Secondly, because the criminal responsibility of the criminal suspect is the result of the public power of the state, the factors you mentioned can only be limited to the compensation of the civil part. It depends on the attitude of the injured party, such as how much compensation you want. If the other party does not agree, it can no longer agree to mediation. But what can I say? This kind of mediation is emotionally complicated. First of all, it depends on your attitude, because after all, no amount of money can make up for the loss of loved ones being killed, but if the civil part is compensated, it may be a little psychological comfort. It will be better to consider the other party's tolerance when mediating.
Finally, don't worry too much about opposing lawyers playing word games. It is different from the general mediation of pure civil cases, mainly depending on your attitude. In addition, lawyers are not so terrible, they all have professional ethics.