If you plan to divorce after discovering that your husband is having an affair, you must consciously collect and preserve the corresponding evidence of the affair so that you can better protect your rights and interests after the divorce. So how do you usually get evidence that your husband is having an affair? For many people, obtaining evidence is difficult. Below I will give you a detailed answer to this question.
1. How to obtain evidence that my husband is having an affair?
(1) Consulting lawyers are very professional in this area. He will tell you how to efficiently collect substantive evidence in your favor without breaking the law. Please consult a law firm for details. If you don't understand the law, sometimes the evidence collected will be invalid or it will alarm your husband and the third party, making them take precautions.
(2) Find a private detective to collect evidence. Under the guidance of a lawyer, you can find a private detective company to help you collect effective evidence. They can take some photos of you and investigate your personal behavior and daily life. For the person under investigation, follow up with the prison to effectively grasp the whereabouts for reference. If you want to prosecute bigamy, it is important to collect the following evidence:
1. Their wedding photos are very important;
2. It is best to have the neighborhood committee and neighbors of the current place of residence to prove that they usually They are getting along as a couple, and the neighbors think so too. And it can prove that two people have been living together for a long time.
3. If the woman is pregnant, this is convincing.
(3) Private investigators who collect evidence by themselves are very efficient, but they often have to pay high fees. In fact, sometimes we can also collect evidence of our husband’s extramarital affairs ourselves to protect our own rights and interests. 1. QQ chat records. You can save their QQ chat records as evidence, but you must pay attention to two points: a. You can confirm the identity of the other party through QQ, and b. You can directly prove that the QQ records come from the Internet, not your computer. 2. SMS. You can secretly take photos of text messages and save them as supporting evidence of an affair.
3. Telephone recording. Recordings of conversations can be used as evidence.
4. Eyewitness testimony. You can find other witnesses to prove it to yourself, which is effective evidence for the court to rule on divorce.
5. Physical evidence. For example, items bearing names, letters and other substantial evidence proving an unusual relationship were given to the other party.
2. How to investigate your husband’s cheating
After obtaining valid evidence, you can file for divorce or entrust a lawyer to represent you. If the circumstances are serious and you want to sue your husband for bigamy, it is best to entrust a lawyer to represent you, because bigamy already involves a criminal offense. If it is difficult to obtain evidence, you can also ask the court for a divorce on the grounds that the couple's relationship has indeed broken down after living apart for two years. But the best-case scenario is to be proactive, which not only saves time, but also allows you to recover more compensation for the man’s fault, including property and child support. Therefore, when your husband has an extramarital affair, you must face it bravely and rationally and learn to use the law to protect yourself.
That’s it for everyone. In practice, a simple extramarital affair cannot be recognized as bigamy or cohabitation with another person under the Marriage Law. If the other party also claims damages during divorce, it will be difficult to get support from the court.