In the impression of most people, female lawyers have always retained the stereotype of being smart and capable, and will leave all your underwear after divorce-of course, no normal person will want your underwear.
Objectively discuss what concerns you have before looking for a lawyer girlfriend:
1. I don't have much time for you to tease me during my love. You know, lawyers are very busy, and they usually have to work late. The high probability that you are inseparable will not happen. Of course, if you are the kind of person who hates others sticking to you and needs a lot of privacy, this one is a plus.
2. Lawyers are generally more logical. Girls could have fought for seven points for no reason. A reasonable and argumentative female lawyer will convince you to lose in a quarrel. This means that if she doesn't reason with you, you can't beat her. If she reason with you, you still can't beat her. Do you think this will happen? In fact, most lawyers are unwilling to waste their breath arguing with others after work. The debate was held in court. Why do they take the initiative to debate when they go home? Do they have overtime pay? Do you think talk show actors will be willing to joke for free after work? This, skip.
Maybe life is too picky. Lawyers often need to be so careful in their work that they need to be picky about punctuation. They may like to criticize your logic and find your bugs in their daily life, which is not easy to fool.
Other shortcomings have not been discovered, because compared with the advantages, this small shortcoming can really be ignored.
Part II: The Truth
Speaking of advantages, it's really three days and three nights, to make a long story short. This advantage is actually gender-neutral, because people who have mastered the basic spirit of law can't talk about bad love. For example:
1. Principles of fairness, equality and good faith. As we all know, fairness and equality are relative, not absolute, just as we shout equality between men and women without ignoring the physiological gap between men and women. Therefore, in love, your lawyer will fully respect the equality and difference of the status of both parties, consciously assume the rights and obligations in the love relationship, and prohibit the behavior of inconsistent logic, inconsistent preface and arbitrary overthrow of previous remarks.
2. Predictability of the law. This means that the law must be published before it can become a guide to the code of conduct, so that you will not blame and get angry at will when the other party does not understand, and let the other party live in fear. There is no explicit stipulation that it is not a crime. If you don't let the other person know about your minefield, if the other person doesn't mean to offend, and the behavior doesn't violate public order, good customs and legal provisions, you should not be angry, but tell him "I don't like what you say/do, because …".
3. There is no doubt. This means that in criminal proceedings, if the criminal facts of the suspect are unclear, the evidence is unreliable and insufficient, and criminal responsibility should not be investigated, the procuratorial organ should make a decision not to prosecute. In other words, the lawyer will regard you as innocent until there is definite evidence, but keep a reasonable doubt until there is enough evidence.
4. Witness testimony needs cross-examination. This means that witness testimony belongs to verbal evidence and is variable. After describing the facts of the case, the witness or the party concerned may re-choose according to their own interests, so it is too hasty to convict only on the basis of witness testimony without other types of evidence.
5. Pre-judgment mediation. In other words, communicate in advance and discuss it well.
6. Rationality principle. This means that law enforcement agencies must be objective, moderate and rational when exercising law enforcement power, especially when exercising discretion. We will not break up or divorce because of a little contradiction, and the means and punishment of making mistakes should follow the principle of proportionality, that is, rationality.
7. Combination of literal interpretation, systematic interpretation and historical interpretation. For a sentence or behavior of the other party, we should not only look at this sentence, but also look at the scene at that time. Also think about this person's usual personality and way of doing things, and see if you think too much.
8. The statute of limitations system. This means that the obligee whose civil rights have been infringed fails to exercise his rights within the statutory limitation period, and when the limitation period expires, he loses the system of requesting the people's court to force the obligor to perform his obligations according to the litigation procedure. Creditor's rights that have passed the statute of limitations are not protected by law, so don't bring them up again, and you won't always turn over old scores.