First, children who are often beaten are difficult to treat very big internal injuries all their lives. Second, children who are often subjected to violence by their parents are also violent. When the conditions are ripe, it will become a cyber attack. Third, children who are often scolded will also become timid and unconfident, do not work hard, and even be negative and pessimistic.
So, the answer is simple. Educating children with culture is not as simple as beating them up. And the quality of a child is by no means played by parents. A person's future is the result of a family's efforts, and these people who live well today are the result of their ancestors' correct daily life and correct upbringing. During this period, I have accumulated a lot of wisdom.
Correct parenting methods. Correct guidance
Academician Zhong told a story when he mentioned his father's cultural education. When he was a child, he especially liked toys in the university grocery store. I often buy this small toy with the meal money given by my parents. My father was also sincere when he asked, telling my father where all his money had gone. At first, I thought she would be beaten by her father, but I decided that it was her father who questioned herself. Do you think this is right?
In a word, Academician Zhong learned how to think and made him realize how stupid he was. These parents who can guide them are easy to manage. This is more efficient than hitting children.
Correct parenting Second, communication.
Communication is actually an emotional way to let oil flow between yourself and your child. It will be easier if a parent can establish good parent-child communication with his children.
Parents should not think independently from their own perspective, but at the same time, they should also think with their children from their own perspective, be willing to listen to their children's voices, and achieve the effect of communication according to their freedom to come and go. Instead of simply letting children hear their own voices and ignoring their true inner thoughts.
Correct parenting Third, parents set an example.
Parents are the best education for children, and everything you do is in the eyes of children. These parents who scold their children, these parents who beat their children, turn their heads and think carefully. Does that mean that everyone is not responsible for the mistakes made by their children? He is not right. Isn't that what children learn from everyone? Starting today, parents should be everyone's responsibility, and learn to educate children with wisdom instead of simple violence.