Are all men capable of controlling and dominating women? Of course not. In real life, men also suffer violence from women. It must be said that both men who violence against women and women who violence against men are people who lack the concept of gender equality and use violence to confirm their absolute control in the relationship.
You and your girlfriend have only been together for half a year, and you have been beaten many times. Until now, you have not been able to get rid of the fact that you were violently attacked by your girlfriend. From the experience of anti-domestic violence, you must often have the idea of breaking up, and you have tried to break up, but because of the threat of violence, or when there is no violence, you temporarily think that the relationship between two people is actually ok, so you stay in violence.
I believe you will feel helpless more often. You think breaking up is inseparable. Your girlfriend has her own way of forcing you to stay. You lack the courage and strength to face your girlfriend. You are afraid that the more you resist, the more violent your girlfriend will be.
You will have a lot of psychological scruples. Our society emphasizes that men should be strong. If they have difficulties, they can't hold their breath. If they have tears, you can't let others see your cowardice Therefore, don't tell your parents and friends about being beaten by your girlfriend, and don't let others laugh at you. You will worry that if others know that you have been violently attacked by women, you will be looked down upon and feel timid.
Anyone who suffers from intimate relationship violence will feel deeply ashamed and feel that he has something to hide. The first thought is to endure violence and not let others know. Once a man is treated violently by a woman and thinks that he does not meet the expectations of society for the image of a man, he will be more careful. He would rather force himself to endure unfair treatment and hide the truth of hitting people. Those voices that say you are weak and incompetent and can't even handle a woman will hurt your heart again.
If you know that you have been subjected to violence, you can call the Women's Federation and call 1 10, but for the above reasons, when your girlfriend is violent to you, you really can't summon up the courage to ask for help.
Women's federations not only deal with female victims of violence, but also accept male victims of violence, so there is no need to set up a "male federation". Call 1 10 to call the police. You dare not face a group of men who ask you, dare not look you in the eye, and dare not make things "big". This kind of psychology needs to be overcome. If you can't face the fact that you have been attacked by violence, you are conniving at the constant occurrence of violence.
Your character should be gentle and submissive, afraid of conflicts with others, and lacking experience and skills in dealing with conflicts. Not all men must be strong and masculine, because your character is not aggressive and aggressive. It happens that your girlfriend is particularly strong, and you can't reverse your controlled position. It is bound to be very painful to find a way to get rid of violence. It can be seen from your description in a few words that you deliberately skipped the journey of being attacked by violence, which also shows your scruples and tries not to appear pitiful and helpless.
The first time you are beaten, you tolerate it, and then you tolerate it. After that, your girlfriend will think it's something she can do and will make you a habit because you acquiesce in her behavior. Of course, you are not encouraged to fight back as a man. Your personality will prevent you from doing this kind of violence, but you have the right to protect yourself and must ask for help from the outside world.