On the evening of May 25th, a law firm in Shandong issued an obituary. Zhang, a 45-year-old lawyer of this law firm, died at home on May 23, 2020 due to an accident. Later, it was reported on the Internet that Zhang was killed by his 15-year-old daughter at home.
It is understood that Zhang is a native of Jining, Shandong Province and a practicing lawyer in Qingdao. Zhang divorced her husband for many years and raised her daughter alone. It is said that Zhang often praises his children for being excellent and sensible.
On May 23rd and 24th, 2020, Zhang was required to be present in a case concerning intellectual property rights. However, Zhang's phone has been unable to contact, and the person in charge of the firm who felt that something was wrong chose to call the police.
After receiving the alarm, Qingdao police quickly arranged for the police to visit Zhang's home in Shibei District. After opening a room in Zhangjiali, I found Zhang's daughter sitting at home staring. According to Zhang's daughter, "Mom has been killed by me, and the body is in bed."
Afterwards, according to Zhang's colleagues and neighbors, after Zhang and her husband divorced, her husband never took any responsibility, relying on Zhang's hard work to bring up her daughter. And Zhang's daughter just entered the first year of high school this year. She usually lives on campus, but this year she lives at home because of the epidemic.
According to Zhang's daughter, she had the idea of killing her mother when she was at school on Friday. After returning home on Saturday, she strangled Zhang with a rope on the grounds that her mother was massaging.
Zhang worked hard to bring up her daughter alone, and the pain is self-evident. And/kloc-what kind of hatred and resentment do girls and mothers at the age of 0/5 have, and can they be cruel to their mothers?
1, 201At the end of August, a boy of 12 years old in Yuanjiang, Hunan Province was banned from smoking at present, and cut his mother with a knife for more than 20 years until his head was dripping with blood and his bones were leaked. Later, the boy killed an ant calmly.
2.20 19 In March, a boy of 13 years old in Yancheng, Jiangsu, brutally hacked his mother to death with a kitchen knife because he refused to obey his mother's discipline. Afterwards, he didn't call the police. Just like Zhang's daughter, he sat motionless for more than 40 hours without leaving a tear.
"Mom is not good, I just hate her!" I think the words of a 13-year-old boy in Yancheng after his mother was killed spoke the voices of the suspects in these "mother-killing cases". As a mother, even if you give your heart, it is hard to hide your child's hatred for her. I think this is the sadness that family education is not in place!
Nowadays, parents are used to imposing their unfulfilled dreams or losses on their children, which is especially obvious in single-parent families. Mingde inspirational educational psychology teacher believes that as parents, children should not only know why, but also know why.
Simply asking children, but not telling them why they should study hard, will only make them more disgusted and think that learning is for their parents. Therefore, incorrect educational guidance is the root cause of the tragedy!