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Silence is the cruelest revenge.
As the saying goes, a wise mind keeps its mouth shut.
It is said that experts generally don't show off easily and know how to hide their strength.
Yes, sharpness is not necessarily a good thing, but the best way to live is to be cautious.
Favorite passage:
Your face is so light that no one knows how tight your teeth are.
You walk with the wind, and no one knows that there are bruises on your fallen knees.
You smile mercilessly, and no one knows that you can only cry silently.
To make people feel effortless, they can only work extremely hard behind their backs.
People are either vulgar or lonely!
Along the way, whether it's gossip or throwing stones at people, I gradually learned to keep a straight face no matter how turbulent my heart is.
Sometimes, keeping silent is not cowardice, not debt, and I don't want a casual remark to become a sword for others to hurt myself.
No matter how good you are, some people make irresponsible remarks.
Since you can't make everyone like it, then be yourself with peace of mind and be worthy of your heart.
When others admire you, silence is a model of modesty, a slight smile is a reward, and self-knowledge is what counts;
Silence is a silent counterattack when others despise you. Without any words, your indifference can make the other person feel ashamed.
When others succeed, silence is a blessing hidden in the heart, not warm enough but from the heart;
When others fall short, silence is a boost. Don't let the cheers of "You sing and I come on stage" become the burden of others. ...
A talkative person has his own loveliness, but so does a disaster from his mouth.
Silence is not cowardice, but wisdom.
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Silence is the best explanation.
There used to be a temple that was famous for hiding a string of beads worn by the Buddha, so people came to burn incense and worship the Buddha in an endless stream.
But only the abbot of the temple, the old monk and his seven disciples knew where the rosary was offered.
These seven disciples are very savvy, and the old abbot thinks he is old. In order to spread Buddhism, he wants to pass on the mantle to one of them.
Don't want to one day, the string of rosary disappeared, the abbot called them to the backyard and asked:
"No matter who took the rosary, as long as it is put back in its original place, I will not pursue it, and the Buddha will not blame it."
Everyone looked at each other and shook their heads.
Seven days later, the rosary was still missing, and the abbot added:
"That's all. As long as someone admits it, the rosary will belong to him. "
But after seven days, no one admitted it.
The old abbot was disappointed and thoughtful:
"Since no one admits to taking the rosary, it means that your heart is extremely open and you can go down the mountain tomorrow. Those who take the rosary can stay if they want. "
The next day, six disciples packed their bags and left easily, only one disciple stayed.
"You admit that you took it?"
"I didn't take it."
"Then why are you charged with stealing?"
"Everyone is in doubt these days, and they have bad feelings for each other. As long as someone admits it, others will be relieved. Besides, although the rosary is gone, the Buddha is still there, isn't it? "
The old abbot smiled and took out the string of "lost" rosaries from his arms and put them on his disciples' hands.
Yes, not everything needs to be clarified. If you are pure and look at the Buddha from the heart, you will be kind.
People who know you don't need to explain, and people who don't know you don't need to explain it a thousand times.
Deep water is silent, and people are steady.
Silence is the calm in the face of gossip, the calm and transparent in the face of intrigue, and the magnanimity of being indifferent to right and wrong.
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Half a life has passed, learn to be silent.
Most of the time, we are always eager to express ourselves, because we can get it off our chest quickly, ignoring whether others really want to hear it or not, and whether what we say touches each other's pain points.
Often when a relationship is destroyed, it will bring the lesson that "words are silver and silence is gold".
For the rest of your life, learn to keep your mouth shut and don't say or say meaningless things.
Timely silence is an experience, but also a kind of accomplishment.
Hanshan used to ask pickup truck, "Someone slandered me, bullied me, insulted me, laughed at me, despised me, belittled me, hated me and cheated me. What should I do? "
Picard said, "Just bear with him, let him go, let him go, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, and stay a few years, and you will see him."
Those who deal with a man as he deals with you are wasting your life on meaningless things.
After half a life, you begin to understand what belongs to you and what is important to you;
Those irrelevant people and things have become ripples in the lake of your life and will eventually return to peace.
Don't disturb anyone when people are at low tide.
Be a silent mute and be practical. After this time, everything you want will follow.
Life is like this. Only by enduring loneliness can we maintain prosperity. Excellent people will experience a period of silence.
I can talk about how quiet and serene their days will be in the future.
Good things and bad things will eventually become the past.
For the rest of my life, I hope you won't argue, be humble, be quiet and happy.
I wish you come back from Qian Fan. Time flies. Learn to be silent and cherish words like gold.
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