Moreover, Yang Hong, a lawyer of Zhejiang Siwei Law Firm and a volunteer of Hang Cheng Women's Rights Protection Legal Aid Volunteer Group, summed up several advantages after studying the connotation and manifestations of two marriages:
"First of all, two married families agree to have two children, which is a positive response to the national birth policy and is conducive to alleviating the aging of society. For another example, without the threshold of bride price and dowry, the economic pressure of both men and women will be reduced. Relatively speaking, it can improve young people's willingness to get married. Moreover, the birth of two children follows the father's surname and the mother's surname, avoiding disputes over surnames and upbringing. "
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However, getting married at both ends is not without benefits:
In real life, both marriages have certain "sequela". For this, the three lawyers happen to coincide.
"It is good to maintain a certain' stickiness' with the family of origin, but the independence of two married families will be weak, the integrity of small families will definitely be affected, and the intimacy of young couples will also be affected." Yang Huili, deputy director of Zhejiang Nolla Law Firm and deputy director of the Marriage and Family Professional Committee of the Provincial Lawyers Association, said.
"In reality, in the cases we have come into contact with, two married families will have disputes because no one can lose or lose. For example, some men don't want to live in a woman's house, fearing that they will be suspected of being married if they live for a long time. "
Take xiaoxi and his wife for example. Two families had an unpleasant experience, because the man in Tomb-Sweeping Day had to follow the woman to visit the grave. Zheng Xiao believes that going to a woman's grave is her son-in-law's behavior, and she is determined not to go. But Xiaoxi thinks that since everyone has agreed to get married at both ends, why not go to the woman's grave?
"Some can be reconciled, but some contradictions are not reconciled and may even lead to divorce." Du Peng said. In fact, children with surnames have an element of "gambling". If two children are of the same sex, everyone will be happy, but if one of the two children is a girl and her surname is a girl, it may cause the man's mentality to be unbalanced.
China Youth Daily-There are two kinds of marriages in Jiangsu and Zhejiang: men don't marry women, children take their father's surname and their mother's surname.