Lesson 6 Cultivate character strengths's Good Habits
First, people have different personalities (P2-8)
1. Personality classification: (P2)
Personality is divided into introversion and extroversion.
2. The formation of personality: (P3), (optimized design P6)
The formation of personality has both innate genetic factors and the influence of acquired environment and education.
Congenital factor-heredity
Family played an important role in the formation of personality.
Acquired school-plays an important role.
Personal experience and self-regulation play a key role.
The formation of personality is mainly the function of acquired factors.
A person's character is a combination of nature and nurture. (P6)
3. The formation of personality is a slow process.
The formation process of personality: childhood-irregular; The budding period of youth; Middle school-shaping period is also an important period for the formation of good character; Adult age-stereotype.
4. Features/manifestations of good personality: (P6-8), (optimized design P7)
-correct attitude, strong will, positive mood and sound reason.
Second, a good personality is conducive to success (P9- 1 1), (optimized design P3)
Good personality is of great significance to a person's growth and development, academic success and the cultivation of healthy personality.
1, a good personality enables individuals to fully display and play.
2. Good personality is very important for doing a good job.
3. Good personality contributes to the formation of healthy personality. Resilience is a very important thing in a healthy personality, the key to overcoming all difficulties, and an indispensable feature of people who achieve great things.
4. Good personality promotes physical and mental health.
Third, strive to shape a good character (P 12- 16)
1, people's personality can be cultivated and shaped (people's personality can be changed)
(1) Personality is not immutable.
(2) Every personality has two sides: everyone has advantages and disadvantages (P 12).
2. Cultivate and mold a good personality (Methods): (Optimize the design P4-5)
(1) foster strengths and avoid weaknesses
The shaping of personality focuses on giving play to the advantages of personality.
Overcome your personality weaknesses and shortcomings and focus on action.
Overcome personality weaknesses and shortcomings, but also have toughness.
(2) Develop good habits
Changing habits and personality is an important way to cultivate good personality.
The key to shaping a good character lies in cultivating good habits.
(3) Strengthen self-education
The main method of self-education is to learn to overcome oneself, that is, to restrain oneself with one's own strength and overcome one's personality weakness.
(4) subject to collective supervision.
Lesson 7 Treat people with sincerity and enthusiasm, and establish sincere friendship.
First of all, life needs friendship (the function and significance of friendship) (P20-24).
Friendship is a normal psychological need. (Optimized design P24)
Friendship makes people share more happiness and happiness. True friendship is free from jealousy and narrowness.
Friendship helps to relieve troubles and worries.
Friendship promotes our progress.
Friendship can make us study better.
(2) Friendship can make our thoughts progress faster.
(3) Friendship can make the collective stronger.
5. The foundation of sincere friendship: sincerity and equality, mutual help and understanding, and common pursuit (optimized design P25)
Mutual care and help is the most basic content of friendship.
Second, the principle of making friends (P24-29) and (optimized design P26)
1, make good friends
Good friend: refers to a friend who can help him make progress. (P24)
Everyone wants to make good friends, and each of us should improve ourselves at the same time and strive to be good friends in the eyes of others.
2. Don't make bad friends
Bad friend: refers to a friend who will have a bad influence on his moral character.
3. Make friends with friends.
A friend is a friend who can point out his mistakes bluntly and criticize and help himself.
4, to overcome the bad tendency in communication (problems that should be paid attention to when making friends):
(1) "Self-centeredness" makes it difficult to establish a long-term friendship.
(2) The circle is too small to establish extensive friendship.
(3) "Buddy friendship" is not true friendship.
The biggest feature of "buddy loyalty" is that it only talks about "friendship" and does not talk about right and wrong, so it is very easy for friends to hide, cover up and encourage bad thoughts and behaviors. The result is harmful to oneself, friends and the collective. Individual middle school students made a big mistake and went astray because of "buddy loyalty". This lesson is profound.
Third, develop sincere friendship (P29-34), (Optimize design P28)
1. Exchange sincerity for friendship.
Sincerity is the noble quality of being a man and the basic premise of making friends successfully.
(1) Respect your friends.
(2) Treat each other with sincerity
(3) Keep your word.
Step 2 cultivate friendship with enthusiasm
The true meaning of enthusiasm is two words-initiative.
(1) Take the initiative to care about friends
(2) Take the initiative to help friends
(3) Take the initiative to discover the advantages of friends and praise them.
3. Maintain friendship with tolerance.
(1) tolerate the different opinions of friends.
(2) Tolerate the faults of friends.
(3) Sincerely fulfill the good deeds of friends, and sincerely feel happy for the success and progress of friends. (This is also a higher level of tolerance)
4. Purify friendship with principles.
(1) In the face of right and wrong issues, we should have a clear attitude.
(2) Choose an appropriate way to express your attitude to your friends.
5. Express the friendship between boys and girls in an appropriate way.
(1) Natural and elegant communication between boys and girls.
(2) In communication, both boys and girls should learn to respect each other.
(3) When communicating, both boys and girls should learn to love themselves.
Lesson 8 Integrate into social life and cultivate elegant taste.
First, life is full of fun (P38-4 1) (optimized design P47)
1, meaning of interest:
Interest: It embodies a person's pursuit of a better life, optimistic attitude towards life and healthy psychology.
Interest is mainly manifested in the interest in life. Interest in life comes from the beautiful feelings and experiences in life.
2. Life is full of interests, with various interests.
(1) Various tastes are manifested in the observation, understanding and appreciation of natural things.
(2) In the social life where people interact with each other, there are various tastes.
(3) The variety of tastes also shows that people's tastes are different.
-differences between people in different times and the same person at different stages.
Second, the significance of cultivating elegant taste (P42-46)
(A) the expression of elegant taste (optimized design P50)
1, interest in healthy living-interest that is beneficial to personal physical and mental health.
2. Upward interest in life-refers to the interest full of optimistic and positive attitude towards life.
3, civilized life interest-is in line with the requirements of modern civilization life interest.
Civilization-material civilization, spiritual civilization (related knowledge: world-material world, spiritual world; Strength-material strength and spiritual strength; Life-material life, spiritual life, etc. )
The elegance of life interest, whether it is material life or spiritual life, must meet the requirements of civilization.
4. Interest in scientific life refers to the interest in life that conforms to the scientific spirit and requirements.
(B) the significance of cultivating elegant taste: (P44), (Optimizing design P48)
1, elegant life interest, beneficial to personal physical and mental health.
The low taste in life is harmful to people's physical and mental health.
2. Elegant life interest is conducive to broadening horizons and developing intelligence.
The vulgar taste of life makes people narrow-minded and mediocre.
3. Elegant life interest is helpful to improve moral and cultural accomplishment.
Poor taste in life is a manifestation of low level of moral and cultural accomplishment.
Third, cultivate elegant taste in social life (P46-52)
-The taste of elegant life is not innate, it comes from the love, interest and feeling of life. (Optimized design P5 1-52)
1. Cultivating proper hobbies is the starting point of cultivating elegant life taste.
Appropriate interests help us grow up healthily; Improper interests will not only bring us good feelings, but also bring us unhealthy and vulgar things, which are useless and even harmful to individuals, families and society.
2. Enriching cultural life is an important way to cultivate elegant life taste.
To enrich cultural life, we should pay attention to diversification, civilization, knowledge and science.
3. Actively participating in group activities is a powerful guarantee to cultivate elegant life taste.
In the activities with partners, we should pay attention to identify different tastes, and we should not blindly follow the trend to participate in meaningless or even harmful activities.
4. Optimistic and humorous attitude towards life is the condition for cultivating elegant life interest.
Lesson 9 Cultivate patriotic sentiment and set up lofty ideals
First, patriotic sentiment-noble moral sentiment (P56-59)
1, perception is a sublimation of human emotions.
Meaning: Perception is a higher level of human emotion than emotion, and it is the sublimation of emotion.
-Cultivating noble sentiments mainly refers to cultivating moral sentiments.
2. Patriotic sentiment is an important part of moral sentiment and a noble moral sentiment.
3. Three elements of patriotism (optimized design P78)
(1) Deep patriotic cognition is the basic point of patriotic feelings.
(2) Strong patriotism is the core of patriotism.
(3) Firm patriotic behavior is the destination of patriotic sentiment.
Patriotic cognition, patriotic emotion and patriotic behavior are the three elements that constitute patriotic emotion, and they are closely related and indispensable.
Second, the performance of patriotism (P59-66)
1. Patriotism is a worldwide emotion.
2. The patriotism of the Chinese nation has a long historical and cultural foundation. The patriotic feelings of all countries and nations are based on their own history and culture. )
3. Patriotism is manifested in many aspects: (Optimized design P79-80)
(1) Love and loyalty to the motherland.
Love for the motherland is manifested in love for one's hometown and native land.
(2) Love for the motherland is manifested in deep attachment.
Love for the motherland is manifested in loyalty to the motherland.
(2) A strong desire for national unity and national unity.
The great cause of the reunification of the motherland has not yet been finally completed. Taiwan Province Province did not return it.
In order to realize the great cause of the reunification of the motherland, China put forward the basic policy of "peaceful reunification and one country, two systems".
(3) Have a firm belief in the prosperity of the motherland.
Patriotism is unconditional and should not be different because of the strength of the motherland.
(4) Resolutely safeguard the dignity of the motherland. (page 65)
I hate foreign invaders.
(6) Despise the national scum who betray the country and seek glory.
(7) incomparable respect for patriots.
Third, determined to cultivate patriotic sentiments (P67-74)
Patriotism is a virtue and noble character that every citizen should possess.
All patriotic thoughts and actions will be praised and respected; All thoughts and actions that are detrimental to national interests will be condemned and spurned.
(A) the significance of patriotic feelings:
1, patriotism makes people noble.
(1) Patriotism determines people's attitude towards things around them, and there must be a clear distinction between love and hate.
(2) Patriotism combines the realization of personal ideals with the needs and development of the motherland.
2. Patriotism promotes the progress of young people. (Optimized design P85)
(2) Ways to cultivate patriotic sentiments (methods): (P70-74), (optimized design P82)
1, study hard and enrich your patriotic feelings.
2. Use the situation to cultivate patriotic feelings.
(1) Natural scenes can be used to cultivate patriotic feelings.
(2) Be good at creating scenes to cultivate patriotic feelings.
3, in the actual action of serving the country, strengthen patriotic feelings.
(1) Turn patriotic feelings into patriotic actions.
(2) Enhance patriotism in international communication.
Lesson 10 Strengthening Self-discipline and Cultivating Healthy Personality
I. Self-discipline-self-love, introspection and self-control (p78-8 1), (optimized design P 103)
Self-discipline is manifested in self-love, introspection and self-control.
1, know how to love yourself
(1) Love yourself and create a good image.
(1) Beautify your external image.
You should beautify your inner image. -Mainly
(2) self-love, but also self-esteem.
2. Be brave in introspection.
-Be able to constantly and calmly review your thoughts and behaviors, find and overcome your shortcomings, and try to correct your mistakes.
3. Be good at self-control.
-Be good at self-control and be able to urge yourself.
A man's most formidable enemies are his inertia, his shortcomings and his bad habits.
Second, self-discipline makes people outstanding (P8 1-87), (optimized design P 105)
Paying attention to self-discipline is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.
1, self-discipline, can let people know themselves.
It is a sign of wisdom that a person can understand others; It's really smart to know yourself.
Self-knowledge is more valuable than knowing people.
2. Self-discipline can make people learn to overcome themselves.
To overcome yourself, you must first know yourself, then make up your mind to overcome your shortcomings and weaknesses in a down-to-earth manner, and finally strive to consolidate the achievements of progress and refuse bad temptations.
3. Self-discipline enables people to develop good behavior habits.
Good behavior habits can play a positive role in people's study, work, life and health.
4, self-discipline, can make people get freedom of action. (optimized design P 108)
True freedom has certain constraints and restrictions. Without any constraints and restrictions, there is no "freedom".
5. Self-discipline can make people noble.
If you have a noble personality, you need to work harder in two aspects:
(1) "product"-product virtue. (accumulate goodness and become virtue)
② "Prevention"-Du Xian. That is to prevent and eliminate the erosion and pollution of decadent ideas and bad habits.
Third, develop self-discipline habits (P87-92), (optimized design P 106- 107)
1, sample method.
-Use the power of example to help you strengthen your self-discipline.
2. Self-policing law.
-according to your actual situation, choose relevant famous sayings, aphorisms and maxims as your motto, encourage yourself, remind yourself and warn yourself.
To enhance self-discipline with self-policing maxims, we should choose maxims that are elegant in style, inspiring and inspiring, and maxims that are aimed at ourselves and strictly used to guide our thoughts, words and deeds.
3. Introspection method.
-always review and check yourself, sum up your thoughts, psychology and behavior, affirm your strengths and weaknesses, find out your weaknesses and deficiencies, and define your goals for progress.
Keeping a diary is a good way to develop the habit of introspection.
4. Be cautious and independent.
A person can be strict with himself and not do anything that violates morality, discipline and law without the presence and supervision of others.
Cultivating self-discipline habits, improving self-discipline ability, strengthening the cultivation of psychological quality and moral sentiment, and striving to improve one's personality, in the final analysis, lies in having ideals.