1. Establish a timetable with children: parents and children plan the time after school together, for example, primary school students finish school at 4 pm, and parents can brainstorm with their children to see what to do after school in the afternoon. How to arrange these things? How long will it take? Finally, let the children make their own decisions and list the time forms that the children think are feasible and willing to abide by. When children think they can control their time, they will be more willing to take responsibility for themselves and start and finish on time, thus increasing their self-confidence. This is the schedule of the afternoon for the students.
2. Tomato alarm clock method: Give the child a small alarm clock, so that the child can set the time every time he does his homework. Generally, he chooses 15-25 minutes according to the child's age, and then takes a 5-minute break to let him drink water and go to the toilet. If the child completes this process ahead of schedule, parents should give encouragement in time to increase his confidence.
As a parent, once you have an appointment with your child, don't interrupt halfway. I believe your child has the ability to do it. If the child arrives at the appointed time, it should be given to the child in time. If it is not done at the appointed time, you can discuss the reasons and solutions with your child, and you can make an agreement with your child. If we don't finish the setting several times, we will take our homework with us at the end of the time. Don't delay our next activity. Giving children a sense of urgency will also increase their habit of punctuality.
Of course, you may face such a situation, when you really haven't finished, you should implement the agreement in good faith and firmly. At this time, the child may cry, and the parents will divert their attention and not compromise. If the child is anxious and has no intention to play at this time, it shows that the parents' education was successful at first, and the child has the idea of finishing his homework on time. At the same time, parents should communicate with teachers and get their understanding. Children will also be educated by teachers because they have not finished their homework at school. Home-school cooperation helps children form the habit of doing homework on time.
5. Set small learning goals with children to help them build confidence in learning and find motivation and interest in learning. Give encouragement to achieve the goal, and set a specific time (a hug, an activity, a gift ...) to strengthen the child's behavior with the child. When we delegate enough power to children, children will have more power to do it. Let children always be conscious, insist on 2 1 day, initially form a good habit of writing homework on time, and consolidate it within six weeks, so parents basically don't have to worry about future homework.
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