his own son, partly because of his kindness, and partly because of the harmony of family relations.
Many criminals cried bitterly and regretted their crimes in court. But many things in this world are like this. No matter how much you apologize or regret, you cannot save the harm you have caused to others. Therefore, the criminals in these vicious cases should be punished more severely and the deterrent effect of the law should be fully utilized.
Every child is the core and future of the family. If you hurt the child, it will not only hurt the child’s biological parents, but it will also cause huge psychological harm to the child’s grandparents. And it will have an immeasurable impact on the child's life. The child's life will be in a huge shadow. On the one hand, it will cause huge harm to the body, and on the other hand, it will destroy the soul.
Summary: Although there is no blood relationship between stepchildren and stepmother, they are still mother-child relationship from a legal perspective. If you don't love, please don't hurt. If you really can't tolerate the child, you can let the child live with the grandparents, or you should not choose the child's father to marry in the first place. If you can't get the life you want in a remarried family, or get divorced at worst, there is really no need to hurt your children and push yourself into an abyss of eternal destruction.
On the evening of March 3, a 12-year-old boy was urgently transferred from Fuyang People's Hospital to the First Affiliated Hospital of Anhui Medical University. The young patient suffered cuts on his genitals, which were completely broken, including his testicles. He also went to several hospitals before coming here. The severed genitals were all in the bag. The young patient quickly started post-operative treatment after arriving at the First Affiliated Hospital of Anhui Medical University.
The operation lasted from around 8pm to around 4am. Since the genital nerves and blood vessels of minors are very thin, the doctor said that there would be no problem with urination, but the "functional recovery" in the future would be very difficult. difficulty. The child is now awake but still in great pain.
It is understood that the boy is from Funan, Fuyang, Anhui, and lives and works in Fuyang with his father. The boy’s genitals were cut off by his stepmother with a fruit knife at around 3 pm on March 3. The specific reason is It is unknown. The father of the child has reported the crime and it is believed that the suspect will bear corresponding legal consequences. However, it is understood that the stepmother seems to have mental problems.
It’s too cruel. Tiger poison cannot eat its seeds, not to mention that this is a living child. Even if it is not your biological child, even if it encounters unfair treatment, it will not be so cruel.
We don’t know what the story is behind this, but it leaves us with profound thoughts. What's the point of remarrying if you can't treat your children well?
How much hatred does it take to do such a vicious thing? Even if there is hatred, it is impossible to do such a vicious thing. This is not a human being, it is simply worse than an animal.
On March 3, an 11-year-old boy’s genitals were cut off in Fuyang, Anhui. According to relevant doctors involved in the treatment, because the boy was transferred from Fuyang to the First Affiliated Hospital of Anhui Medical University for treatment, the treatment time was delayed for several hours, making it difficult for the child to return to normal functions after surgery. And from the child's mouth, I learned that this situation "is the stepmother's behavior." The criminal suspect Chu Moumou has also been controlled by the police, and the case is currently under investigation. I believe that what awaits her will be the most severe punishment!
In fact, there are not a few cases of child abuse by stepmothers and child abuse by stepfathers. You can find a lot of them just by searching online. Some time ago, the "Weinan stepmother's child abuse case" was just sentenced, and the stepmother was finally sentenced to 16 years in prison. Unfortunately, Xiao Pengpeng is still in a vegetative state.
Perhaps the environment around me has been harmonious since I was a child, and the people around me are also very kind. Even if some people quarrel, they rarely get into a fight, at most they just talk. Among all the reorganized families around me, I have never heard of stepfathers and stepmothers beating their children. However, the series of family reorganization injury cases in recent years have subverted my understanding of human nature.
Some people say that behind every vicious stepmother, there is an inactive father. I very much agree with this view. Without the father's repeated concessions, where would the stepmothers' madness come from?
Take the "Weinan Child Abuse Case" as an example. Pengpeng's father knew clearly that his wife and children, Sun, had repeatedly subjected Pengpeng to corporal punishment and other abuses in the name of discipline. As Pengpeng's biological father, he posted on WeChat After seeing the pictures sent by Sun showing injuries to Pengpeng's face and other parts, he still failed to perform his legal guardianship and protection obligations and allowed his wife and children, Sun, to injure Pengpeng's face and other parts. He allowed his wife and son Sun to brutally abuse his youngest son, causing severe brain damage to Xiao Pengpeng and turning him into a vegetative state.
However, the matter did not end there. During the treatment in the hospital, Sun, as the biological father, ignored the sick Pengpeng and chose to run away from home, neither taking care of him nor providing him with a source of living, nor fulfilling his obligations. Due to the duty of care, Pengpeng was abandoned in the hospital for more than 500 days. Although the couple eventually ended up being sanctioned by the law, what was the use to Xiao Pengpeng?
In reorganized families, the greatest harm to children is to deal with everything fairly and justly. We do not expect the other party to treat your children the same way they treat their own children, but we cannot allow violence or even abuse. If something happens, if there are signs of it, we must first stop it resolutely, otherwise there will be endless trouble.
Whether it is the biological father or the biological mother, in a reorganized family, you are your child's only support. If you don't do anything, your child will only suffer.
Speaking of which, after reading the title of the article, I felt angry inside. As a stepmother, why are you so cruel?
What a wonderful season of life for an 11-year-old child! But now, he is disgraced, and I am afraid it will leave a shadow in his heart for a lifetime!
Lao Mu hopes that the public security organs can find out the cause as soon as possible and give an explanation to the citizens!
Let us take a look at the brief history of the incident, as follows:
Time March 3rd
Location Fuyang, Anhui
Person 11
The reason is unknown
According to Mr. Shen (father) afterwards, while doing homework at home, the child's stepmother cut off his genitals with a fruit knife and was sent to Fuyang 120. Hefei first aid. - Anhui.com
The child's condition Chief Physician of the Department of Urology: The child was transferred from Fuyang, and the treatment was delayed for several hours. It is difficult to return to normal functions after the operation.
As a result, the criminal suspect Chu Moumou has been controlled by the police, and the case is currently under investigation...
Lao Mu has a few questions, hoping to arouse everyone's attention. Thinking:
First, what kind of hatred made this stepmother do such a cruel act?
2. Can the child’s body be recovered?
3. Can the child’s body be recovered?
4. Can the child’s body be recovered?
5. Can the child’s body be recovered?
3. Who will resolve the psychological shadow of children?
4. How can children avoid being laughed at by their classmates after they go to school?
5. How can children have a happy marriage in the future?
I think these problems need to be solved and faced by children and their families...
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In the past few days, this incident has been very popular in Fuyang. It can be said that it has ruined the children and the family.
It is said that the child’s father and stepmother have been married for about half a year and quarreled every day. On the afternoon of March 3, when the child's father went out, the child's stepmother rushed into the rental house, picked up a fruit knife, and chopped off the child's lower body.
The child's stepmother is said to be mentally ill.
If parents don’t get along, they can divorce. But you should not take your anger out on your children. Children are innocent and helpless. Faced with the stepmother's madness, the child can only be at the mercy of others. I feel that the children are pitiful when their parents are divorced.
But no matter how angry the couple is, they shouldn’t hurt their children, right? Only those hateful stepmothers can do this kind of thing. If the child's parents had not divorced, they would not be so unfortunate.
Obviously, the child's injuries constituted serious injuries, and the suspect committed the crime of intentional injury. According to the provisions of Article 234 of the Criminal Law, criminal liability must be pursued. Although the criminal suspect is a mental patient, this requires forensic identification to see whether the criminal suspect had the capacity to act when committing the crime?
If you have the capacity to act, you will be held criminally responsible in accordance with the law; if you do not have the capacity to act, it is inevitable to be condemned by public opinion, and the remarried family may also be broken up.