Recently, two female artists have become particularly popular. One is a local tycoon who has never been popular for ten thousand years, but became popular with the half-demon Xue Tao in "Guli Nazha". The other is Ying'er, who plays the main wife in "Splendid as Jade", and recently appeared in Urban Emotions She played the role of a full-time housewife in the drama "Growing Up with Her". ?Ying'er voices the full-time wife
Her long shawl hair hangs elegantly on her shoulders. She kneels on the floor tiles in a white dress and wipes the floor with whimpering. She wipes it for most of the day, and she is still ready to get off work. My husband, who has to go home immediately, is warm and considerate. This is Yinger's new true identity - Lin Yunyun, a woman who has been a full-time housewife for six years. She is hailed by fans as a walking intelligent sweeping robot.
Yesterday, Ying'er spoke for Lin Yunren on the full-time platform, saying that she is not very good at cooking, washing clothes, and cleaning all year round as a full-time person. She needs to be affirmed by her lover more. The use value of stay-at-home wives must be recognized. It can be seen from this that only those who have experienced the hardships of being a full-time housewife can feel the best. Lin Yunyun's hardships are not only sad but also elusive.
In addition to her promotional work, Yinger also appealed to everyone in society: "No identity is easy, not everyone is easy, and the value of a full-time housewife must be "
Lin Yunyun is Ao Yue's mother in "Growing Up with You", which co-starred Liu Tao, Li Zonghan, Hu Ke, Tao Xinran, etc. It is a vivid modern urban drama. Lin Yunyun, played by Ying'er, has a bright appearance. She has a husband who can make money, a lovely daughter, lives in a luxurious villa, drives a luxury car, and doesn't have to go to work. She is the envy of many people.
On the surface, Ying'er is indeed the most enviable full-time wife. Her husband's favorite saying is, I promise to support the family, and you promise to be as beautiful as a fairy. She dresses brightly every day and makes herself look gorgeous and hot. She has no financial pressure at all and only needs to take care of her home. However, this is only a superficial phenomenon. What others see is the glory, wealth and lightness of the world. No social circle of one's own
Due to the limited enrollment quota at Xiayang Road Primary School, many children who were supposed to attend Xiayang Road Primary and Secondary Schools have been excluded. Parents were furious and established a communication group. As everyone knows, as the current chairman of the Parents Committee, Lin Yunyun’s own children are also in the comprehensive group, but not in the exchange group. Later, by chance, Xiwang’s mother was invited to join. Obviously, Lin Yunyun is a busy person and doesn't even have anyone around her who can cultivate her sentiments. As the current chairman of the Parents Committee, she does not have a harmonious relationship with the parents' association of her female classmates.
After that, Lin Yunyun sat on the sofa and read the messages in the group. Gu Jiawei found out that they were curse words and advised Lin Yunyun not to contact such parents. Although Lin Yunyun felt aggrieved, she was helpless.
You have to spend money based on your husband's face
Lin Yunyun is a full-time housewife, and all her daily expenses depend on a debit card. What she didn't know was that although Gu Jiawei was a criminal defense lawyer, he was very good at making money. But because my family was not rich since I was young, I became increasingly frugal and almost stingy. Lin Yunyun thought it was bad for the body to keep overnight food, so she threw it away, but Gu Jiawei refused to admit it: when she was a child, she grew up physically and mentally just as well as eating overnight food. Lin Yunyun was asked to put away the vegetables before eating them the next day. Lin Yunyun only has one life to live.
Once Lin Yunyun swiped 10,000 yuan on her credit card. After Gu Jiawei received the consumption information, she immediately asked Lin Yunyun the reason. He usually gave gifts to Lin Yunyun people, but he didn't expect Lin Yunyun people to spend money indiscriminately in private. He also warned Lin Yunyun not to spend huge amounts in the future, otherwise he would reduce the consumption limit to one hundred yuan. Lin Yunyun was too scared to talk back.
As the saying goes, if you don’t have the power to manage the treasury, you don’t have to be a full-time housewife. From the storyline, we can find that Gu Jiawei is very resistant to women working. He believes that once a woman has a family and children, the relationship between the two cannot be resolved. This is too chauvinistic. Because I can only express my condolences to Lin Yunyun.
Paying for the family but missing her husband
As a housewife, Lin Yunyun not only has to wash clothes, cook, and do housework, but she also has to accompany her daughter to participate in various interest training classes and guide her children in their extracurricular homework. Moreover, Gu Jiawei seems to have nothing to do except at work, and he is paralyzed at home. Not only that, whenever the child does not do well in any aspect, he is obliged to recommend it to Lin Yunyun.
Because Gu Jiawei got the news that teachers from Xiayang Road Primary School would come to make secret visits during her children's open days to regulate her daughter Xinyuejing's behavior. He also told Lin Yunyun that her daughter must strive for first place. Unexpectedly, although Xinyue performed very well, it only achieved second place. Gu Jiawei did not distinguish between good and bad, and recommended all the shortcomings to Lin Yunyun. Gu Jiawei said: "My goal is to make Lin Yunyun a 'good mother'."
Lin Yunyun's "good mother" is Gu Jiawei.
In fact, Lin Yunyun has indeed put in a lot of effort. Although she does not have to go out to work, it is not easy to keep her home in order. However, Gu Jiawei took it for granted. He once said that he was only responsible for supporting his family, and Lin Yunyun only had to bear the responsibility of providing a happy sky. In fact, Lin Jiawei's title of "good wife" is not groundless, and his title of "good wife" is not groundless either.
Gu Jiawei has never personally experienced Lin Yunren’s difficulties in educating his children. Early in the morning, Gu Jiawei made a small mistake because of his daughter. Gu Jiawei quickly stepped forward to dissuade her: "Daughter, don't do this. It's wrong for you to do this." When Gu Jiawei heard this, he became anxious and said, "Daughter, how could you do this? The woman was very angry and hit her hard. She pretended to be sick and asked Gu Jiawei to help the guide. Although Gu Jiawei scolded him at first, he had no choice but to agree. Seeing this, the audience cheered: It is not easy to be a full-time wife, and it is even more difficult to be Gu Jiawei's wife.
In fact, Lin Yunyun is like a true portrayal of many full-time wives in real life. The wife devotes all her thoughts and energy to her family and children, and does not invest much in her own leisure activities. Without the approval of her husband. Not only do they have to endure the hardships of family work, but they also have to endure the torment of their mental state.
For most women, it doesn’t matter if they suffer a little. The key is that someone understands and feels sorry for them. The phrase "Mom doesn't take care of me" echoes the sentiments of many stay-at-home wives, and it also completely destroys the flexibility of stay-at-home wives.