This is not true. Today's protagonist wants to tell you about her struggle for assets with her cheating ex-husband. What she did made her parents-in-law feel ok. What's going on here?
Next, let's listen to her love.
Zeng (pen name)
It was a year ago that I found out that my husband was cheating on me.
What should I do if my husband cheats and comes back? I have been married to him for 10 years. I have come to work tirelessly for this family, and I can't get any sympathy from him. Finally, I fell in love with my lover.
He doesn't go home once a month. Every time he goes home, he takes money from the chest of drawers and leaves. I'm really chilling about this man.
At first, my in-laws will continue to say nice things to me, so that I can bear it. After all, children are still young, there is no need to turn against each other, and life has to be like that. Because I think I can see through it, but his personal behavior is really despised.
My daughter had a fever of 39.2, and I couldn't find anyone in the middle of the night and didn't want to wake my in-laws, so I called a Didi taxi to the hospital. I have to have an intravenous drip because of inflammation. I went out in a hurry and forgot to bring enough clothes and pants. I was afraid that my daughter would get cold, so I called my husband and asked him to send his clothes and pants back to the hospital clinic.
Electricity _ There was no answer at the other end, and it was finally turned off! This man is really cruel. That night, I held my daughter tightly to keep her from catching cold. I was shaking all the time.
It was past 4 o'clock when I got home. I quickly got into bed with my daughter and fell asleep.
At dawn, my bedroom door was opened, and I vaguely saw a man rummaging through the chest of drawers. I know he came to me. I pretended to be asleep in anger and ignored him. If he leaves a sentence: always lying in bed, is this woman useless? Then he slammed the door with the money and left.
My married life is terrible. It is difficult for a woman to support her family, life is not satisfactory, and her husband is having an affair. Why should I insist?
In marriage, if either party quits, the other party will eventually suffer injustice and pain.
I hate my husband very much. He not only hurt me and my daughter, but also cheated my parents of their money!
He went home quietly while I was away. He told his elderly parents that he knew a woman outside and wanted to divorce me and marry her. However, the other party stipulated 300,000 yuan as a bride price, and he had no choice. He told his parents that the woman agreed to give them a child. Do you want a son and grandson? If you like, you can mortgage this house and get a bride price.
Although my in-laws are old, they are not stupid. They know that their children are having an affair, and they made a mistake first, so they won't make any more mistakes, and they miss me and my daughter.
But the children continued to apologize and even threatened them with cutting off the parent-child relationship. My in-laws were uncertain and anxious for some time.
When I got home that night, I saw that my in-laws were different. Usually, they seem to have thoughts. What did I ask?
As a daughter-in-law, I understand her husband's plot and fully consider her parents' scruples, even though the house was bought by her parents-in-law.
I analyzed with them: If the house is pledged, where have you two been living? My daughter and I can move out, but what about you? He said he was getting married. You haven't seen the other side yet. How can we judge whether it suits our appetite? In addition, girls nowadays are very powerful and may have been cheated by marriage. At that time, your children were in trouble and your family was poor.
My in-laws are too scared to speak. Seeing that they are still afraid of annoying their children, I also thought of a way to ease their anxiety.
Sometimes, between true feelings and money, everyone should have a clear boundary, otherwise, people will have endless troubles.
I got the real estate license of the house from the criminal defense law firm and asked the lawyer if he could transfer the house and help my daughter. After I got the unquestionable information, I also took my in-laws to the notary office and transferred the house to my little granddaughter.
After going through some formalities, my daughter became the owner of the house, and then I told my in-laws that this married life could not go on and divorce was inevitable. However, the two old people can feel at ease. I will never want your house. I will only help my daughter for a short time. I can go to a criminal defense lawyer to sign an agreement to prove that as long as you are alive, you have the right to use the house, and no one else can move.
After this matter was handled, I explicitly proposed to divorce him. He thinks that divorce is stronger, and he can mortgage his parents' house to marry a lover.
It would be a pity if he knew that the house had been owned by his daughter. If he wants to sell, he must sign according to my signature. His abacus is wrong.
Knowing the truth, he showed his true colors. Every time he goes home, he asks his parents for money, and almost takes the old man's coffin with him. The two old people are lucky to see their children go their own way. I can get rid of the house early and not let him cheat. How to get along with your husband after cheating? Why did my husband cheat? How to face her husband after cheating? What is the right thing to do? What are the real psychological marriage and love experts after the husband cheated?
Since he turned against his parents, he has been going home to pay his respects. And divorced, although nominally connected with them, but I still live with my in-laws, filial to them, waiting for them, my family is as good as the first time.
A good wife is not as good as a good son. In this story, everyone saw the virtuous daughter-in-law Fan Zeng. Although her husband is unfaithful to herself, she can't vent her anger on her in-laws. On the other hand, she will do her duty as a daughter-in-law, shoulder the obligation to accompany the elderly, and be generous.
The husband in the short story is simply a "waste". In order to better satisfy his desires, he also wants to beat his parents' old house. If he has no money and no ambition, why should he have an affair? Even the money for raising a lover should be taken from his wife's wallet. Does such a person have a future? Maybe in the near future, he will be deceived in a big mess, and then go home and cry to admit his mistake and beg his parents and wife for tolerance.
What should I do if my husband cheats and comes back? Therefore, we should do things in a down-to-earth manner, make mistakes ourselves, and don't forget to cheat the people we love.