But in fact, sometimes falling in love may not be able to make a positive result with him, and not all boys do. If a boy once really loved you and finally put it down, you will divorce peacefully. At that time, I believe that he usually left you something. On the contrary, if you are with a boy who is engaged in other jobs, but that person happens to be very scum, I believe that if you two divorce, it may be worse than the lawyer at that time, and it is not enough to kill a group of people with one stick. Every place has good people and bad people, and every place has some unreasonable people. Who should you fall in love with should be rational, and you can't deny all the people now because of the past.
If you deny the opposite boy just for this reason, I believe that when others ask you the reason, you are embarrassed to say it, because it doesn't seem to convince others. Whether a girl wants to be with a boy depends on his quality, his three views, his personality and, most importantly, whether he loves you or not, whether he has the determination to spend the rest of his life with you.
If, in the end, you still think you two are really suitable for each other, let yourself try. Don't deny him before you start, open your heart and try to be with him. Maybe he really is the one for you. And now most girls are in a panic before falling in love. In fact, I want to say that this step will be experienced by every girl. If you really don't know what to do next, then follow your heart and choose.