1, teasing chat
2. Don't let the chat topic become boring.
3. Learn to continue the topic
Step 4 talk about topics of interest
5. Talk about interesting things in life
6. Talk about the same hobbies.
7. Pay attention to the boundary between humor and gossip.
8. Learn to listen
9. Respond, but don't be perfunctory.
10, in-depth topic content
1 1. Observe each other's interests when chatting.
12, talking about the same experience of * * *
13, you can do some interactive text chat games.
14, divergent chat, don't limit yourself to a certain topic.
15. If you find that the topic is wrong, stop in time, change the topic immediately, or end the chat for the time being.
16, pay attention to the chat time, don't chat for a long time.
17, pay attention to language civilization
18, pay attention to your tone, and don't ask too many questions, which will make the other party feel that you are interrogating.
19, pay attention to what the other person often mentions, and chat according to the other person's preferences.
20. Pay attention to the lack of summary after each chat.
Second, how to talk about chatting with friends
1, avoid wide-ranging discussion in the early stage of understanding.
Everyone is unique, especially in thinking and personality. In the early stage of pursuing girls, it is best not to talk on a large scale, otherwise the disagreement between opinions and hobbies is likely to become your biggest obstacle. Therefore, it is best to wait until you are familiar with this girl, and then choose the place where you have an intersection to communicate.
2, talk to the emotional peak and end it in time.
Chat with girls, don't talk until there is no topic. Because, the feeling of the end of a chat will leave up to 70% impression in girls' hearts. Therefore, after the emotional peak, when the emotions of both sides begin to decline, ending in time will leave a good impression on girls.
Most questions begin with "I want to know"
If you want to get close to girls quickly from communication, you might as well say, "What's your name?" This question is changed to "I want to know your name?" Why is this happening? Because when girls test a boy's waste, they will focus on testing the boy's responsibility and independence. And such questions can just send a positive message to girls.
4. Don't start a declarative topic with "I"
For example, a girl asks you, "Does this dress look good?" If you don't think it looks good.
Wrong answer: "I don't think this dress suits you."
Correct answer: "This dress doesn't suit you." The wrong answer will give people an impression of not being confident.
5. Give the news that you know other women from the side.
In the process of chasing girls, we repeatedly stressed that we should weaken our purpose and show our high value. Therefore, in the process of your chat, you might as well give the news that you know other women from the side. For example, "I heard from my female colleague yesterday that this shop is delicious. Try it today! " "
6. vague invitation after compliment
When you are sure that girls are interested in you, you can start making invitations. But many friends are "dead" at this level. What should we do? Yes, let's make a vague invitation that is hard to refuse! You can compliment her or give her a reasonable reason before accepting the invitation. For example, "You are absolutely right. Let's try it together that day. " Note: Don't mention the specific time and environment in vague invitations. If the other party starts to change the subject or leave, it means that the vague invitation has failed, but it will not lose too much.
7. Universal compliments
There is no doubt! Almost every girl needs a compliment from a boy, and a compliment will make your next chat much smoother. Here, I give you a most praised formula: I can't believe you are not only beautiful, _ _ _ _ _! (Very easy to use)
8. Mandatory invitation (use with caution)
This skill has a strong lethality. If you use it well, you can get a girl with one move, but if you use it badly, you may lose all your efforts. You must use it with caution!
1. Give a choice: For example, "To thank you for lending me xx, shall we go for a glass of water this afternoon?" Or go to the movies? "
2. First big and then small: for example, "Thank you for your information. As a thank you, I invite you to the playground! " "No, we just met!" "Then go and have a glass of water, it's my treat!" "Well, very good."
Third, love skills
1, the first date should be short.
2. Keep a certain degree of curiosity.
3. Don't lower expectations easily, and don't make choices that violate the principle.
4, relax, it is to fall in love, not the college entrance examination, and have the opportunity to try and make mistakes.
5, pay attention to the image
6. Love yourself before you can love others.