Do grandparents take care of their children because of feelings or obligations?

My grandmother brought me up when I was a child, and I had the best relationship with her. Every time I go home, grandma likes to talk to me about all kinds of things. When I was still at school, my grandmother always worried that I didn't have enough to eat, because when she saw that I had lost weight, she thought I was still hungry all day, just like my father was at school, but she felt sorry for me.

Later, I got married and gave birth to a baby. Grandma not only asked me to take care of the baby hard, but also worried about my baby. Every time I go home to take my child to see her, she holds the child in her arms and refuses to let go, as if she can't get enough of it.

In parenting, my grandmother and I emphasize the most: we must be patient with our children. We must never yell at them or be mean to them when they are crying or disobedient! It is said that the soul of a child will know that being yelled at too much when he was a child will make the soul uneasy for life.

Grandma's words are a little superstitious, but they are also reasonable. Yes, children who have been yelled at since childhood are insecure, and the lack of security will make children full of anxiety when they grow up.

A 90-year-old man can say this by observing and accumulating experience. I don't care if the child's soul will know for a while, but the child's heart will definitely feel the impatience and anger of his parents. If we are fierce, the child will think that we don't love him.

Children who lack love from childhood will always look for missing love when they grow up, and inner turmoil is inevitable. As parents, the best love for their children is patience with them. Without patience, love will be hurt!