This is the first time that I am in charge of the activities of Xingze Volunteer Group. After receiving the task, my first thought was to make this activity as complete as possible and live up to my mission. In the early stage, we contacted Mr. Xu Jianguo, a volunteer of Xingze, and Mr. Jia, the head of the town's cultural and educational group, to ensure that the conditions and equipment at the lecture site met Mr. Xu's requirements. At noon 14, 1 1, volunteer Buddha and I will wait at the designated place to welcome xu teacher. At 0: 30 in the morning, Teacher Xu and I drove to the town to visit volunteer Jia. After lunch, we went to the terraced classroom of junior high school in Cuimiao Town to check the situation and put up banners. Volunteers Blue Sky Sewing and Purple Moon Orchid also rushed to the scene to help. ...
In the lecture, Xu Jianguo, a teacher, combined with modern people's children's education, husband-wife relationship, physical and mental health and working conditions, led everyone to understand the truth of life: heaven, teaching, filial piety, cause and effect; The happiness that can really inspire us is Five Blessingg: longevity, wealth, health, morality and a good death. We should practice the kindness, mutual love, mutual assistance and great harmony of traditional culture, because doing good and filial piety can't wait! The lecture hall of more than 300 people was packed, and everyone was deeply attracted by the content of xu teacher's speech. Sometimes they smile, sometimes they cry, and sometimes they bow their heads in meditation. Everyone has received a fierce baptism in their hearts ... "A couple disliked their father's age and ugliness, refused to eat at the table, and made a pair of chopsticks for his father with a wooden stick. One day, I found my child playing with sticks, so I asked him what to do. The child said that he was practicing making chopsticks for him. He was shocked and quickly invited his father back to the dinner table, and never dared to be unfilial again. " It's sad to respect, love and support the elderly, and wait for a child to support them before their relatives.
"Weeding at noon that day, my mother is really hard. She sleeps late in the afternoon, fights the landlord in the afternoon, chats WeChat at night, and no one cooks. " Although it was a kid's joke, I was still shocked. Can such a mother teach excellent children? Definitely not. On the surface, filial piety, what kind of parents, what kind of children to teach. Reflect on yourself. Although I don't have so many bad habits, I like to sleep late, lose my temper and play with my mobile phone. Isn't it the same with children nowadays? I was very angry when my son contradicted me. Now I finally found the root cause. It turns out that I can't be straight. Mothers all want to cultivate an excellent child, but it is difficult to learn well. In ancient times, there was a saying that "mother-in-law tattooed, Meng Mu chose her neighbor to ruin the temple, and Tao Mu closed the altar and retired". Although we are ordinary people, we should set a good example for our children. Hearing the story of "problem children" attending the lecture on Chinese studies in Disciples, I can't wait to attend the training with my son. Together, we can get rid of bad habits and welcome a new life.
Xu teacher's words are still fresh in my memory. Applause words are composed of noble words and hands, and those who applaud are noble people. Our ancestors told us to applaud and praise others more when making words. Comfortable and willing, giving is made up of giving, and giving to others will make you feel comfortable. Indeed, dedication is the highest realm of life.
I thank this distinguished chairman for giving me the responsibility for these activities. Thanks to xu teacher's wonderful speech, which benefited me a lot. I look forward to a deeper and more comprehensive understanding of Chinese studies.
Reflections on Lecture 2 on Education At 6: 30 this Wednesday evening, I attended the fourth lecture on classroom education for parents held by our school. The keynote speaker was Zhao Jinping, a young lecturer. When the words "make love smarter" appeared on the screen, I was deeply attracted by these words. Teacher Zhao's gentle and cheerful words deeply infected me.
Teacher Zhao first summarized and analyzed the age characteristics of modern children and fifth-grade children, and explained the methods and skills adopted to solve the problems of children of this age. Teacher Zhao used real people around him to let us know the importance of family education, how to carry out family education and how to educate children. Explain to you what parents should do to educate their children: adjust their mood, temper and habits. Just when I was confused on the road of educating my children, I suddenly realized that if we want our children to become excellent, we must become excellent. The one and a half hour lecture is over. Walking out of the lecture hall and on the way home, I was filled with emotion.
"Why are you always careless? Why have you regressed again? Why are you so ignorant? Why are you so unconscious? I give you good food, put on clothes, mobile phone, computer, ipad, shuttle bus to and from school once a week, which creates such good conditions for you. I love you so much, why are you so disappointing? " This is what all our parents often say to their children. At this time, we will scold, blame, complain and even scold each other. We blame all the problems on our children. Yes, we usually pay too much attention to results, are eager for success, and have no patience to accompany our children's growth seriously. If we do something wrong, we just blame them, but we won't tell our children: "If we are wrong, we can start again"; "As long as you persist, you can do it"; When a child makes a mistake, we don't tell him what to do in the future. In the long run, a vicious circle will be formed, and children will get worse and worse. In fact, we are all at fault, and the root of everything lies in the parents themselves. The love we give our children is doting, blind and selfish. I suddenly remembered a popular sentence in the WeChat circle recently: We always say that we love our children unconditionally, in fact, children love us unconditionally! They can tolerate our bad temper and still smile at us naively after the incident. They can tolerate our mistakes and still hug us tightly after the incident! Children will show us their feelings, love and smiles without stint. In the face of such a naive and lovely child, how can we not let our emotions become more stable and peaceful?
Yes! Excuse me. How long has it been since you asked your child, "Honey, do you have anything to tell your mother?" Baby, did you have fun at school today? "How long has it been since I gave my child a warm hug? Then let's put down the boring party and mobile phone from now on. Change yourself first, let yourself become excellent first, start from scratch, be more patient, be more gentle, communicate with our children more, be more careful, create a good growth environment for children and give them correct guidance. Why should our children worry about poor academic performance, failure to study hard, ignorance and failure to become talents? When he falls down on the road of growth in the future, he can get up again and say with a smile, "I can do it again"; When he is well-fed and well-fed, he can still do his best to help those in need; When the person who has hurt him is still tolerant and forgiving, then our education of children will be successful.
"Love" is such a warm word. Let's all become wise parents, get to know our children again, give them "great love" with our wisdom, and let them become excellent people.
Unconsciously, I have arrived at my door. When the child saw me, he jumped into my arms and said, "Mom, the homework is finished, waiting for you to check." At this time, I changed my method and said, "honey, you should check it carefully first to see if there is any problem, and then my mother will check it again." If you can check it out, then you have made progress again. " After listening to my words, the child happily accepted my suggestion and checked out several wrong questions by himself. I feel comfortable watching the children sleep happily. I believe tomorrow will be a new beginning!
Reflections on education-lecture 3. Fallen leaves hover in the air, composing a movement of gratitude, which is the gratitude of the tree to the earth that nourishes it; Baiyun floats in the blue sky, drawing pictures of people, which is Baiyun's gratitude to the blue sky that raised it. Because of gratitude, there will be this colorful society, because of gratitude, there will be sincere friendship, because of gratitude, we will understand the true meaning of life! -inscription
This morning, with the warm sunshine and crisp birds singing, our family of four watched the Thanksgiving Education for Primary and Secondary School Students broadcast by Yu Dan, a professor at Beijing Normal University, on the public channel of Weihai TV. Let me benefit a lot, let me improve my own quality, improve my self-cultivation and improve my life!
The program mainly talks about four aspects: First, how to cultivate children's filial piety? Second, how to cultivate children's love? Third, how to make our children self-reliant, self-reliant and confident? Fourth, how to cultivate children's ability to resist setbacks? Professor Yu Dan's speech is very infectious, and his words are inspiring and inspiring. Her concise language and high generalization ability are amazing.
Every word of Professor Yu Dan has aroused my infinite thinking: filial piety is a warm word, rubbing against the tired hearts of parents; It is a kind of nagging, sharing the pain of parents; It is a warm little song, which explains the feelings of parents. Be a filial person! Love is giving all help in difficult times, giving severe advice in the wrong way, and wiping away tears in painful times. Let's be a loving person! Self-esteem, self-reliance, self-improvement and resistance to setbacks are the four necessities of a perfect life and the only way to success. Let us raise the sails of self-esteem, self-improvement and resistance to setbacks when facing the thorns of life, and walk in the ocean of life more calmly!
Gratitude is an eternal topic, which can always arouse people's reverie. Today, I have a deeper understanding of it. Let's be a grateful person!