Those who can reply to your wechat in seconds must care about you, and those who can't reply in seconds don't care or love.
Actually, it's not like this. Otherwise, why did the person who answered your message in seconds turn around and leave later?
Wechat is a window to know a person and a platform for love. But don't be too dependent. The real feeling is that after putting down the phone, you can hug deeply, eat well and sleep well.
If you do it with your heart, you will find that most people who reply to messages in seconds are controlled by some form, for example, chatting with others while replying to your messages in seconds. You don't have to care about a person with your heart and feelings.
Let's try to explain the reason for the second return.
1. seconds back to the message is a respectful attitude, but I think too much.
When we deal with people, we will naturally form some inertial thinking.
Someone gives you a fish, and every few days, you must reciprocate, either by inviting him to dinner or giving you something else. Moreover, the return gift cannot be exactly the same, and it should be decided according to the family situation of the other party.
When someone reaches out, you will naturally reach out and shake hands with him. You can't ignore others, leaving their hands in the air and not knowing how to take them back.
When someone calls your name, you can't help looking at him or asking "why?" .
Think along this line of thought, and you will understand that the person who replies to WeChat in time is an educated person, and he doesn't want to neglect anyone. Especially people who usually have more contact.
Once, the boss of our unit said in the group, "Please raise your hand if you like fishing."
Within two minutes, 95% of people answered "yes, no". Only two people have been indifferent.
Later, I learned that the remaining two people, truck drivers, have been running around on the road. Don't reply to the message until they stop the car.
Any group dialogue needs "question and answer", not who snubbs who.
Therefore, you must not take the second message as "love". Maybe others just respect you and show their manners.
2. "Doing nothing" mentality: always online, always brushing the screen.
A person regards brushing the screen of a mobile phone as happiness, and can hold the mobile phone all day. You should reply to anyone's news in time. If no one really looks for him, he will take the initiative to start a topic in the group.
You are very busy. After replying to WeChat and chatting for a day, you should take time out of your busy schedule to have a rest. But everyone else is idle, waiting for news.
For example, a housewife doesn't know what to do after sending her children to school. You can only pass the time with your mobile phone.
People who don't leave their mobile phones expect everyone to chat with them.
Step 3 find support.
When you are afraid of loneliness, you will also find someone to chat with online, even if the stranger of the other party will talk a few words.
There are also some people who like to surf the Internet, find people they don't know very well, and talk about their inner pain. People around him don't understand him, so they pin their emotions on the Internet.
Conclusion: From the above analysis, we can see that the person who replies to your message every second does not mean that he really likes you.