Flash marriage is generally considered as a flash marriage within five months. Of course, this is also related to the length of marriage and whether you know each other well. Generally speaking, the core depends on how well you know each other. Flash marriage is just that two people spend too little time together and don't know each other well enough.
What does flash marriage mean?
Now there is a trend of fast-food love and marriage in society. Those who choose fast-food marriage are called "flash marriage families", and those who choose flash marriage are generally young people aged 20-30. For these "flash marriage families", it takes the fastest speed to complete the long process from falling in love, producing love and getting married. They can fall in love with a person in a few seconds, have a love affair in a few minutes, decide a lifelong event in an hour, and enter the wedding hall in a week. This kind of urban emotional fast food has long existed in many cities in China. The concept of "flash marriage" comes from new terms such as "flash guest" and "flash memory", which means to get married immediately. The great events in life should have taken their time. After all, two people are going to live together for life. I think it's too hasty to go to the civil affairs bureau to get the certificate on the basis of temporary goodwill. But in this era of "fast-food love", even the procedures of marriage and divorce have been changed to a more convenient way. Many people think that they have found the right person, so they get married quickly, so that they can take this relationship seriously, otherwise they are irresponsible. If they fall in love casually, the marriage will no longer be pure.
Why are there so many flash marriages:
1, in order to catch the young tail.
Under normal circumstances, people born after 90 will get married before the age of 40, without worrying about not getting a wife or husband. However, there are also some young people under 40 who are worried about their divorce every day and want to catch the young tail and get married quickly, so they get married quickly.
2, love at first sight, lightning marriage
The concept of post-75 s and post-90 s is more traditional than that of post-75 s, and some people think that they can get married at first sight. In fact, there is indeed love at first sight. I can't get rid of my beloved half, and I can't wait to get married at once.
3. Chemical substance exchange
Some people attach great importance to material life. Seeing the material life of the other half is helpful for their future food, clothing, housing and transportation. If such people meet the other half with good economic development standards, they will hold on like octopus. It is not easy for them to consider whether they have an emotional foundation. On the other hand, if the level of economic development is good, the later days will undoubtedly be quite easy.
4. Various factors
In addition to some subjective reasons, there are also some objective factors. I learned from an excellent criminal defense lawyer who is engaged in divorce appeal that in the divorce proceedings he took over in the past two years, the probability of flash marriage after divorce is relatively high. After the promulgation of the new marriage law, with the implementation of the new marriage law, there are more flash marriages and more divorces. Moreover, now the divorce after marriage does not need the confirmation of the enterprise, and the simplified procedure will also cause the flash marriage family to divorce soon, whether it is a wish or after careful consideration. Due to the reduction of many procedures in the divorce procedure, divorce is simpler and the total number of divorces is increasing rapidly.
Disadvantages of flash marriage:
Flash marriage, no matter what it is, no matter how it feels, is irresponsible for life and feelings, and irresponsible for yourself. Such behavior needs to be repaid after marriage. Because of the lack of foundation and understanding, there are many misunderstandings and frictions in getting along, and there is no motivation to pave the way. A little thing may end in discord.