In this regard, psychologist Professor Rong combined his personal experience and psychological knowledge to sort out several methods that parents can try:
1. Understand the reason: First of all, understand why children are unwilling to do psychological counseling. Is it because of fear of being known, or fear of the consultation process, or because of distrust of consultants? Only after understanding the reasons can we solve the problem in a targeted way.
2. Build trust: Establish good communication with children and let them feel the care and support of their parents. Parents can share their experiences with their children and let them know the importance and necessity of psychological counseling.
3. Provide information: provide children with relevant information about psychological counseling, so that children can understand the purpose and methods of psychological counseling, thus generating interest.
4. Provide information: provide children with relevant information about psychological counseling, so that children can understand the purpose and methods of psychological counseling, thus generating interest.
5. Start with friends or classmates: invite children's friends or classmates to have psychological counseling together, so that they can build trust in the same environment.
6. Patient guidance: Parents should be patient and slowly guide their children to receive psychological counseling to avoid coercion or pressure.
7. Choose the right counselor: Parents can help their children choose an experienced and professional counselor. Understand the background and qualifications of consultants, so that children can have trust in consultants.
8.*** Participation: Parents can accompany their children to do psychological counseling, so that children can feel the companionship and support of their parents. At the same time, parents can also observe the consultation process and understand the child's psychological state.
9. Patience: Psychological counseling takes time and process, and children may need some time to adapt. Parents should wait patiently and give their children enough time and space.
10. Pay attention to children's changes: After children receive psychological counseling, parents should pay attention to children's emotional and behavioral changes and give timely support and encouragement.
1 1. Encourage and praise: Parents should encourage and praise their children in the process of psychological counseling, so that they can feel their growth and progress.
In a word, parents should keep good communication with their children, understand their feelings, guide them patiently, establish a trust relationship with their children, help them build trust in psychological counseling, and let them feel the care of their parents, so as to be willing to receive psychological counseling.