With the advent of the new media era, online interactive platforms and online dating methods are no longer exclusive to a few people. More people choose to become "netizens", and make friends through chatting, "shaking", nearby people and "equally interesting souls" on the online dating platform, and even develop various phenomenal terms such as "online dating" and "rushing". However, there are not a few "cheating behaviors" that follow. Because online dating can't be recognized face to face, it may produce a series of cheating behaviors, and may even go into MLM organizations by mistake. How unreliable is online dating?
first of all, the difference between real people and photos is unusual.
The illustration making technology of modern people is too expensive. Even ugly people can use illustration making software to make themselves handsome and beautiful. Therefore, the credibility of the photos you see is very low, and the possibility of disappointment is high after seeing the real person.
Second, your understanding of the online dating object comes from him, and there is no means of on-the-spot investigation.
in order to get their own goals, such as your approval, people often choose to hide factors that are not conducive to them and exaggerate their own advantages. His hidden disadvantages may be your biggest concern, or the biggest obstacle in your love.
Finally, online love is too dangerous.
There are endless news about accidents, kidnappings, scams, etc. in order to meet their netizens. It would be terrible if girls saw it. Indeed, meeting netizens is risky. Whether you meet rashly without knowing each other's true character or their true thoughts, or whether you are alone, the possibility of an accident is really high.
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Online dating is not a good thing now, but we need to be vigilant and treat it with caution.
First,
Before you meet a net friend, you must be prepared for safety. Going to meet netizens without telling everyone, this is an act that harms < P > yourself.
you should tell people you know, even if you are afraid of your parents' opposition. Before you meet a netizen, you need to keep in touch with someone you trust and send them a location at any time. If a friend finds something unusual in your place, wants to call the police, or asks for help from his family, and doesn't know your specific location, he can't untie your encirclement as soon as possible.
Second,
If you are dissatisfied with each other after meeting, or find that they are hiding something from you, please try to control your mood.
If the other person makes you unhappy and you don't want to be with him, just go home and deal with this matter after ensuring safety. Don't turn against others in public. In case a person is embarrassed, something bad may happen. Even if you can't get a lover, there's no need to take revenge
Overview of the case
In July p>2118, Xiao Chen, a sophomore, spent his summer vacation at home. Because the vacation was very boring, Xiao Chen met Zhao Kexin, whose online name was "Sad Eggplant", through a dating software. They fell in love at first sight and quickly established a "love relationship", and then they got along as male and female friends online.
During the communication, Zhao Kexin invited Xiao Chen to meet in the city where he lived many times, but Xiao Chen did not agree. On August 7th of the same year, Zhao Kexin invited Xiao Chen to his city again on the grounds of his birthday. Xiao Chen hesitated again and again, so he prepared a gift and went to XX city with great joy.
That night, Zhao Kexin arranged for Xie Dazhuang, a "friend", to stay with Xiao Chen in the hotel to keep an eye on Xiao Chen. On August 8, after consulting with Xie Dazhuang, Zhao Kexin took Xiao Chen to the hiding place, and Xie Dazhuang instructed Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin to take care of Xiao Chen Jinxing. Later, when Xie Dazhuang and others brainwashed Xiao Chen, Xiao Chen finally realized that he had fallen into a pyramid scheme. After many unsuccessful attempts to find opportunities, on the evening of August 29, when members of the MLM organization were asleep, Xiao Chen turned out from the bathroom window. During the escape, Xiao Chen fell from the upstairs with his feet empty and was injured. After identification, Xiao Chen's spinal injury constitutes a minor injury.
After the crime, Zhao Kexin, Xie Dazhuang, Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin pleaded guilty. The public prosecution agency prosecuted Zhao Kexin, Xie Dazhuang, Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin for the crime of illegal detention.
After the trial, Xie Dazhuang's family compensated Xiao Chen for 21,111 yuan in economic compensation, and obtained the understanding of Xiao Chen and his family.
verdict
the court held through trial that according to the first paragraph of Article 238 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China, anyone who illegally detains others or illegally deprives others of their personal freedom by other means shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, criminal detention, public surveillance or deprivation of political rights. Whoever has the circumstances of beating or insulting shall be given a heavier punishment.
In addition, according to Article 25 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China, a * * * accomplice means that two or more persons commit a crime intentionally. If two or more people commit a crime with negligence, they shall not be punished as a crime with negligence; Those who should bear criminal responsibility shall be punished according to the crimes they committed.
In this case, the court sentenced Zhao Kexin to one year's imprisonment, Xie Dazhuang to ten months' imprisonment, Yu Dabao to ten months' imprisonment and Zhang Qin to ten months' imprisonment for the crime of detention. In addition, the above-mentioned four defendants were sentenced to compensate the plaintiff Xiao Chen for medical expenses and other losses amounting to more than RMB 119,111.
Lawyer's comments
Lawyer Xu Di of Guangdong Guohui (Beijing) Law Firm: The crime of illegal detention refers to the crime of illegally depriving others of their personal freedom by detention, confinement or other coercive methods. The object violated by this crime is the right to physical freedom of others. According to the first paragraph of Article 238 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China: "Whoever illegally detains others or illegally deprives others of their personal freedom by other means shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, criminal detention, public surveillance or deprivation of political rights. Those who are beaten or insulted shall be given a heavier punishment. "
In this case, Zhao Kexin, Xie Dazhuang, Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin illegally detained others, and their actions have constituted the crime of illegal detention, so they should be sentenced to punishment according to law. The public prosecutor accused him of being guilty. In addition, according to Article 25 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China, the actions of four people constitute a joint crime: Zhao Kexin and Xie Dazhuang play a major role in the joint crime and are the principal offenders; Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin played a minor role in the crime of * * *, and they were accomplices and could be given a lighter punishment.
After the incident, Xie Dazhuang's family actively compensated the victim Xiao Chen for his loss, and obtained the understanding of the victim Xiao Chen and his family, so Xie Dazhuang can be given a lighter punishment according to law. In view of the good attitude of the four people to plead guilty after being brought to justice, they can also be considered as appropriate when sentencing. The losses caused to Xiao Chen by the criminal acts of Zhao Kexin, Xie Dazhuang, Yu Dabao and Zhang Qin should be compensated according to law. The criminal incidental civil compensation advocated by Xiao Chen is legal and reasonable and should be supported. Therefore, the court finally made the above judgment.